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[johnjohnston]

I don’t believe male sexuality is fluid. I think straight men would never have sexual contact with another man unless they have lowered their inhibitions by drug and alcohol use. 99% of these men are closeted gay men or bisexual men who play a role to make them more comfortable. Men having sex with men is not acting, it’s performing sex acts and your body is aroused and capable of doing.

I used to think just like you. That is, until I experienced fluidity myself. Arousal, desire, enjoyment, passions very well can waver for a lot of people. And it can also take time for someone to truly understand the dimensions of their “sexuality” and of the gender, emotion, romantic, relationship contentment aspects of themselves. Because we’re so obsessed with sexual behaviors and identities, and because sex is so connected to ego for most men, it can take a very long time for men to completely understand themselves. Some never get to that place of self-understanding or self-comfort. That’s even for many “out” guys. They think embracing an identity or having sex with guys is the be-all of their journey then get frustrated later. But yes, “fluidity” is a thing and a potential aspect of many people’s “sexuality”. It’s not just some theory many people decided to collectively make up.

However, yes, a lot of these men claiming to be “gay4pay” or “curious” or “open-minded” or claimed to experience fluidity are lying. Many have and have always had fairly stable dimensions. They just weren’t willing to accept it. Many have a lot of insecurities and mental health issues and constantly deal with internalized phobias and misandry. Many are ignorant when it comes to dimensions and the spectrum. The ultimate problem is that there’s still too much weight put on sex and identities. While there’s still a lot of social equity attached to “straightness” and masculinity, even among “queers”. That’s why pushing “gay4pay” is still a thing. That’s why masculine/“straight passing” privilege and worship is still a thing. That’s why “queers” trying hard to stay attached to hetero-normalcy and hetero appeal is still a thing.

 

[johnjohnston]

It also doesn’t take a rocket scientist or “queer expert” to tell this dude is low-key effeminate, no matter how much he tries to hide it with muscles and tats and a “straight” persona.

 

[TmSwim]

I used to think just like you. That is, until I experienced fluidity myself. Arousal, desire, enjoyment, passions very well can waver for a lot of people. And it can also take time for someone to truly understand the dimensions of their “sexuality” and of the gender, emotion, romantic, relationship contentment aspects of themselves. Because we’re so obsessed with sexual behaviors and identities, and because sex is so connected to ego for most men, it can take a very long time for men to completely understand themselves. Some never get to that place of self-understanding or self-comfort. That’s even for many “out” guys. They think embracing an identity or having sex with guys is the be-all of their journey then get frustrated later. But yes, “fluidity” is a thing and a potential aspect of many people’s “sexuality”. It’s not just some theory many people decided to collectively make up.

However, yes, a lot of these men claiming to be “gay4pay” or “curious” or “open-minded” or claimed to experience fluidity are lying. Many have and have always had fairly stable dimensions. They just weren’t willing to accept it. Many have a lot of insecurities and mental health issues and constantly deal with internalized phobias and misandry. Many are ignorant when it comes to dimensions and the spectrum. The ultimate problem is that there’s still too much weight put on sex and identities. While there’s still a lot of social equity attached to “straightness” and masculinity, even among “queers”. That’s why pushing “gay4pay” is still a thing. That’s why masculine/“straight passing” privilege and worship is still a thing. That’s why “queers” trying hard to stay attached to hetero-normalcy and hetero appeal is still a thing.

I feel like I'm back in psych 101, thank u for bringing me back to my college days

 

[TmSwim]

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they need to 69 and swallow!

 

[HarryWilliamJones]

Spencer still not really doing anything, just letting things be done to him. Wonder if he actually stepped it up in this live.

