Cool. Yeah, I want the experience to be comfortable and fun for them. Nothing better than making a curious guy cum for the first time with another man.
I always enjoy being with a straight married guy. Always great experiences, they treat me well and always such passionate fucks.
I find it fairly easy to find a partner, but finding a place is much harder. Hosting is always a problem.
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I feel ya. I think going to a bar that bi and gay guys go to might be a good option. At least that way you can actually see and talk to each other.
Keep the hope, man. Mid 40's here too, married with kids. Just this summer I had a FWB with a 24 y/o. It was amazing and everything I wanted. It actually helped my sex life at home too.
Young gay guys like me like an older straight Dom daddy type so there is definitely hope.
Like you, I too enjoyed checking out guys and a few years ago, I did have an opportunity to hook up with a guy. We ended up just having a handjob and I found the experience to be a little disappointing, but I was glad I had the experience. It turns out that while I like checking out guys, I actually wasn't interesting in doing anything physical with them. Honestly, I sometimes think the fantasy is more exciting that reality.
So I take it you have no desire to feel what it’s like to get rimmed and/or fuck a guy?
Based on that experience, yes, I would say so, but of course, one doesn’t want to limit oneself.
Don’t limit yourself to one experience. Maybe you just didn’t have the right guy for a first time.
I’m in the same boat. Happily married for 22 years but curious to play around with a guy. I’m not romantically attracted and have no desire to make out, but I do want to jerk off, frot, and trade head.
You should definitely try being with a guy. I’m married but at 47 I finally got the nerve up to suck a cock. It is wonderful and at 53 bottomed for first time. If you’re curious you need to go for it.
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Some do, and definitely it's limiting for someone in their 40s to think they can't get with someone younger. One of the nice things about pushing the boat a little from straightland is that fluidity is much more the norm, as you aren't limited in partnering by what is considered acceptable in order to build families (which defines norms around straight relationships so much). People simply have a more open mind about being with people they like, rather than with people their communities think they should be with.
The problem is often that making the step between curiosities and fantasies to a real life engagement is hard for folks. It's one thing to dream of cock, quite another to put one in your mouth
Pity, as it is such a fine thing to do in life ...
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I like to call it super surfacing and the desire becomes so strong that it reaches a point where it must be fulfilled
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