The joys of SPH experiences and fantasies

[deleted15665961]

It turns me on how confused well hung guys can be by a small dick like mine, when they don't know how to jack it at first, and almost can't seem to understand what they're looking at. For me, I think the thrill of sph is mostly about being seen honestly by a well hung guy, and his being interested in the difference. That's inherently humiliating, but it doesn't involve exaggerations, like calling my dick a clit. I just love it when a well hung guy can't fathom being my size, and gets off on how I worship his big one compared to my little one.

i know some of the confused looks you speak of. I get plenty of those.

 

[lttle1]

Very interesting. You know how I feel about small cocks being a big guy. What you think about that ? Does it confuse you ?

I'm not sure what your asking. Are you asking whether I'm confused how a hung guy can be turned on by a small dick? I guess I am, but I kind of understand the protective role a hung guy might feel toward a small guy. And if a small-dicked guy is otherwise manly, I can see where the contrast is hot.

 

[Hakan1]

I kind of understand the protective role a hung guy might feel toward a small guy.

I never thought about that very much but now reading this I think you are very right. I want to protect them and this is a big part of my personality and sexuality. I want my partners to feel safe with me. But that is the complete opposite of SPH of course.

 

[Derringer]

It turns me on how confused well hung guys can be by a small dick like mine, when they don't know how to jack it at first, and almost can't seem to understand what they're looking at. For me, I think the thrill of sph is mostly about being seen honestly by a well hung guy, and his being interested in the difference. That's inherently humiliating, but it doesn't involve exaggerations, like calling my dick a clit. I just love it when a well hung guy can't fathom being my size, and gets off on how I worship his big one compared to my little one.

I have experienced/ observed how another guy's ego can be boosted and become a little bit more alpha in behaviour around me if they see how tiny my penis is compared to theirs.
One example of this was when a workplace rival and I crossed paths at a sports club where we both had company memberships.
We always had a contrary and fractious working relationship but he was never too directly confrontational. He was definitely emboldened when he saw how pathetic my little cock was and he probably sensed how I felt belittled by the sight of his swinging dick even though I tried to project indifference.
I have to be honest and admit I cant help feeling a bit inferior when I see any other guys bigger penis and at least mentally I feel even smaller like mine is shrivelling up in their presence and even more so if a female sees me in direct comparison.

 

[Derringer]

The entire concept of SPH amazes me. I didn't even know it existed until a couple of years ago. I came across so many stories of guys desiring the very experiences I've been having for years and not once have I ever asked for.
Anybody who loves and craves sph would love being a small(er) dicked black man.

Because of my general bullish physique and outwardly alphaesque demeanour as well as my seeming relaxed manner around women it is often just assumed I have a big dick. This definitely adds to the surprise/ shock reaction when any woman sees my tiny cock and usually a look of pride and barely concealed superiority if it is a guy especially if I see his bigger dick as well. I also provide direct evidence that having big feet does not necessarily mean a big cock too.

 

[lttle1]

I never thought about that very much but now reading this I think you are very right. I want to protect them and this is a big part of my personality and sexuality. I want my partners to feel safe with me. But that is the complete opposite of SPH of course.

It's complicated.

From the hung guy's perspective, protecting may be the opposite of sph. But from my perspective, it is another form of sph. That's because protecting me assumes that the I need my feelings protected. Why would that be? Because I have a small dick. Wanting to protect me assumes that out in the rest of the world I would be degraded for being small, but that with you I am safe. Because you tolerate or enjoy my smallness. And I find that exciting and a lot more fun that actually being ridiculed by a hung guy. But ridicule is also exciting.

 

[Hakan1]

It's complicated.

From the hung guy's perspective, protecting may be the opposite of sph. But from my perspective, it is another form of sph. That's because protecting me assumes that the I need my feelings protected. Why would that be? Because I have a small dick. Wanting to protect me assumes that out in the rest of the world I would be degraded for being small, but that with you I am safe. Because you tolerate or enjoy my smallness. And I find that exciting and a lot more fun that actually being ridiculed by a hung guy. But ridicule is also exciting.

Im amazed to read you answer and Im always astonished how good you analyse me and how much you understand me. Its always very interesting to talk with you about this.

 

[medium-hung]

talk privately?

 

[deleted18454561]

My penis has underaverage size and I'm "grower", so really nothing to show. In the pool's locker rooms I was always target of other mens glances. I think I made sexual life their partners better because of me this men lost the feeling "being too small"...

 

[deleted15665961]

My penis has underaverage size and I'm "grower", so really nothing to show. In the pool's locker rooms I was always target of other mens glances. I think I made sexual life their partners better because of me this men lost the feeling "being too small"...

Them seeing you boosted their ego.

 

[Derringer]

My penis has underaverage size and I'm "grower", so really nothing to show. In the pool's locker rooms I was always target of other mens glances. I think I made sexual life their partners better because of me this men lost the feeling "being too small"...

I have always had the effect of making other guys prouder of their dick size or supposed lack of it because my flaccid size is so ' boy size' rather than mansize.