 

[Goldstargay]

I used to think just like you. That is, until I experienced fluidity myself. Arousal, desire, enjoyment, passions very well can waver for a lot of people. And it can also take time for someone to truly understand the dimensions of their “sexuality” and of the gender, emotion, romantic, relationship contentment aspects of themselves. Because we’re so obsessed with sexual behaviors and identities, and because sex is so connected to ego for most men, it can take a very long time for men to completely understand themselves. Some never get to that place of self-understanding or self-comfort. That’s even for many “out” guys. They think embracing an identity or having sex with guys is the be-all of their journey then get frustrated later. But yes, “fluidity” is a thing and a potential aspect of many people’s “sexuality”. It’s not just some theory many people decided to collectively make up.

However, yes, a lot of these men claiming to be “gay4pay” or “curious” or “open-minded” or claimed to experience fluidity are lying. Many have and have always had fairly stable dimensions. They just weren’t willing to accept it. Many have a lot of insecurities and mental health issues and constantly deal with internalized phobias and misandry. Many are ignorant when it comes to dimensions and the spectrum. The ultimate problem is that there’s still too much weight put on sex and identities. While there’s still a lot of social equity attached to “straightness” and masculinity, even among “queers”. That’s why pushing “gay4pay” is still a thing. That’s why masculine/“straight passing” privilege and worship is still a thing. That’s why “queers” trying hard to stay attached to hetero-normalcy and hetero appeal is still a thing.

Thanks for taking the time to answer. I just don’t buy it. Homosexuality between men is not fluid and if you are a gay man and you’ve now decided to be with women, that is an active choice and that is going against your sexual nature and it’s mostly due to the extreme homophobia in our society. A lot of men, want to be fathers And have partners and communities and the gay community, for some reason is always taught to be so anti-heteronormative. It’s so bizarre that monogamy, trust, loyalty and commitment between male partners is looked down on the gay community.

It’s no wonder why gay men have such a self deprecating view of themselves because everything that is said about our community is negative. Also to your point of identity and sexuality, I don’t understand why people continuously say that being gay doesn’t mean that it’s your identity, because as a gay man, that’s my entire identity it’s how I made friends , chose a partner, a college, a degree, a job, where I wanted to live. every choice of my life has been chosen, intentionally or unintentionally through the lens of my orientation and it’s exactly the same as how straight people make their paths.

 

[iamunknown00123]

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anyone have the full live

 

[Austinguy26]

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That's him alright
He is always high...I am not happy to say that..I am not being mean... I feel bad for anyone who... doing what he's been doing... he doesn't seem to remember alot of things

 

[Austinguy26]

Thanks for taking the time to answer. I just don’t buy it. Homosexuality between men is not fluid and if you are a gay man and you’ve now decided to be with women, that is an active choice and that is going against your sexual nature and it’s mostly due to the extreme homophobia in our society. A lot of men, want to be fathers And have partners and communities and the gay community, for some reason is always taught to be so anti-heteronormative. It’s so bizarre that monogamy, trust, loyalty and commitment between male partners is looked down on the gay community.

It’s no wonder why gay men have such a self deprecating view of themselves because everything that is said about our community is negative. Also to your point of identity and sexuality, I don’t understand why people continuously say that being gay doesn’t mean that it’s your identity, because as a gay man, that’s my entire identity it’s how I made friends , chose a partner, a college, a degree, a job, where I wanted to live. every choice of my life has been chosen, intentionally or unintentionally through the lens of my orientation and it’s exactly the same as how straight people make their paths.

I LOVE THIS ..THANK YOU FOR YOUR POST

 

[Austinguy26]

While some of these guys are just weird. Like the gay porn performers starting to have fake online relationships with women or trans people just to cause an uproar and get attention and piss off “gays”. Or like some of these guys who want to be in homo relationships but still wanna claim that they’re “straight”.

Just like everyone’s “sexuality” is different, everyone’s motivations and psychological makeup is different. Many of these dudes just have a lot of issues and would be better off leaving the porn world behind. People don’t realize just how much ego, attention, validation, insecurities are driving forces. It’s not just about money or sex.

