Your all over looks, you personally how you handle your partner with respect and how you go to the trouble of pleasing them not yourself only

what other things you do to your partner besides sticking your dick in and getting off!

mate we are men we are not only defined by our cock it it’s size it’s the whole way we present our masculinity
I was talking about confidence in penetrative sex.
 
I was talking about confidence in penetrative sex.
Mate it doesn’t take much length to give pleasure to the penetrated person!!!!!! But if all you do is stick it in and think heaven is created if you can ram it in 8-10 inches then confidence might be high but the relationship will be lacking heaps

be confident in the whole you and what you can offer your partner!
 
Confidence would be silly as my experience indicates my 4+ is not widely appreciated.

Hey. You talk like I've never had a relationship and wasn't married twice. Most thought "size didn't matter" going in, but over time they learn otherwise.