I agree wholeheartedly agree with you OP. Straight men and gay men have a secret symbiotic relationship in society.
I specifically like milking straight married men and think servicing/ milking straight married men is a relationship model that gay men should consider, be proud of and revel in.
I realized that traditional relationship structures (two people living together, spending the majority of their time together, caring about each other, spending holidays, birthdays, having to get to know their family (ugh), blah blah blah) is something that's not for me. I don't like constantly having to put in the constant emotional work and empathy to sustain a relationship. I like being by myself for most of the time.
That's why from a pragmatic standpoint, milking straight married men as a relationship approach works for me. I get my fix of eroticism, they get their masculine needs met and then have to be home at a certain time for dinner and to put the kids to bed. And I get my own free time to live my own life with the space to be in my own sick mind lol.
I have a really clear conscious going into it, I don't feel bad AT ALL at this point. Because I have strict boundaries:
- I refuse to fall in love or attempt to intentionally ruin your marriage. My mouth is sealed shut. If I do fall in love, that's my problem and I'll deal with it myself. They'll never know because I don't need to add more emotional baggage to their lives.
- I'll only meet you on your free time (so I don't take time from your kids or family)
- No financial assistance needed (I have a good job, own place, and working takes up a majority of my life anyways).
- Don't get too attached or express your emotions too much because you'll scare them off. If you find yourself developing feelings, catch yourself and stop. Reduce yourself to being a slut with the sole purpose of taking care of a straight man for his needs and making sure his physical, emotional, and most importantly, mental well being is ok.
You could make a vow to be monogamous to only one man. Or you could just commit to strictly servicing married men and keeping your circuit small. Since you're probably their only main source of sex on the side because they don't have to go hunting for random ass/pussy anymore, the overall potential circulating body count is lower. Therefore, there is less chances of STDs and ruining their marriage = less guilt on my side. I still use PrEp though bc who knows. I usually have a circuit of about 3 married men that I suck regularly. My longest regular was about 8 years.
For the haters, I don't give a flying fuck lol. A lot of backlash is from an emotional stigma placed on the sanctity of marriage that society has constructed. I get it, but like I just discussed, approaching it in a well thought out , meaningful way can clear your conscious.
Sex is like apart of a man's multi vitamin, especially straight men. People have sexual needs, that's like one of the least benign out of all the human emotions but we shame people for it. Taking care of them is like doing social work, an act of service. You're actually benefiting society in a special way that mostly only gay men can do and you should be proud of that. We have the mental and emotional potential to actually enthusiastically do it from genuine place because of our primalistic love of dick and men, no strings attached.
For all the "privilege" that society says straight men carry, I think they suffer a lot of mental fatigue because of the stigma of expressing vulnerable emotions/ asking for a break, expectations of having to put on a face of courage and bravery for their families. I will never understand women or wives that don't put out their pussies/ body cavities regularly, especially if they have a sexy hard working husband in close proximity. It only takes 10 minutes for a reasonable session.....
Well then, honey, come here and release in/on me, I don't mind, then carry on doing your hard work. Straight men def appreciate you and I like the comradery of being their special side piece.
There's always going to be straight married men with masculine needs, forever. Knowing that, I could well do this into old age and be content. As a gay man, my mind is wayyyyy more free knowing what my relationship needs are. I can focus on other areas of my life, knowing I have 30 minute sessions a couple times a week with multiple men already set for the most part. Boom my relationship needs are already met.
TLDR; I'm a gay man that only pursues relationships with straight married men to service because it is meaningful and I'm proud of it.
Oh and if you introduce rimming to them, you might become their most cherished toys because their wives/girlfriends are more than likely not doing that.
Cheers men!
