Hi guys,
I’m new posting here although I’ve been navigating in this forum for years. I’d need some advice.
I’m currently in a stable gay relationship, and a top. I would like to explore the other way around, but it has always been uncomfortable for me. Furthermore, my boyfriend has no precum at all, so lubrification is a really important topic.
Even when I try to finger myself, I am super tight and can’t relax.
- how to proceed to manage to relax, manage to actually put even a finger, and to enjoy ?
- do I need sextoys to at least train by myself ? And which ones ?
- what lubricant would you recommand ?
We’ve tried many times with my boyfriend, but it hurts almost everytime.. because I’m not relaxed I think.
Thanks !
I’m new posting here although I’ve been navigating in this forum for years. I’d need some advice.
I’m currently in a stable gay relationship, and a top. I would like to explore the other way around, but it has always been uncomfortable for me. Furthermore, my boyfriend has no precum at all, so lubrification is a really important topic.
Even when I try to finger myself, I am super tight and can’t relax.
- how to proceed to manage to relax, manage to actually put even a finger, and to enjoy ?
- do I need sextoys to at least train by myself ? And which ones ?
- what lubricant would you recommand ?
We’ve tried many times with my boyfriend, but it hurts almost everytime.. because I’m not relaxed I think.
Thanks !
