The Injustice Of Having A Tiny Dick

it happened again. I was dating a guy things going great and then he got my pants off and didn't call me again....how often has this happened to you other small gay guys?
Believe it or not it happened pretty often for me too, I feel like media and what not makes it seem like a big cock is a must in a guy. When in reality some of my worst sexual experiences were with guys who were well endowed.. it’s pretty to look at but not necessarily a plus.
 
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Look the reality is size matters. And especially for gay guys. I wish people would just admit it or be frank with me instead of making up excuses for not seeing me again. I know some guys don't care about dick size, but it seems the large majority do.
 
Look the reality is size matters. And especially for gay guys. I wish people would just admit it or be frank with me instead of making up excuses for not seeing me again. I know some guys don't care about dick size, but it seems the large majority do.
If you only look for sexual adventure I would say yes, although not everyone is the same. I have a big cock and feel very attracted to guys with small cocks. So you can never generalise. Also age has something to do with it aswell. When you are with more older mature guys cock size gets less important and sexual experience is wanted. When you look for a real longterm relationship also other things are more important than only the cocksize.
 
If you only look for sexual adventure I would say yes, although not everyone is the same. I have a big cock and feel very attracted to guys with small cocks. So you can never generalise. Also age has something to do with it aswell. When you are with more older mature guys cock size gets less important and sexual experience is wanted. When you look for a real longterm relationship also other things are more important than only the cocksize.
Being "less important" does not mean it is not still factored in, and/or that it is their ideal for the physical aspect of sex and they do not want it or long for it.
 
If you only look for sexual adventure I would say yes, although not everyone is the same. I have a big cock and feel very attracted to guys with small cocks. So you can never generalise. Also age has something to do with it aswell. When you are with more older mature guys cock size gets less important and sexual experience is wanted. When you look for a real longterm relationship also other things are more important than only the cocksize.
You would not like to be small yourself, right? And is not sexual adventure still part of the package in a long-term relationship?
 
You would not like to be small yourself, right?
That's a very interesting question, but I don't think it's as simple as concluding "If you wouldn't want to be small, then you are admitting that small men are inferior to large men as sexual beings." For one thing, it depends whether we are talking about straight or gay sex. A big-dicked gay man could be attracted to small-dicked man without wanting to be small himself. The attraction alone implies regard for the small-dicked man as sexually worthy of attention. His attraction is no less genuine for being uncommon.

I'm gay and small, so I know that many men would say my dick is of no interest to them. That doesn't mean the ones who are interested are lying or wrong.
 
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That's a very interesting question, but I don't think it's as simple as concluding "If you wouldn't want to be small, then you are admitting that small men are inferior to large men as sexual beings." For one thing, it depends whether we are talking about straight or gay sex. A big-dicked gay man could be attracted to small-dicked man without wanting to be small himself. The attraction alone implies regard for the small-dicked man as sexually worthy of attention. His attraction is no less genuine for being uncommon.

I'm gay and small, so I know that many men would say my dick is of no interest to them. That doesn't mean the ones who are interested are lying or wrong.
Yes it does. Not wanting to be small proves that they see no benefit or advantage in being small. The fact that they may be attracted to small (either to feel superior, dominant, sph, or whatever else) does not mean they do not realize the advantages and benefits of being big themselves.
 
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That's a very interesting question, but I don't think it's as simple as concluding "If you wouldn't want to be small, then you are admitting that small men are inferior to large men as sexual beings." For one thing, it depends whether we are talking about straight or gay sex. A big-dicked gay man could be attracted to small-dicked man without wanting to be small himself. The attraction alone implies regard for the small-dicked man as sexually worthy of attention. His attraction is no less genuine for being uncommon.

I'm gay and small, so I know that many men would say my dick is of no interest to them. That doesn't mean the ones who are interested are lying or wrong.
Just a heads up if you didn't already know, Harry is... special. Nothing will get through to him. I absolutely understand and sympathize with the struggle of having a below average dick. But Harry takes it to the extreme. You won't convince him and it will be a waste of time. He'll find anything he can to counter you as you can see with my long winded tirade to try and open his mind.
 
