Tops who like hung guys.

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I feel my choice in life is leaving me frustrated 😂 in that I’m mostly a top, 95% a top and that number can go down one day. But I love big dicks. Love seeing them touching them and sucking them… but for anal it’s not gonna happen lol. But seeking out hung dudes is kinda hard cause most of them only want to top. I’m so down to suck on a fat one but seems like hung guys don’t care for BJs… is that true?
Of course there are plenty of hung bottom and verse guys but I feel like none of them like to advertise that they are hung.

Just curious to all tops out there who live big dicks too how often do you actually get to play with big ones?
 
I feel my choice in life is leaving me frustrated 😂 in that I’m mostly a top, 95% a top and that number can go down one day. But I love big dicks. Love seeing them touching them and sucking them… but for anal it’s not gonna happen lol. But seeking out hung dudes is kinda hard cause most of them only want to top. I’m so down to suck on a fat one but seems like hung guys don’t care for BJs… is that true?
Of course there are plenty of hung bottom and verse guys but I feel like none of them like to advertise that they are hung.

Just curious to all tops out there who live big dicks too how often do you actually get to play with big ones?
You're not alone my dude. I'm mostly top but just love all dicks but big ones are special. I've met a lot of hung bottoms though.
 
I feel my choice in life is leaving me frustrated 😂 in that I’m mostly a top, 95% a top and that number can go down one day. But I love big dicks. Love seeing them touching them and sucking them… but for anal it’s not gonna happen lol. But seeking out hung dudes is kinda hard cause most of them only want to top. I’m so down to suck on a fat one but seems like hung guys don’t care for BJs… is that true?
Of course there are plenty of hung bottom and verse guys but I feel like none of them like to advertise that they are hung.

Just curious to all tops out there who live big dicks too how often do you actually get to play with big ones?
I feel the same way. My success lands when I seek out hung verse guys…typically verse guys are always down to bottom and then being hung satisfies my needs. Also, verse guys are into being sucked. Sometime people who identify as only top or only bottom generally from my experience only really enjoy penetration and it’s so much more to sex than that.
 
Great thread, hung vers here love fucking guys and that is in my area what I have to settle for as there are a lot of bottoms or oral only guys. But sometimes I just want a hot deep raunchy fucking till I can't think but that has not happened in many years unfortunately. I do not mind a good blow job but there are also too many guys in my area that only want to do that which I think there should be a bit more to the session like making out, contact, or rimming.
 
If there is a guy with a bigger one or a very huge dick and is also strict top, acting like me, im happy to be the bottom ... thats the only condition to make me bottom ^^
 
I feel my choice in life is leaving me frustrated 😂 in that I’m mostly a top, 95% a top and that number can go down one day. But I love big dicks. Love seeing them touching them and sucking them… but for anal it’s not gonna happen lol. But seeking out hung dudes is kinda hard cause most of them only want to top. I’m so down to suck on a fat one but seems like hung guys don’t care for BJs… is that true?
Of course there are plenty of hung bottom and verse guys but I feel like none of them like to advertise that they are hung.

Just curious to all tops out there who live big dicks too how often do you actually get to play with big ones?
You're not alone in this...am a top also, but love very hung btms. It's a thrill and super turn-on to see a btm's huge cock flopping around as he's fucked, plus love sucking it, touching it, jackin' it, and watching it squirt.
 
I'm 100% Top and I think it's normal for men with big dicks to like other men with big dicks, the same way bodybuilders tend to gravitate toward each other. We're just not supposed to talk about it because it makes bottom/verse dudes feel left out and nervous.
 
Some of our fellow tops don’t suck or even stroke the cock if their bottom…I’m a pleasurer so for me I want my bottom in positive agony I want him squirming and screaming in pleasure if I’m not swallowing his hot load after loading him up with mine if he hasn’t cum yet I don’t feel satisfied. If I don’t hear the words “oh fuck I’m going to cum” don’t stop…I don’t feel fulfilled
 
I’m strictly a top who’s never been fucked and have no desire to get fucked. My ass just isn’t a sexual part of my body.

I’ve fucked more big dicked guys than I can count.

When I first came out an older top advised, “Never touch a bottom’s cock. Eat his ass, kiss him and fuck his brains out. But never touch his cock, especially if it’s a big one.”

That advice has served me well.

