Straight guys like girls with strap ons?

[Phil Ayesho]

Ok, at least one problem here is that you're serving up the assfucking as the main dish,

No- I am merely examining the ass fucking itself.

No doubt that most men who like a girl to strap one on delight in everything a woman has to offer.

That does not make the ass fucking, in itself, any LESS an assfucking.

You don't "water down' the simulated penile penetration aspect of the assfucking by sandwiching it between two breasts.

Accept that it kinda is.

I assume you mean "except".... and I disagree. tie you down blindfolded and shove a cock shaped dildoe up your ass or a real cock the same size and you will not be able to tell the difference.
The physical sensation is essentially the same.

Though I do agree that KNOWING whether its real or not makes a huge difference in how you respond.

Well given that no woman I've yet been with has done this to me, and I'm in the middle of a long sex drought and have an entire thread basically devoted to getting me laid...I think I can speak to this being a crock of crap. :biggrin1:

First- most men won't opt for men if there are women around... try prison where you KNOW there's no chance for 5 years and see how you do...

Second, I am not saying you will be one of the men willing to take it in the ass... you might be one of the men willing to give it... or at least be sucked off by another man.

And why is auto-eroticism out of the question here? It's pretty easy to self-stimulate your prostate (Don't believe me? Watch the vids in my gallery and see if you can contradict me :biggrin1...with no one but yourself involved.

Nothing is out of the question. I stipulated that you can stick a finger or a string of balls up your ass... or even an electrode... and that would clearly NOT be simulated male penetration.

But if you are on all fours... and someone behind you has a fake dick stuck to their pelvis and his stroking it in and out of you...
THAT is ONE THING and what that thing is is CLEAR to everyone... whether they are open minded enough to admit to it or not.

So I guess you'll be willing to say that since I stroke my cock off far, far more regularly than I stroke my prostate that what I'm really after is for other guys to touch and stroke my dick, right?

Do you READ english?
I am not saying what anyone is REALLY AFTER...

I am saying what they are really doing.
And in point of fact... read the forum... Straight guys who stroke their own all the time are MORE likely to be willing to stroke another guy's....

Hell, I've even managed (when I was a bit skinnier and making good use of flexibility) to self-suck. Not much, but I guess that means I want I really want is other dudes sucking me off.

Well, since your BRAIN is in the end that's doing the sucking, no, I would say that sucking your own cock is STILL cock sucking. And that, if you LIKE sucking your own cock... then, chances are, you would enjoy sucking another guy's cock.

By that I do not mean that you would be attracted to men, want to kiss men or become a flaming queer.


Just that you would probably enjoy sucking ANOTHER cock as much as you enjoy sucking your own..

 

[surferboy]

And the ones claiming 100% straight are, nevertheless, here scoping out other men's cocks. nuff said.

no. not "nuff said." by this logic, if a chick has he friend help her with a breast cancer exam, they were lesbians. when my doc tells me to turn my head and cough, that makes him gay. just because you look at a cock doesn't make you gay.

another good analogy would be for me for say that if you watch porn with one guy and one girl, you're gay because you can see cock

 

[johnjacobs]

I was watching Attack of the Show on G4 and during the sex advice segment, they had a guy who asked if he was gay because he would like his girlfriend to wear a strap on. And one of the hosts said "If a guy wants it up the butt, he's gay. You're gay." The other host said it was borderline.

What do you guys think?

I don't think it's necessarily gay at all. If a certain spot on your body feels good when it's stimulated, how does that define your sexual orientation if you want it touched? However, if your girlfriend is doing you in the butt and you're imagining her to be a guy, then yeah, kinda gay. But if you just like the way it feels, not gay at all.

Haha, true. When Jamie becomes Jimmy, you might want to reassess the situation.

 

[johnjacobs]

I also really hate reading about this type of thing: "Well, you like it up the butt, even though a girl's doing it, that's gay!" Give me a fucking break. In my mind you are only gay if you have decided WITHOUT QUESTION you exclusively are only attracted to men and only want to be with men.

As previously stated, if you like getting you're asshole played with that's no different that getting your cock played with. Who doesn't like that? C'mon! Fucking stereotypical norms sway everybody's belief in thinking it's gay.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

no. not "nuff said." by this logic, if a chick has he friend help her with a breast cancer exam, they were lesbians. when my doc tells me to turn my head and cough, that makes him gay. just because you look at a cock doesn't make you gay.

That is not even remotely a correct correlation.
First, I did not even suggest that sucking cock makes you gay, much less looking at cock.

What I said was that if you enjoy looking at other men's cocks, that you ENJOY it.

Wow, what a stretch.. if I enjoy something, I enjoy it.... hmmm

And what I said was that if you enjoy having a cock shaped thing rammed in and out your ass, then you enjoy cock shaped things rammed in and out your ass.
If you like a cock shaped thing attached to a person like it was a cock and rammed in and out in simulation of fucking... then you like to be fucked in the ass.


All I am saying is this.... STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES.

JUST LOOK AT WHAT YOU ARE DOING. ITs Self explanatory.



