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Have you had a conversation about this ? A nice heart to heart & tell her how much you love it when she....fill in the blank...
I have no idea if its stress, work, children...there are so many factors that can impede ...a couple in bed. But honestly the best way IS to start with a no pressure talk. Maybe she would like you to do something special ? Communication is so important.
I’ve heard the many factors you mentioned many times, so it’s great that that information is out there. I’ve come to understand them, and the impact they have in the bedroom. I have also had the no pressure talk several times, one of them having happened about 2 weeks ago. The last few conversations about it haven’t been centered around oral at all either, but primarily about my need to release more frequently than I have been. Quite honestly I’m beginning to feel as if she doesn’t like pleasuring me. This is the primary reason that your original comment struck me.
 
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I’ve heard the many factors you mentioned many times, so it’s great that that information is out there. I’ve come to understand them, and the impact they have in the bedroom. I have also had the no pressure talk several times, one of them having happened about 2 weeks ago. The last few conversations about it haven’t been centered around oral at all either, but primarily about my need to release more frequently than I have been. Quite honestly I’m beginning to feel as if she doesn’t like pleasuring me. This is the primary reason that your original comment struck me.
I have learned this, is there ANY other issue anything she might be upset about ?

Perhaps a day in bed where you pamper each other, a bath, then massage & then onto other pleasing things ? Have FUN with is without being too serious....almost as if you both had 1st met ?
Then you can tell her how beautiful & sexy she is & how you love when she touches, kisses you ....do it to her 1st....i guarantee if she is happy ...you will be happy -:)

If not then suggest counseling together ?
I do understand your frustration, because not being pleased that way can feel like a rejection. Hang in there & see how it goes -:)
 
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I have learned this, is there ANY other issue anything she might be upset about ?

Perhaps a day in bed where you pamper each other, a bath, then massage & then onto other pleasing things ? Have FUN with is without being too serious....almost as if you both had 1st met ?
Then you can tell her how beautiful & sexy she is & how you love when she touches, kisses you ....do it to her 1st....i guarantee if she is happy ...you will be happy -:)

If not then suggest counseling together ?
I do understand your frustration, because not being pleased that way can feel like a rejection. Hang in there & see how it goes -:)
Incredible, thank you so much for this reply! I’m thankful for your input and genuine answer. You have given me a great idea, and got my thoughts going on some ways to fix this, I really appreciate your time and thoughts!
 
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Yes, that's a shame...sometimes I will spend 10 minutes just lightly rubbing my nails and fingers all around the balls and cock of my hubby, drives him wild!!!! Then I suck and lick and whoa!!!
Balls need a good suck too ... and when massaging the balls she plays with my ass, while sucking inside the little hole on the head? paradise on earth
 
Incredible, thank you so much for this reply! I’m thankful for your input and genuine answer. You have given me a great idea, and got my thoughts going on some ways to fix this, I really appreciate your time and thoughts!
You are very welcome, feel free to pm me if I can be of any further help. Let me know how it goes for you both -:)
 
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