Too much sex?too many bodies?

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LPSG Simon said:
I wish more people understood how common this is. Especially those who squabble and bicker about scarlet-letter / gold star labels.
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Thank you, buddy.

You don't choose what makes you bone up as a dude. It's common sense.

Strict labeling is never a good idea. Do we even realize how complicated we are as people? No one label can ever fit our true feelings.

Take care, Simon.
 
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BIGBULL29 said:
You realized you were bi later in life? How did you come to this realization.

I think a lot of dudes realize they are bisexual or full-on gay later in life.

I love lesbian porn that involves heavier woman. I never knew why it turns me on so much. I discovered this out later in life. I would like to join in a threesome with 2 women who are both heavier and bisexual.

I am attracted to dudes: kissing and bitt fuxking. I don’t like oral sex at all with dudes. I might touch the dudes dick a little or feel him up. But I don’t care about his dick that much. I still like his manly body, though.

Sexuality is too complex for me. I just get off on what turns me on.

I also like comparing dick size but not playing with the other dudes ducks. Weird. .
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We come in all flavors!

I think becoming (or realizing I was bi) was just an extension of my sexuality. I've always been a sexual person as long as I can remember. But back in the day... There was no internet. So my desires were kind of narrowed by the "resources" available to me. And while I did grow up in what some would call a Bohemian beach community (lots of openly gay men and women), I was around very straight friends. And I was having sex with a LOT of women so my sexual desires had an outlet.

I do recall a day when I was maybe 20. I was at my gf's parents house sitting in her bedroom while she was taking a shower. I picked up a Playgirl magazine. I felt a definite arousal looking at the picks. I found myself looking thru them whenever I had the opportunity from that point forward.

For me, the online world opened me to a new and exciting view of sexuality. It really opened up when I started chatting with other guys in similar situations here and on hookup apps.

Yes... There are a LOT of us.
 
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WilliamG said:
We come in all flavors!

I think becoming (or realizing I was bi) was just an extension of my sexuality. I've always been a sexual person as long as I can remember. But back in the day... There was no internet. So my desires were kind of narrowed by the "resources" available to me. And while I did grow up in what some would call a Bohemian beach community (lots of openly gay men and women), I was around very straight friends. And I was having sex with a LOT of women so my sexual desires had an outlet.

I do recall a day when I was maybe 20. I was at my gf's parents house sitting in her bedroom while she was taking a shower. I picked up a Playgirl magazine. I felt a definite arousal looking at the picks. I found myself looking thru them whenever I had the opportunity from that point forward.

For me, the online world opened me to a new and exciting view of sexuality. It really opened up when I started chatting with other guys in similar situations here and on hookup apps.

Yes... There are a LOT of us.
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I think a lot of men are turned on by looking at big penises but refuse to admit it.

I am not here to define anyone's sexuality, etc.

There is so much nude content of men these days! Men can see other men naked so easily now. Years ago, most nude content only featured women, unless you were watching hardcore porn. I think it's a good thing.

Not only is homophobia silly, it's dangerous. The more naked men, the better. It helps bring down homophobia levels at times.

We boys all are the same - dick and balls (just different sizes and shapes).
 
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WilliamG said:
We come in all flavors!

I think becoming (or realizing I was bi) was just an extension of my sexuality. I've always been a sexual person as long as I can remember. But back in the day... There was no internet. So my desires were kind of narrowed by the "resources" available to me. And while I did grow up in what some would call a Bohemian beach community (lots of openly gay men and women), I was around very straight friends. And I was having sex with a LOT of women so my sexual desires had an outlet.

I do recall a day when I was maybe 20. I was at my gf's parents house sitting in her bedroom while she was taking a shower. I picked up a Playgirl magazine. I felt a definite arousal looking at the picks. I found myself looking thru them whenever I had the opportunity from that point forward.

For me, the online world opened me to a new and exciting view of sexuality. It really opened up when I started chatting with other guys in similar situations here and on hookup apps.

Yes... There are a LOT of us.
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Not sure though we all started to discuss sex being too complicated? Was it supposed to be silly fun you know like falling off the bed during sex.
 
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Eris53 said:
In your thirties? That was when I really became a s***. Huh well I'm sorry to hear that
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Sorry. Fifties here. Big slut and love it. Can’t count anyway. Count the STIs you’ve had and then your health records have an accurate count of those …. Having fun
 
Eris53 said:
So does anybody else besides myself think that they may have slept with maybe wait too many people and had more sex than they ever had any right to? No shaming! This is simply for fun and no shame in. I was a very busy man my body count is ridiculous. But I had a lot of fun doing it. I don't regret anything if I'm going to apologize for it. What sometimes I look backwards and I think Jesus Christ how did I have the time? Anyone else?
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While I've slept with far to many guys I've also had sex with loads more. The orgasms in the woods, the toilets and on the beach, dirty afternoons and evenings in steam baths and saunas not to mention the movie cinemas for wanks and pick ups. Oh yes, far too many, from the time I found my body was desirable I've let it be used. But, during three relationships I was good boy, didn't stray, but then single again its strange how easy it is to become a cock slut. Do I regret my loose living, not one bit, its been a life filled with fun and adventure, I've been filled both ends and satisfied.
 
