Timothy Champagne
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Not to mention, more experienced men with a larger following have more to lose, so they’re much more likely to take care of their sexual health & be on PReP etc.Yeah, I go by numbers when I pick people to collab with, not by how they look. This way I can be more sociallly inclusive while also not feeling that I’m being predatory by working with new or brand new creators.
The problem with working with men who have a relatively small following or are new is that they may change their mind about doing porn in the future & then you have to go through & remove all their videos from your page.
Filming with new guys or guys with a relatively small following is pretty much just asking for drama lol. I avoid it. It takes a certain level of professionalism to arouse me anyway. I get less aroused by men who are clumsy in bed tbh. I like a man who knows what he’s doing lol, way hotter that way.
Also you don’t want anybody to fall in love with you either. This is another thing I consider when only working with men with larger followings/more experience. Working with new less experienced men, the whole “falling in love” thing is more likely to happen, which, we all know how that ends. Badly.
And yet, this upsets a lot of people, accusing me of “gatekeeping” or some shit, if that’s what you want to call it, yeah, I gatekeep. I am NOT responsible for your success.
Looks like you’re just gonna have to work with similar sized creators till you grow a larger following just like I had to do for years. Good luck.
This is not an easy industry to make the “real money” in, contrary to what the internet believes. There’s far too much competition for that to be the case.
Holy shit that was a tangent.