You walk into a room and see a guy at his computer...and he's flipping thru page after page of pictures of other men's erect cocks... a cursory check of his browser history shows he FREQUENTLY browses pictures of other men's dicks.

He likes looking at cocks. That is a well supported conclusion.
If he has a boner while doing it, then he REALLY likes looking at cocks.

Now, He can sputter and dissemble and evade all he wants... but that's because HE is afraid of you knowing something about him that he feels you will use to judge him unkindly.


But it's not a judgment, not a label.
Its an observation.
If you enjoy it, you enjoy it... period.

THose who keep reacting are reacting to the ASSUMPTION that I am saying this makes them gay.

Let me get this straight. Gay is NOT about what or who you fuck or suck.

Its about who you fall in love with.

For men... sex CAN be nothing more than a release of pent up testosterone fueled tension.

History shows that MOST men can and will get their rocks off any way they can.

It doesn't make you Gay to look at cocks anymore than it makes you gay to stroke your own.

You do it cause it feels good.

And what feels good has little to do with romantic attraction.

Sheesh- get over yourselves... its not my fault that getting assfucked feels good..
But it is still getting assfucked.

 

[The Dragon]

I have had anal sex with male partners with a strap on.
It is always consensual.
I am always grateful to find a partner who is confortable enough with themselves and me to let me pleasure him in this way.
For me I want him to explore.
I want him to explore the sexual potential his body has.
I know for a fact that stimulating the male prostate will give him huge multi orgasms that very few penile orgasms will.
I get a vast amount of pleasure myself in helping him go places he hasn't been before, pushing his boundaries and helping him see himself and his body with more delight.

 

[pvk]

It is the label of gay and straight and bi that is incorrect. I describe myself to be 100% heterosexual but I enjoy my woman to use a very large dildo inside me. She is very understanding and she enjoys the experiece also it gives me. Also her as a result! I admire also the very large penis of another man and it arouses me very very greatly but I do not think myself to be gay. But I guess in this logic I must not describe as a label to be 100% heterosexual also!

 

[D_Chocho_Lippz]

In response to OP...

I am straight and having a girl do me with a strap-on has always been a fantasy of mine...

The host(s) sound like homophobes.

 

[conchis]

I was watching Attack of the Show on G4 and during the sex advice segment, they had a guy who asked if he was gay because he would like his girlfriend to wear a strap on. And one of the hosts said "If a guy wants it up the butt, he's gay. You're gay." The other host said it was borderline.

What do you guys think?

I don't think it's necessarily gay at all. If a certain spot on your body feels good when it's stimulated, how does that define your sexual orientation if you want it touched? However, if your girlfriend is doing you in the butt and you're imagining her to be a guy, then yeah, kinda gay. But if you just like the way it feels, not gay at all.

an anus is an anus. a straight guy that love to play with his asshole is not a gay. anal equal homosexuality is a (gay) cliché. what define homosexuality? to love people of your same sex or to love to insert something up your butt?

 

[D_Chocho_Lippz]

Wow....

I went back and read some of the post and I have to say that Phil is a whole lot crazier than I thought.

I am glad the everyone else is on the same page, though. :biggrin1:

And one other thing I thought of, not all gay guys are bottoms. A LOT of gay guys don't like to have things up their asses. According to G4's Attack of the Show, these men are straight.

I like this analogy.

 

[D_Seymour_Dix]

Wow....

I went back and read some of the post and I have to say that Phil is a whole lot crazier than I thought.

I am glad the everyone else is on the same page, though. :biggrin1:

lol, I agree. So much for open-mindedness. As many others have said. Homosexual (or Gay) means, when you break it down, same sex.

Female fucking Male with strap on, Male being fucked by Female with strap on. Nope, I can't put the words in any order that makes it Homo, or Gay.

 

[surferboy]

Gay is NOT about what or who you fuck or suck.

Its about who you fall in love with.

that's what i've been saying

 

[D_Teasdale Tittithorne]

Phil - what about girls who like to fuck girls with strap-ons? What does that make them?

 

[HazelGod]

I get a vast amount of pleasure myself in helping him go places he hasn't been before, pushing his boundaries and helping him see himself and his body with more delight.

Remind me again when you're coming to the States...? :wink:

 

[veganchef]

i am totally straight yet i very much enjoy having my ass played with. And there is something incredibly erotic about seeing a woman strap it on and prepare to turn me over.... been a while since i have been put in that position

 

[inducer]

Interesting isn it? Sexuality is very complex indeed and strap ons...well never tried but i would. Am i gay? I say at least 1% and i dont think anyone is 100% str8 or gay but most are either more one way than the other.

Is it gay though for a woman with a strap on to fuck a bloke? Well it could be looked at as just a bit kinky but it dont involve two men so i would say no. Any ladies got a strap on?

 

[D_Shia LePoof]

The ironic thing is I wouldn't mind letting the host Olivia Munn fuck me w/ a strap on.

He'll yeah that's what I'm talking about Oliva Munn could nail me anytime

 

[FastErik1973]

I enjoy getting pegged from my gf's 9x7 strapon dong!! Plus I tell my gf it's good for my prostate.