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johnjohnston said:
I didn’t present what I said as “facts”. But it’s mere common sense. Never mind that I took a couple of queer theory classes. (I don’t like to throw that around, because I don’t think it validates anything I say). It’s rather silly in 2024 to still be hyping up “gay4pay” or to not understand how individual “sexuality” and people’s psyches are or to dismiss how vast and varied the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum is. I personally don’t care about identity. And I recognize that men who are truly hetero and “straight” can indulge queer behaviors. But the only folks still hyping up “gay4pay” are queers who are into that fantasy fully, dudes with queer dimensions who still want to be “straight presenting”, and monosexuals who don’t understand the “quirks” of the spectrum.
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Good, because it wasn't factual or "common sense", just as queer theory is theory and not factual or common sense. Glad we agree. Only point left is that you mentioned people who are into "fantasy", as though porn is anything else BUT fantasy. Like fake boobs - everyone knows they are fake, but plays along.
Or most everyone. Maybe not those who have studied "boobs theory"? :D Peace.
 
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deleted25195551 said:
Ok so I am completely new here but reading through this thread I had to speak up. Cashgod Spence is NOT spencer, but a known catfish. It’s the exact same catfish that has the “alpharickyx” Twitter page (using all of Rocky Yarborough’s pics) and cashgod Blake (using all of Blake hoffman’s pics) and that’s just a few of the catfish accounts. The braxtonstonevip Twitter page IS Spencer.
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Correct. Everyone go and report cashgodspence.
 
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Goldstargay said:
I don’t believe male sexuality is fluid. I think straight men would never have sexual contact with another man unless they have lowered their inhibitions by drug and alcohol use. 99% of these men are closeted gay men or bisexual men who play a role to make them more comfortable. Men having sex with men is not acting, it’s performing sex acts and your body is aroused and capable of doing.
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I used to think just like you. That is, until I experienced fluidity myself. Arousal, desire, enjoyment, passions very well can waver for a lot of people. And it can also take time for someone to truly understand the dimensions of their “sexuality” and of the gender, emotion, romantic, relationship contentment aspects of themselves. Because we’re so obsessed with sexual behaviors and identities, and because sex is so connected to ego for most men, it can take a very long time for men to completely understand themselves. Some never get to that place of self-understanding or self-comfort. That’s even for many “out” guys. They think embracing an identity or having sex with guys is the be-all of their journey then get frustrated later. But yes, “fluidity” is a thing and a potential aspect of many people’s “sexuality”. It’s not just some theory many people decided to collectively make up.

However, yes, a lot of these men claiming to be “gay4pay” or “curious” or “open-minded” or claimed to experience fluidity are lying. Many have and have always had fairly stable dimensions. They just weren’t willing to accept it. Many have a lot of insecurities and mental health issues and constantly deal with internalized phobias and misandry. Many are ignorant when it comes to dimensions and the spectrum. The ultimate problem is that there’s still too much weight put on sex and identities. While there’s still a lot of social equity attached to “straightness” and masculinity, even among “queers”. That’s why pushing “gay4pay” is still a thing. That’s why masculine/“straight passing” privilege and worship is still a thing. That’s why “queers” trying hard to stay attached to hetero-normalcy and hetero appeal is still a thing.
 
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johnjohnston said:
I used to think just like you. That is, until I experienced fluidity myself. Arousal, desire, enjoyment, passions very well can waver for a lot of people. And it can also take time for someone to truly understand the dimensions of their “sexuality” and of the gender, emotion, romantic, relationship contentment aspects of themselves. Because we’re so obsessed with sexual behaviors and identities, and because sex is so connected to ego for most men, it can take a very long time for men to completely understand themselves. Some never get to that place of self-understanding or self-comfort. That’s even for many “out” guys. They think embracing an identity or having sex with guys is the be-all of their journey then get frustrated later. But yes, “fluidity” is a thing and a potential aspect of many people’s “sexuality”. It’s not just some theory many people decided to collectively make up.

