Tik Tok Bulges

gays are attracted to men

i think the only gays 'self hating' are the ones not getting attention
Those of us who have a lot of experience in the community know that self-hatred exist. Many men only like masculine "straight" guys, because they don't like fem guys to a mean degree. So afraid of the fem label, because that's not being a man to them. That is toxic masculinity homophobia. Requires some empathy and thinking from the big head.
 
Those of us who have a lot of experience in the community know that self-hatred exist. Many men only like masculine "straight" guys, because they don't like fem guys to a mean degree. So afraid of the fem label, because that's not being a man to them. That is toxic masculinity homophobia. Requires some empathy and thinking from the big head.
so who is at fault ?

the gay men attracted to straight acting men ?
or the gay guys that want to be fem ?

what about gay guys that dont like nipple play ......or the gay guys that dont like kylie ?.....

is it really a bad toxic thing ..... or just a preferance ?
 
they are always straight. This thread should be called "straight tik tok bulges". The worship of straight men over gay men by gay men is incredible and sad. I posted about an actual gay guy on tiktok who was posting sexy stuff, didn't get any attention.

Take it up with Mother Nature. Gay men live in a world dominated by heterosexual men. And as a result, spend their lives policing their stares and actions away from gorgeous straight men to avoid being ostracized. Being attracted to straight men is not a learned behavior! Thus it’s not something you can simply turn off through moral browbeating. : unamused:
 
Take it up with Mother Nature. Gay men live in a world dominated by heterosexual men. And as a result, spend their lives policing their stares and actions away from gorgeous straight men to avoid being ostracized. Being attracted to straight men is not a learned behavior! Thus it’s not something you can simply turn off through moral browbeating. : unamused:
And we constantly give straight men more power. Power over our desire. Instead of looking around and loving our own and giving to our own.