 

[deleted18454561]

Them seeing you boosted their ego.

Definitely.

 

[Perfectsix]

A co-worker was known for always wearing shorts in the shower after football. Lads in the office would laugh about it and speculate on his size.
He was also a keen runner and joined a small running group I was in. We would be the first back and first in the showers. Sure enough he kept his shorts on. Three weeks in, having seen me naked, he plucked up the courage to go naked and was about the same size as me, possibly a touch smaller.
Nothing was said and he was naked again the next week but one of the other runners had ran faster than normal and joined us after a minute or two and he was HUNG!
Easily six inches soft and thick with a big low hanging pair of balls. My co-worker covered himself up with his hand and left the shower immediately- he went back to wearing shorts in the shower the next week.
Guess I am lucky to be comfortable with my size

 

[Perfectsix]

Regarding the above experience in the showers - the fact that the hung lad knew me well enough to laugh at both of us and point out that he was bigger than the two of us combined didn’t help my poor co-worker’s confidence!

 

[Derringer]

Regarding the above experience in the showers - the fact that the hung lad knew me well enough to laugh at both of us and point out that he was bigger than the two of us combined didn’t help my poor co-worker’s confidence!

One particular shower incident where I was exposed to a rival was shockingly unexpected and definitely chastening. ( pre sph fetish )
I was using a communal shower at a college very earlynin the morning when I was sure no one else would be around. However whilst in the showers a rival for the attentions of a girl I had been flirting with popped in. We were both surprised but he was quickly more amused and elevated when he saw my tiny dick. I on the other hand was extremely humiliated and fled the scene as he was massively bigger. My tiny penis compared to his huge swinging dick was like a cucumber compared to a baby dill pickle.
He was definitely emboldened in his pursuit of the girl and won out in the end. I found out through the grapevine he shared the incident with her.

 

[Derringer]

Very recently my girlfriend confessed that her younger sister knows I have a tiny cock. Her sister had boasted that her latest boyfriend has a huge penis and my gf told her she was lucky because I am hung like a chipmunk. She stop short of telling her that she fucks other guys in front of me but did tell her I was ok with her fucking other guys.

 

[Lilwhiteweewee]

I have a very weak and small penis but outside of that, back in the day in college I was a very good athlete. I remember I fucked a lot of girls during those 4 years but most where ONS but not because I wanted them to be. So, I guess it was probably my junior year and there was this one chick i found super hot and she had a bit of a slut reputation and I wanted a piece of that pussy. I finally got the opportunity, we were heavy into it in her dorm room, i had my finger flicking her bean and she was so wet and going nuts….she pulled out of a kiss and told me I want it now, get your clothes off. I hopped off her bed and took my jeans off, shirt was already off and she just looked at my penis and said and I remember it vividly, it was the first time I had ever been small penis shamed but I knew I had a small one…”Is that for real?, Oh my fucking god, I have an 8 year old brother who has a bigger one, you poor guy……hey, I can’t fuck you, it’ll do me no good but I’ll jerk you off”. i shrugged my shoulders, laid on the bed, she giggled a bit but tried not to and gave me a quick handjob. I came And she told me, ”geez, even your loads are small”….it was embarrassing, humiliating but fuck, I got hard again but she told me I need to leave, her roommate would be home anytime so I went back to my dorm and jerked off to the humiliation of what had just happened.

I’d sucked several of my friends cocks back early in my teens and up until i was about 17 and got a girlfriend and discovered titties, soft skin and bodies and pussy But I had a hard time keeping a college girl happy that had-had decent cock. I resorted back to sucking cock pretty much after that but did find a girl that enjoyed my little dick and my oral skills and married her and still happily married to this day. She knew I sucked cock and had a cum eating fetish as her and I had several MMF threesomes when we dated and into the first several years of marriage and her and I sucked a lot of cock together and when they came, she always made sure it was in my mouth or they pulled out and fed it to me. She decided 6 years or so after we married and had our first kid she wanted to just be monogamous with me but she was and remains cool with Me sucking cock…..she doesn’t want me licking or fucking any other pussies, she ways women cause far to much drama but if I need cock and cum, she has no problem with me getting my fill.

 

[Derringer]

I have a very weak and small penis but outside of that, back in the day in college I was a very good athlete. I remember I fucked a lot of girls during those 4 years but most where ONS but not because I wanted them to be. So, I guess it was probably my junior year and there was this one chick i found super hot and she had a bit of a slut reputation and I wanted a piece of that pussy. I finally got the opportunity, we were heavy into it in her dorm room, i had my finger flicking her bean and she was so wet and going nuts….she pulled out of a kiss and told me I want it now, get your clothes off. I hopped off her bed and took my jeans off, shirt was already off and she just looked at my penis and said and I remember it vividly, it was the first time I had ever been small penis shamed but I knew I had a small one…”Is that for real?, Oh my fucking god, I have an 8 year old brother who has a bigger one, you poor guy……hey, I can’t fuck you, it’ll do me no good but I’ll jerk you off”. i shrugged my shoulders, laid on the bed, she giggled a bit but tried not to and gave me a quick handjob. I came And she told me, ”geez, even your loads are small”….it was embarrassing, humiliating but fuck, I got hard again but she told me I need to leave, her roommate would be home anytime so I went back to my dorm and jerked off to the humiliation of what had just happened.