Yes...I agree with you and appreciate this post

 

[Jace0291]

So many here still don’t get that genuine “gay4pay” is rare as hell. Needing to “fvck women” after doing something with a man is more reflective of messing with men being “foreplay” or more a reflection of self-hatred and gay panic than being “gay4pay.” I’m not saying “gay4pay” is entirely BS. But the majority of dudes who claim “gay4pay” proudly have messed around with guys with no money involved, and/or have some type of queerness, and/or experience some degrees of fluidity or curiosity, and/or are hyper-sexual and narcissistic and enjoy being worshiped anyone, and/or are somewhere in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. They are rarely truly conventional heterosexual and “straight” men who refuse to do anything queer without money involved.

I thought we’ve grown to learn enough about “sexuality” and sociology and human psychology to know that “gay4pay” is mostly about marketing, preferences, who you want to fit in with and a way for men to maintain hetero images while indulging queer shit. All you need to do is look at the slew of male performers who claimed to be “straight” and “gay4pay” only to later reveal that they have queer aspects. Hell, a good percentage of guys who strictly do hetero porn have queer aspects, some are even homo-leaning when it comes to the overall spectrum.

Once again, I’m not saying “gay4pay” is entirely a myth. But people and “sexuality” and why folks do what they do are way more complicated and individual based. A lot of y’all don’t get just large a percentage of dudes out here have queer dimensions. These guys in particular just seem like immature, insecure douches no matter their dimensions.

Yea I somewhat agree, but nobody is this world is 100% straight studies have proven that…. And not sure if what ur trying to say is a lot of these ppl are gay idt u r but not 100% sure. But yea just because ur a dude and u mess around with other dudes does not make u gay or even bi u have to have romantic or sexual attraction for men in general for that to be the case

 

[Jace0291]

I would predict that in studio porn and among male creators who do full gay sex videos like 70% are bisexual 20-25% is gay and 2-5% is straight/asexual.

Obviously there will be a lot of bisexual guys who will identify as straight or as gay despite being turned on by men/women and enjoying sex with them.

Straight (or asexual) ones would be those who are absolutely turned off or indifferent to male body and sex with other guys, don't enjoy it at all and the whole experience is miserable at best and traumatising at worst.

Actually if I’m not mistaken I believe I read a few places that about 20-25% of the gay porn industry is straight but I may be wrong on that…. I do know I’ve heard many places that the the amount of guys that are straight in the gay porn industry is quite higher than a lot of people think

 

[Jace0291]

I would predict that in studio porn and among male creators who do full gay sex videos like 70% are bisexual 20-25% is gay and 2-5% is straight/asexual.

Obviously there will be a lot of bisexual guys who will identify as straight or as gay despite being turned on by men/women and enjoying sex with them.

Straight (or asexual) ones would be those who are absolutely turned off or indifferent to male body and sex with other guys, don't enjoy it at all and the whole experience is miserable at best and traumatising at worst.

But also false a decent amount of straight men are not turned on by guys in general but enjoy sex or fooling around with them and experimenting…. Just because someone has sex with men for example doesent mean there’s sexual attraction there

 

[Jace0291]

I doubt there are any “asexual” dudes in person-with-person porn. Even if they have a low sex drive or deal with a lot of fluidity or are turned off/triggered by certain situations or certain people sometimes, they’re still not really “asexual”.

