'Are u being an idiot?' No.. well maybe a little bit lol. But I've found out a load of stuff bout Tom, inc the photos etc, but chosen not to share publicly online, and invite others not to publicly post them, out of respect for Tom. The stories I've heard point to him having a great time, in a not so vanilla way. haha. and I'd say good for him. If that's what gets him going, go for it.
But btm line, He does work in the world of politics, and they're are some that would use what he gets up to in his free time as a dirty below the belt attack bc they don't agree with what he's saying, even though it is his job. So share or not share, that is up to u. Only wish we could message, but for some odd reason, its not letting me.