I think small dicks are kind of a turn on, maybe its just me, but I think there is entire threads devoted to it, there will always people who have certain preferences, its just the nature of things. I mean some guys like thin guys, some guys will only go for fit guys. I think more people get turned down these days, based on their age than their dick size. Gay men can be shallow, or men in general really, so find ones that like you and aren't or who appreciate you for what you have.
 
I think small dicks are kind of a turn on, maybe its just me, but I think there is entire threads devoted to it, there will always people who have certain preferences, its just the nature of things. I mean some guys like thin guys, some guys will only go for fit guys. I think more people get turned down these days, based on their age than their dick size. Gay men can be shallow, or men in general really, so find ones that like you and aren't or who appreciate you for what you have.
"Kinda" really says a lot. You would not want to be small yourself, I'm sure, for a reason. Gay men are not the only issue, at least not for me. Being "appreciated" is not the same as being ideally physically desired. And those threads are about sph, not desire.
 
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Look the reality is size matters. And especially for gay guys. I wish people would just admit it or be frank with me instead of making up excuses for not seeing me again. I know some guys don't care about dick size, but it seems the large majority do.
Maybe you're bad in bed and the small dick is an excuse
 
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4.5" (11 cm) is just 1.2cm short of the global average, you can to do some PE, but i dont know what else to tell you.
But injustice is pretty subjective, i know some short skinny dudes (150 cm) with big penises (20cm+) that will gladly exchange 5 cm of dick for 30 cm (a foot) of height, they think being taller will solve most of their problems, that is unfair that some guys are born taller and get more respect.
But sometimes is really all in your head, i am tall like 192. cm with i think is an above average penis size and i used to think that i was never good enough that i have to compensate, there is always a problem, no muscular enough to get respected or not white enough to get respected or i even learned to dance even if i didn't enjoy it too much, because dancing is what get you women.
And even things that were not a problem at the moment become a problem in the right conditions, i once remember when this short very skinny feminine looking guy pull out his penis and it looked gigantic in his small frame and even though we where the same size at the time 21+ cm i couldn't stop myself from feeling envy towards the guy. Now that i am a bit older i just don't give a shit about pretty much anything in life. Sometime is just you damn head, man.
"Above average"

"21cm"

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I just LOVE when bigger guys tell me I'm average or I'd be a good bottom. How condescending is it that these bigger guys think they can tell me how I should feel or how I should behave once they see my cock. Nobody says to them "Oh you'd be a good bottom" if they have a huge cock. The truth is my cock is about the smallest I've ever seen. 4.5 inches is NOT average and it is so ridiculous that these 7 and eight inch guys try to tell me that it is. While at the SAME TIME basicallyView attachment 31095471 View attachment 31095471 View attachment 31095471 ignoring me on GRINDR or any sex app or rejecting me after they sleep with me. But "oh it's fine - you're average" - FUCK YOU. It does make me mad. I've been with probably over 100 guys and i've been with ONE - ONEEEEEE guy who was smaller than me. That puts me in the very bottom of cock size. So you try having a dick like mine for a day and see how you feel when guys tell you "oh you're average" and then won't pay any attention to you after they see it. You big cock guys just try it for a day. It isn't fair and you big cock guys don't make it better by trying to say "Oh it's cute" or "oh i'd suck it" when you really wouldn't. So yeah. It isn't fair to be gay with a 4.5 inch dick. It just isn't!
What I find interesting is the global average is reported to be 5.08". And I believe that is supposed to be bone pressed. Cockboi from his photos appears to be easily 5" if he measured bone pressed. Yet him and others that size almost always say they are the the smallest of all the guys they have been with or seen.

The reported average is either complete bullshit or these guys aren't remembering things correctly or for some reason they are only encountering above average dicks.
 
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