“Sexuality” is very weird and individual. It’s not just about what arouses you or even the type of sex you enjoy. Some people just like getting worshiped by certain types of people even if there’s little to no attractions to that person. Some people just like being dominated and it doesn’t matter the type of person doing it. Some people don’t really like sexually engaging with the types of people who turn them on. Some people grow up sexually engaging with a certain type of person and become comfortable with that even if their preferences don’t really align. Some people are turned on by body parts but really the entirety of that person. Some people get off most on indulging situations that they think as “subversive” or “pervy”. Then there’s fluidity and contradictions and other paraphiliacs/fetishes. Then there’s the gender, romantic, affection, emotion, relationship contentment aspect of things. Then there’s how much politics or sociology or money or ego plays into identity and presented behaviors. While yes, at least 50% of dudes in both hetero and homo porn probably fit into the bi or pan spectrum in some way, including many “straight” and “gay” presenting guys. All of this is why we need to move on from over-hyping identities, because it often keeps guys from being 100% real and just furthers game playing and manipulation and undermines just how important preferences and romantic/emotional leanings still are. But it’s especially why we need to move on from pushing the “gay4pay” narrative. In most cases, it’s a myth.

I just quickly skimmed this but from what I did read I think u are 100% correct

 

[Jace0291]

While some of these guys are just weird. Like the gay porn performers starting to have fake online relationships with women or trans people just to cause an uproar and get attention and piss off “gays”. Or like some of these guys who want to be in homo relationships but still wanna claim that they’re “straight”.

Just like everyone’s “sexuality” is different, everyone’s motivations and psychological makeup is different. Many of these dudes just have a lot of issues and would be better off leaving the porn world behind. People don’t realize just how much ego, attention, validation, insecurities are driving forces. It’s not just about money or sex.

I don’t totally disagree with you but there are some people out there who are truly straight or are truly gay but there in a relationship with a person opposite of there sexual orientation for many different reasons but one possibility is they just happen to find that one person they fell in love with for whatever reason

 

[Jace0291]

You’re forgetting that women and gay men have a sexual orientation that aligns with the sexual content they make. These “straight” men manipulate and abuse their mental health to make quick money. That is not only dangerous for the bait guy but also the gay men that aid them. These content creators see gay men as predators and paychecks. They don’t understand the struggles of the gay community.

I don’t believe male sexuality is fluid. I think straight men would never have sexual contact with another man unless they have lowered their inhibitions by drug and alcohol use. 99% of these men are closeted gay men or bisexual men who play a role to make them more comfortable. Men having sex with men is not acting, it’s performing sex acts and your body is aroused and capable of doing.

These straight fuck boys are so toxic i dunno why gay subs mess with them. I get people have fantasies but these guys are so mentally unstable it’s sad. If you spent 5 mins with these guys irl i doubt your erection would last 5 mins.

I watched a podcast interview with Braxton stone or Spencer-whatever his manager calls him and his disrespect for gay men and the community was so cringe it was depressing. He took little time to verbalize his feelings about the men he has made content with and said it’s only for money!

How can this guy walk away in 5 or 10 years mentally healthy.

Not true necessarily Ive heard of plenty of straight and lesbian women having sex with men and women, and I am pretty confident it didn’t affect their mental health or anything…. And I know many straight and gay guys who have done the same and are not a affected by it

 

[Jace0291]

You’re forgetting that women and gay men have a sexual orientation that aligns with the sexual content they make. These “straight” men manipulate and abuse their mental health to make quick money. That is not only dangerous for the bait guy but also the gay men that aid them. These content creators see gay men as predators and paychecks. They don’t understand the struggles of the gay community.

I don’t believe male sexuality is fluid. I think straight men would never have sexual contact with another man unless they have lowered their inhibitions by drug and alcohol use. 99% of these men are closeted gay men or bisexual men who play a role to make them more comfortable. Men having sex with men is not acting, it’s performing sex acts and your body is aroused and capable of doing.

These straight fuck boys are so toxic i dunno why gay subs mess with them. I get people have fantasies but these guys are so mentally unstable it’s sad. If you spent 5 mins with these guys irl i doubt your erection would last 5 mins.

I watched a podcast interview with Braxton stone or Spencer-whatever his manager calls him and his disrespect for gay men and the community was so cringe it was depressing. He took little time to verbalize his feelings about the men he has made content with and said it’s only for money!