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Eris53 said:
I do know the body count. I don't have to use my records to do that.
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That’s impressive. How do you keep count? Lots count years ago. I get little flash backs about various sex events. Sometimes I see a bloke in the street and wonder, have I fucked you? But I live in a fairly busy neighborhood for that sort of thing
 
chrisrobin said:
While I've slept with far too many guys I've also had sex with loads more. The orgasms in the woods, the toilets and on the beach, dirty afternoons and evenings in steam baths and saunas not to mention the movie cinemas for wanks and pick ups. Oh yes, far too many, from the time I found my body was desirable I've let it be used. But, during three relationships I was good boy, didn't stray, but then single again it’s strange how easy it is to become a cock slut. Do I regret my loose living, not one bit, its been a life filled with fun and adventure, I've been filled both ends and satisfied.
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Yes. It’s about being sex-positive. I’ve never felt guilty. Perhaps it’s the Protestant in me. But I just don’t see it as a sin or something for which to be guilty. It’s a normal healthy response from a healthy man. On the contrary, I find it validating. And that’s probably why I do this. I felt so un-noticed and repressed in much of my previous life with my wife and my very prim and proper parents. My life has been a journey of discovery of my own sensual truth and I’ve loved it. Seldom had a bad experience. Men are great. Always guns nd grateful and joyous in sex.

It’s others who disapprove and that’s a big turn off. I’ve had friends who start to tut tut. And some friends I don’t tell them the full truth of my sex adventures. They don’t need to know and I know they will slut shame me. I’ve had a nagging wife. I don’t need a nagging bf
 
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Lovetobetouched said:
Yes. It’s about being sex-positive. I’ve never felt guilty. Perhaps it’s the Protestant in me. But I just don’t see it as a sin or something for which to be guilty. It’s a normal healthy response from a healthy man. On the contrary, I find it validating. And that’s probably why I do this. I felt so un-noticed and repressed in much of my previous life with my wife and my very prim and proper parents. My life has been a journey of discovery of my own sensual truth and I’ve loved it. Seldom had a bad experience. Men are great. Always guns nd grateful and joyous in sex.

It’s others who disapprove and that’s a big turn off. I’ve had friends who start to tut tut. And some friends I don’t tell them the full truth of my sex adventures. They don’t need to know and I know they will slut shame me. I’ve had a nagging wife. I don’t need a nagging bf
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When I used to run the party circuit yeah people would spread rumors about me. The funny thing was that they had me doing more than I actually was. And a stupid part was you to just asked me the question I would have told you the truth. They had me sleeping with people I hadn't even slept with yet. Which pissed me off to be honest. You don't have to make up sex stories about me have plenty. Yeah but no I know what you mean.
 
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Lovetobetouched said:
Yes. It’s about being sex-positive. I’ve never felt guilty. Perhaps it’s the Protestant in me. But I just don’t see it as a sin or something for which to be guilty. It’s a normal healthy response from a healthy man. On the contrary, I find it validating. And that’s probably why I do this. I felt so un-noticed and repressed in much of my previous life with my wife and my very prim and proper parents. My life has been a journey of discovery of my own sensual truth and I’ve loved it. Seldom had a bad experience. Men are great. Always guns nd grateful and joyous in sex.

It’s others who disapprove and that’s a big turn off. I’ve had friends who start to tut tut. And some friends I don’t tell them the full truth of my sex adventures. They don’t need to know and I know they will slut shame me. I’ve had a nagging wife. I don’t need a nagging bf
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Sex became a way of keeping up with reality, like the year I kept a tally to make sure it was one a day - and it was. The best liberation was the swingers' parties, at one I discovered my father-in-law was wild and hung and a top, but it was the fact you could have sex with as many guys in one night as you wanted, that's where I let the slut loose and took anything that was offered, either end or hand. There was a joy in waking after and feeling still feeling filled with cum, but all the tensions of a working week gone. The funny thing was if I got seen to twice by a guy we'd usually fuck till we were dry humping without the intrusion of others, other times it was get as much cock as possible.
 
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chrisrobin said:
Sex became a way of keeping up with reality, like the year I kept a tally to make sure it was one a day - and it was. The best liberation was the swingers' parties, at one I discovered my father-in-law was wild and hung and a top, but it was the fact you could have sex with as many guys in one night as you wanted, that's where I let the slut loose and took anything that was offered, either end or hand. There was a joy in waking after and feeling still feeling filled with cum, but all the tensions of a working week gone. The funny thing was if I got seen to twice by a guy we'd usually fuck till we were dry humping without the intrusion of others, other times it was get as much cock as possible.
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You’re a hero buddy - what a champ. A warrior of cock. Love your work
 
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