I’d sucked several of my friends cocks back early in my teens and up until i was about 17 and got a girlfriend and discovered titties, soft skin and bodies and pussy But I had a hard time keeping a college girl happy that had-had decent cock. I resorted back to sucking cock pretty much after that but did find a girl that enjoyed my little dick and my oral skills and married her and still happily married to this day. She knew I sucked cock and had a cum eating fetish as her and I had several MMF threesomes when we dated and into the first several years of marriage and her and I sucked a lot of cock together and when they came, she always made sure it was in my mouth or they pulled out and fed it to me. She decided 6 years or so after we married and had our first kid she wanted to just be monogamous with me but she was and remains cool with Me sucking cock…..she doesn’t want me licking or fucking any other pussies, she ways women cause far to much drama but if I need cock and cum, she has no problem with me getting my fill.

I can definitely relate to the ONS thing. I have had little trouble attracting female attention ( unless they were already aware I have a tiny penis) I rarely have had relationships that went beyond a week or 2 ( generally fizzled out after the first time having sex and they were unimpressed with my tiny cock) . The majority were of the one nightstand variety.
In the course of longer term relationships more than a few women cheated on me.
I too became aroused by the humiliation but of course that was just a fetishistic compensation for the rejection. I have now been in a relationship for almost 4 years. The sexual part is kept ticking in a very satisfactory way because it involves mmf, and hookups with couples. She likes a bit of girl on girl but mostly she enjoys being fucked by much better endowed guys. I dont actually fuck her anymore ( except a few times in the first few months)
I havent sucked any cocks but have enjoyed being fucked by other guys in front of my girlfriend and sometimes her and another woman. The SPH kick is hugely arousing from this and watching the women being fucked by the bigger guys.

 

[Derringer]

I have been recalling some of my preSPH fetish experiences when I have been close to a sexual hook up with a woman but never got past the early dating stage or serious flirtations because of my tiny penis.
Of course when I suffered these disappointments, embarrassments/ humiliations they were absolutely devastating with no sph compensation - no arousing aftermath. However they are all very exciting now and wish I had my sph fetish back when they occurred.
There are three historical rejections that are currently providing masturbation material for a couple of weeks now.
Without giving their full names but not putting up fake names ( it makes posting the memory more enticing even if extremely unlikely that there is a chance one or all of the women may see this post and know who I am).
I fantasize about them knowing I am playing with my tiny cock while recalling my humilation.
In no particular order :
Debbie H. was a keyboard player in a bar band who I managed to go out on three dates with and I was reasonably certain that bedding her was on the cards.
Unfortunately at a pool party some drunken prankstere decided to yank down my swim trunks in front of some girls just after I got out of the pool. One on them was Debbie. I pulled up my trunks as quick as I could and fled.
I kind of kept a low profile in the shadows but we crossed paths sometime later. She made no disparaging remarks about my baby dick ( beyond my usual small size as I had suffered shrinkage)
She had thought I had left the party all together because of my obvious embarrassment and told me she knew the guy and it was a common and boring party trick he liked to do.
For the next few weeks she kept on making excuses everytime I called her for a date . Finally we went out for a drink and she told me face to face that she didnt want to go out anymore because an old boyfriend had come back into her life. ( turned out that was a lie but I didnt find that out until a month or so later) She gave me the still wanted to be friends speech ( which I had heard before and more than a few tims since) Basically I crossed paths with her on occasion in bars or at parties etc but that was it.
Subsequently I heard through the grapevine that she had confessed to some of her female friends that she broke up with me because she couldnt get past the shock of seeing my tiny penis and she lost all sexual interest.

 

[Perfectsix]

At a recent party I bumped into an ex who I hadn’t seen for decades. We had split up in our late teens- no massive argument or anything, the relationship had simply ran its course and fizzled out.
We spoke first a few minutes, I introduced her to my wife and they seemed to hit it off and continued the conversation while I moved on to talk to a few mates.
The next morning I woke up feeling horny but my wife was only interested in a cuddle and a chat. The subject changed to Karen, my ex, and I answered a few questions about her but genuinely couldn’t say for certain why we split up.
“I know why!” my wife smiled and took great delight in revealing it was because my cock was too small. Apparently there were times when we were making out (we never had full sex) when she would place her hand where she thought my cock should be and it never was. The final straw was seeing me in a pair of tighty whiteys “looking like a Ken doll.”
She had asked my wife if I had been a late developer and grown much. My wife then showed her a couple of photos on her phone and they laughed as Karen remained unimpressed.
I was even hornier when she finished telling me but my wife knocked back my advances saying if I am not good enough for Karen I am not good enough for her