How can this guy walk away in 5 or 10 years mentally healthy.

I mean the hundreds and hundreds of articles case studies by experts and other people that I’ve read over the years I think would prove that sexuality is fluid and I’ve seen/experienced and heard of plenty of straight men who slept with other men without drugs and alcohol, and are still straight to this day Obviously And are married or engaged to women and have kids and are perfectly happy. They just had that one person in their past that was a guy who they had sex with potentially multiple times… I think what we’re forgetting here is the exact definition of sexual orientation… The definition basically is sexual attraction, and or, romantic attraction for someone of a certain gender/identity… for example, just because you have sex with somebody doesn’t mean you want to be in a relationship with somebody which is what romantic attraction is and just because you sleep with someone does not mean that you sexually desire or think about them, and want to have sex with them plenty of times people, straight or gay or lesbian, or whatever have sex with people on the whim, or don’t necessarily desire, or think about them in that kind of way is the best way I could put it

 

[TmSwim]

I mean the hundreds and hundreds of articles case studies by experts and other people that I’ve read over the years I think would prove that sexuality is fluid and I’ve seen/experienced and heard of plenty of straight men who slept with other men without drugs and alcohol, and are still straight to this day Obviously And are married or engaged to women and have kids and are perfectly happy. They just had that one person in their past that was a guy who they had sex with potentially multiple times… I think what we’re forgetting here is the exact definition of sexual orientation… The definition basically is sexual attraction, and or, romantic attraction for someone of a certain gender/identity… for example, just because you have sex with somebody doesn’t mean you want to be in a relationship with somebody which is what romantic attraction is and just because you sleep with someone does not mean that you sexually desire or think about them, and want to have sex with them plenty of times people, straight or gay or lesbian, or whatever have sex with people on the whim, or don’t necessarily desire, or think about them in that kind of way is the best way I could put it

The one comment I'll add, I don't think I could ever have sex with a woman. And if I did it would have to be for an astronomical amount of money and I still would probably not be able to get excited, not without the help of party favors so to speak lol
I can appreciate a woman's beauty but sex, I shudder at the thought.
Spencer doing the most with guys for $20, I mean, how completely straight can he be?

 

[Jace0291]

You’re forgetting that women and gay men have a sexual orientation that aligns with the sexual content they make. These “straight” men manipulate and abuse their mental health to make quick money. That is not only dangerous for the bait guy but also the gay men that aid them. These content creators see gay men as predators and paychecks. They don’t understand the struggles of the gay community.

I don’t believe male sexuality is fluid. I think straight men would never have sexual contact with another man unless they have lowered their inhibitions by drug and alcohol use. 99% of these men are closeted gay men or bisexual men who play a role to make them more comfortable. Men having sex with men is not acting, it’s performing sex acts and your body is aroused and capable of doing.

These straight fuck boys are so toxic i dunno why gay subs mess with them. I get people have fantasies but these guys are so mentally unstable it’s sad. If you spent 5 mins with these guys irl i doubt your erection would last 5 mins.

I watched a podcast interview with Braxton stone or Spencer-whatever his manager calls him and his disrespect for gay men and the community was so cringe it was depressing. He took little time to verbalize his feelings about the men he has made content with and said it’s only for money!

How can this guy walk away in 5 or 10 years mentally healthy.

Also, I mean straight or gay almost all porn stars do it for the money I mean I’m pretty sure there’s a lot of stuff or people they wouldn’t be sleeping with if it wasn’t for the money so the fact that Spencer said that it’s just for the money isn’t really any different than any other female or male in the porn industry

 

[Jace0291]

It also doesn’t take a rocket scientist or “queer expert” to tell this dude is low-key effeminate, no matter how much he tries to hide it with muscles and tats and a “straight” persona.

I mean just because ur effeminate doesent make u gay I know ppl who I swear act or sound at least a lil bit feminine, but possibly unfortunately they love the pussy for some reason.