In my experience a man who wants to bottom (not just get fucked but actually bottom) prefer to have me ignore their cocks and focus on eating and fucking their asses.

Not a universal truth, just something I’ve noticed as a lifelong top.
 
I’m strictly a top who’s never been fucked and have no desire to get fucked. My ass just isn’t a sexual part of my body.

I’ve fucked more big dicked guys than I can count.

When I first came out an older top advised, “Never touch a bottom’s cock. Eat his ass, kiss him and fuck his brains out. But never touch his cock, especially if it’s a big one.”

That advice has served me well.

In my experience a man who wants to bottom (not just get fucked but actually bottom) prefer to have me ignore their cocks and focus on eating and fucking their asses.

Not a universal truth, just something I’ve noticed as a lifelong top.

That's some weird heteronormative shit. In my experience, most of the bottoms I've been with do like being sucked and stroked, and frankly, I'm far less interested in ones who don't like it. As far as I'm concerned, topping and bottoming is only related to the role you play in anal sex. Nothing else.
 
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Some of our fellow tops don’t suck or even stroke the cock if their bottom…

The ones who don't are a tiny minority, and I will always shame them for it. It's a weird heteronormative sexuality hang up. Topping and bottoming are just the role you prefer for anal sex. Nothing else, and that's how it should be. I'm a secure top, so I don't partake in that weird hang up.

Fuck knows why anyone would wanna copy straight people. We don't need tops who are riddled with sexuality and body hang ups and have no interest in their partners' pleasure to the point where they're terrible in bed, and we don't need bottoms giving lacklustre toothy blowjobs and lying like starfish.
 
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That's some weird heteronormative shit. In my experience, most of the bottoms I've been with do like being sucked and stroked, and frankly, I'm far less interested in ones who don't like it. As far as I'm concerned, topping and bottoming is only related to the role you play in anal sex. Nothing else.
That’s a lot of energy for sex lives you will never be involved in.

But go off Judge Judy. The world only exists for you and your experiences are the only ones that matter.
 
The ones who don't are a tiny minority, and I will always shame them for it. It's a weird heteronormative sexuality hang up. Topping and bottoming are just the role you prefer for anal sex. Nothing else, and that's how it should be. I'm a secure top, so I don't partake in that weird hang up.

Fuck knows why anyone would wanna copy straight people. We don't need tops who are riddled with sexuality and body hang ups and have no interest in their partners' pleasure to the point where they're terrible in bed, and we don't need bottoms giving lacklustre toothy blowjobs and lying like starfish.
tbh I think that it really comes down to people being shy about telling someone what they want and it may be hard for a lot of bottoms to ask their bully selfish top for a blow job. For me sucking dick is a “yes and” …theres nothing hotter than eating his ass, licking his gooch up to his balls…and then sucking his cock and back again.
 
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I'm a top, and I love seeing a fat dick bounce around when am fucking a guy, or slapping on my stomach when they ride me. Or any size cock, to be honest...
No desire to be fucked at all, but like lots of guys, I really enjoy looking at, sucking and stroking dick.
I find it so weird that I've been called out for "not really being gay" or immediately blocked by bottom guys for wanting to see their dicks, as well as their asses. Hope am not coming across as judgemental, as it's completely up to them what they show or don't, but find it bizarre that I've been told I can't be gay or a top for wanting to see or suck a guy's dick!
Is there a line of thought that as soon as I see a penis I'm going to suddenly abandon all my innate desires and demand it in me? Genuinely curious.
 
I'm a top, and I love seeing a fat dick bounce around when am fucking a guy, or slapping on my stomach when they ride me. Or any size cock, to be honest...
No desire to be fucked at all, but like lots of guys, I really enjoy looking at, sucking and stroking dick.
I find it so weird that I've been called out for "not really being gay" or immediately blocked by bottom guys for wanting to see their dicks, as well as their asses. Hope am not coming across as judgemental, as it's completely up to them what they show or don't, but find it bizarre that I've been told I can't be gay or a top for wanting to see or suck a guy's dick!
Is there a line of thought that as soon as I see a penis I'm going to suddenly abandon all my innate desires and demand it in me? Genuinely curious.
Wait a minute… called out for not being gay for wanting to see dick?1? :laughing:
Make it make sense! Lol that’s crazy dude but I get where u are coming from in this post.
Bottoms are wild nowadays… before all the tops were toxic now it’s the bottoms lol.
 
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