However, yes, a lot of these men claiming to be “gay4pay” or “curious” or “open-minded” or claimed to experience fluidity are lying. Many have and have always had fairly stable dimensions. They just weren’t willing to accept it. Many have a lot of insecurities and mental health issues and constantly deal with internalized phobias and misandry. Many are ignorant when it comes to dimensions and the spectrum. The ultimate problem is that there’s still too much weight put on sex and identities. While there’s still a lot of social equity attached to “straightness” and masculinity, even among “queers”. That’s why pushing “gay4pay” is still a thing. That’s why masculine/“straight passing” privilege and worship is still a thing. That’s why “queers” trying hard to stay attached to hetero-normalcy and hetero appeal is still a thing.
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I feel like I'm back in psych 101, thank u for bringing me back to my college days :blush:
 
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johnjohnston said:
I used to think just like you. That is, until I experienced fluidity myself. Arousal, desire, enjoyment, passions very well can waver for a lot of people. And it can also take time for someone to truly understand the dimensions of their “sexuality” and of the gender, emotion, romantic, relationship contentment aspects of themselves. Because we’re so obsessed with sexual behaviors and identities, and because sex is so connected to ego for most men, it can take a very long time for men to completely understand themselves. Some never get to that place of self-understanding or self-comfort. That’s even for many “out” guys. They think embracing an identity or having sex with guys is the be-all of their journey then get frustrated later. But yes, “fluidity” is a thing and a potential aspect of many people’s “sexuality”. It’s not just some theory many people decided to collectively make up.

However, yes, a lot of these men claiming to be “gay4pay” or “curious” or “open-minded” or claimed to experience fluidity are lying. Many have and have always had fairly stable dimensions. They just weren’t willing to accept it. Many have a lot of insecurities and mental health issues and constantly deal with internalized phobias and misandry. Many are ignorant when it comes to dimensions and the spectrum. The ultimate problem is that there’s still too much weight put on sex and identities. While there’s still a lot of social equity attached to “straightness” and masculinity, even among “queers”. That’s why pushing “gay4pay” is still a thing. That’s why masculine/“straight passing” privilege and worship is still a thing. That’s why “queers” trying hard to stay attached to hetero-normalcy and hetero appeal is still a thing.
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Thanks for taking the time to answer. I just don’t buy it. Homosexuality between men is not fluid and if you are a gay man and you’ve now decided to be with women, that is an active choice and that is going against your sexual nature and it’s mostly due to the extreme homophobia in our society. A lot of men, want to be fathers And have partners and communities and the gay community, for some reason is always taught to be so anti-heteronormative. It’s so bizarre that monogamy, trust, loyalty and commitment between male partners is looked down on the gay community.

It’s no wonder why gay men have such a self deprecating view of themselves because everything that is said about our community is negative. Also to your point of identity and sexuality, I don’t understand why people continuously say that being gay doesn’t mean that it’s your identity, because as a gay man, that’s my entire identity it’s how I made friends , chose a partner, a college, a degree, a job, where I wanted to live. every choice of my life has been chosen, intentionally or unintentionally through the lens of my orientation and it’s exactly the same as how straight people make their paths.
 
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Goldstargay said:
Thanks for taking the time to answer. I just don’t buy it. Homosexuality between men is not fluid and if you are a gay man and you’ve now decided to be with women, that is an active choice and that is going against your sexual nature and it’s mostly due to the extreme homophobia in our society. A lot of men, want to be fathers And have partners and communities and the gay community, for some reason is always taught to be so anti-heteronormative. It’s so bizarre that monogamy, trust, loyalty and commitment between male partners is looked down on the gay community.

It’s no wonder why gay men have such a self deprecating view of themselves because everything that is said about our community is negative. Also to your point of identity and sexuality, I don’t understand why people continuously say that being gay doesn’t mean that it’s your identity, because as a gay man, that’s my entire identity it’s how I made friends , chose a partner, a college, a degree, a job, where I wanted to live. every choice of my life has been chosen, intentionally or unintentionally through the lens of my orientation and it’s exactly the same as how straight people make their paths.
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I LOVE THIS ❤️ ..THANK YOU FOR YOUR POST
 
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