I personally experience the opposite. While I can appreciate a big dick, it's a turn off when it's TOO big. Like, I'm much more into realistic variation. I just love dick, so when it's reduced to this boring, exaggerated/porn-influenced caricature, I kind of zone out. "Small" for me is like, under 4 inches hard. I honestly care more about the overall shape, etc. than the size alone. Like I've drooled over 5 inchers with nice shapes, and I'd take those over some freakishly long ugly dick.