The Injustice Of Having A Tiny Dick

And just maybe, if they don't want to see you after bedding you, it has nothing to do with your dick and everything to do with the way you behave.

Totally agree. I've been with guys of all sizes and women and trans people, when you have genuine sexual chemistry cock size isn't an issue unless you're monster or micro.
 
My advice would be to temper your expectations when hooking up with guys off Grindr. It's not really a bastion of forthright behavior. I would also say correlation is not causation: these guys are generally looking for hookups and one night stands. Just because they don't want to have sex with you again doesn't mean it's because of your dick size. Maybe there was some other reason, and maybe they're just always on the hunt for another notch in the belt. For what it's worth, I like your dick and it is, in and of itself, not a deterrent for me.

When apps first started they were a novel way to meet other guys, these days they're the bastion of the socially inept and creeps. If you have strong social skills and emotional intelligence you'd be able to meet guys anywhere.
 
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“and none of them ended because my dick was big” EXACTLY
And no one has ended relationship with you because your dick was small, other than because you obviously have some kind of self absorbed complex over it.


You want to be loved... then you better be lovable.

The only thing a big dicked guy has over you is that he doesn't have the easy excuse of dick size on which to blame his relationship failures.
Which means just maybe he might take a closer look in the mirror and try and figure out the actual reason folks don't want to be with him.
 
And no one has ended relationship with you because your dick was small, other than because you obviously have some kind of self absorbed complex over it.


You want to be loved... then you better be lovable.

The only thing a big dicked guy has over you is that he doesn't have the easy excuse of dick size on which to blame his relationship failures.
Which means just maybe he might take a closer look in the mirror and try and figure out the actual reason folks don't want to be with him.

Also there are a lot of big dicked men who get rejected for having a huge cock.
 
Yes. When you've been to mens saunas, swingers parties, nude beaches or anywhere were people are openly naked and sexual, you'll find that big cock guys are knocked back because they're too big and impractical.
I've been to men's saunas and nude beaches and never ever seen men with big dicks turned away
 
I've been to men's saunas and nude beaches and never ever seen men with big dicks turned away

I definitely have - many times. I remember a friend being pretty hurt by being told outright he was too big.

It's a total myth that gay/bi men want huge cocks. Even guys into fisting know that some big cocks are too big and are fisting goals or in their dreams to take.
 
We have different experiences but I do accept that dick size isn’t a major issue in the gay community

Only sexually immature guys want big dicks, score with the hotties and sex on tape. Most of the mature sex positive guys I know have sex with guys they'd be mates with, even with group sex it's more like fraternal bonding than a teenage porn fantasy.
 
I’ve never been to bed with a guy and been disappointed because he’s got a big dick...sorry I must be unusual but we are on a website that is specifically about big cocks
Size envy and admiring what we don’t have is normal. I’m not one of those huge boys people write home about. Jk, god help anyone who writes home about a dick they’ve encountered, but if we look at how we are with yards, cars, houses, yachts, boats, income, savings, of course we’re always sizing each other up and at times find ourselves a little envious or insecure comparing ourselves to another. There is a certain minimum threshold of size that gets the job done, while others hammer it home with great accommodation, with others are so blessed and in abundance its a little too much for practically. We admire in spite of ourselves what we don’t have.
 
I’ve never been to bed with a guy and been disappointed because he’s got a big dick...sorry I must be unusual but we are on a website that is specifically about big cocks

LPSG isn't specifically about big cocks, it's actually more a sex positive website. They'd also be people here who have experienced guys with a lot of big cocks and have had some big disappointments.

To be frank I actually don't believe most of your claims.
 
Size envy and admiring what we don’t have is normal. I’m not one of those huge boys people write home about. Jk, god help anyone who writes home about a dick they’ve encountered, but if we look at how we are with yards, cars, houses, yachts, boats, income, savings, of course we’re always sizing each other up and at times find ourselves a little envious or insecure comparing ourselves to another. There is a certain minimum threshold of size that gets the job done, while others hammer it home with great accommodation, with others are so blessed and in abundance its a little too much for practically. We admire in spite of ourselves what we don’t have.

Yep. Humans are always coveting something they think is better than what they've got or lack.
 
I just LOVE when bigger guys tell me I'm average or I'd be a good bottom. How condescending is it that these bigger guys think they can tell me how I should feel or how I should behave once they see my cock. Nobody says to them "Oh you'd be a good bottom" if they have a huge cock. The truth is my cock is about the smallest I've ever seen. 4.5 inches is NOT average and it is so ridiculous that these 7 and eight inch guys try to tell me that it is. While at the SAME TIME basicallyView attachment 31095471 View attachment 31095471 View attachment 31095471 ignoring me on GRINDR or any sex app or rejecting me after they sleep with me. But "oh it's fine - you're average" - FUCK YOU. It does make me mad. I've been with probably over 100 guys and i've been with ONE - ONEEEEEE guy who was smaller than me. That puts me in the very bottom of cock size. So you try having a dick like mine for a day and see how you feel when guys tell you "oh you're average" and then won't pay any attention to you after they see it. You big cock guys just try it for a day. It isn't fair and you big cock guys don't make it better by trying to say "Oh it's cute" or "oh i'd suck it" when you really wouldn't. So yeah. It isn't fair to be gay with a 4.5 inch dick. It just isn't!
Perfect size for me.
 
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LPSG isn't specifically about big cocks, it's actually more a sex positive website. They'd also be people here who have experienced guys with a lot of big cocks and have had some big disappointments.

To be frank I actually don't believe most of your claims.

Be as Frank as you want.
“LPSG isn’t specifically about big cocks”
“Only sexually immature guys want big dicks”

I presume your name here @Hungus has nothing to do with penis size
 
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