Tops who like hung guys.

[dfw051980]

What I’m really in the mood for is making out with a guy who’s huuung. I’d love to be hugging and kissing a dude and feeling the dick swell under their pants, feeling the bulge stick out and press against me.
That would turn me on so much who knows whatd I do hehe. Lol

 

[Linkguy13]

Has a hung top. I enjoy fucking hung bottoms. Watching that big dick swing has I fuck is a huge turn on. Swing batter batter swing.

 

[Walktheplank]

I feel my choice in life is leaving me frustrated in that I’m mostly a top, 95% a top and that number can go down one day. But I love big dicks. Love seeing them touching them and sucking them… but for anal it’s not gonna happen lol. But seeking out hung dudes is kinda hard cause most of them only want to top. I’m so down to suck on a fat one but seems like hung guys don’t care for BJs… is that true?
Of course there are plenty of hung bottom and verse guys but I feel like none of them like to advertise that they are hung.

Just curious to all tops out there who live big dicks too how often do you actually get to play with big ones?

Bro you’re preaching…I can’t bottom to save my life…I couldn’t even take a finger up my ass it was HORRIBLE…but I love touching, and sucking dick it’s so much fun!

 

[dfw051980]

Bro you’re preaching…I can’t bottom to save my life…I couldn’t even take a finger up my ass it was HORRIBLE…but I love touching, and sucking dick it’s so much fun!

I was able to take a small one once and the intensity of the session made me cum hard… but he was small too, like around 4 inches.
Idk if I could do too much bigger

 

[big-e-low]

I was able to take a small one once and the intensity of the session made me cum hard… but he was small too, like around 4 inches.
Idk if I could do too much bigger

I feel its all about the chemistry and horniness of the moment, 4 can hit a spot just as easy as 6 or more. I am not as thick as I have taken but I have a curve that gets way down deep and can open up things that guys have not felt before

 

[dfw051980]

I feel its all about the chemistry and horniness of the moment, 4 can hit a spot just as easy as 6 or more. I am not as thick as I have taken but I have a curve that gets way down deep and can open up things that guys have not felt before

Funny thing s about my story is that the guy who topped me, i used to top. He was a regular buddy i had who i would fuck. We just stopped hooking up when he started dating and then he told me he was no longer a bottom. Then years would go by and we started to chat again, i was really horny one time and i decided to try out bottoming for him. He slid his small cock in me and within a few minutes my dick was exploding.

 

[Andrej_u]

I'm a top, and I love seeing a fat dick bounce around when am fucking a guy, or slapping on my stomach when they ride me. Or any size cock, to be honest...
No desire to be fucked at all, but like lots of guys, I really enjoy looking at, sucking and stroking dick.
I find it so weird that I've been called out for "not really being gay" or immediately blocked by bottom guys for wanting to see their dicks, as well as their asses. Hope am not coming across as judgemental, as it's completely up to them what they show or don't, but find it bizarre that I've been told I can't be gay or a top for wanting to see or suck a guy's dick!
Is there a line of thought that as soon as I see a penis I'm going to suddenly abandon all my innate desires and demand it in me? Genuinely curious.

People love being judgemental about other people's sexual preferences. Like this post below, calling a bottom not liking their dick played with "heteronormative shit".

The ones who don't are a tiny minority, and I will always shame them for it. It's a weird heteronormative sexuality hang up. Topping and bottoming are just the role you prefer for anal sex. Nothing else, and that's how it should be. I'm a secure top, so I don't partake in that weird hang up.

Fuck knows why anyone would wanna copy straight people. We don't need tops who are riddled with sexuality and body hang ups and have no interest in their partners' pleasure to the point where they're terrible in bed, and we don't need bottoms giving lacklustre toothy blowjobs and lying like starfish.

Being a bottom and not wanting your dick touched or even acknowledged is perfectly valid. It doesn't make you less manly, nor "straight". Same goes for wanting or not wanting to play with a bottom's dick, as a top, or not wanting to eat a top's ass as a bottom. It's just a matter of preferences, and whether they match or not.
I am as secure as you as a top, and I just don't find interest in playing with the bottom's dick. I find lots of guys who are really into it, who are "relieved" that they don't have to have their dick played with... And more or less the same amount of guys who say they prefer having their dick sucked or played with.
A lot of men simply find their pleasure on their prostate and on the inside of their ass, rather than on their penis. They have anal orgasms and all, or they prefer to jerk off themselves (all in all it's true for me too: no one jerks me off better than myself!), or they simply don't have orgasms and they don't mind. I sometimes don't cum as a top either, and it doesn't detract from the pleasure I have from sex.

When I talk to guys for sex, I respectfully try and see if we can both enjoy it. If our sexual fantasies don't match, we kindly say goodbye. Never in my life it occurred to me to "shame" them for liking different stuff in bed.

 

[big-e-low]

People love being judgemental about other people's sexual preferences. Like this post below, calling a bottom not liking their dick played with "heteronormative shit".

Being a bottom and not wanting your dick touched or even acknowledged is perfectly valid. It doesn't make you less manly, nor "straight". Same goes for wanting or not wanting to play with a bottom's dick, as a top, or not wanting to eat a top's ass as a bottom. It's just a matter of preferences, and whether they match or not.
I am as secure as you as a top, and I just don't find interest in playing with the bottom's dick. I find lots of guys who are really into it, who are "relieved" that they don't have to have their dick played with... And more or less the same amount of guys who say they prefer having their dick sucked or played with.
A lot of men simply find their pleasure on their prostate and on the inside of their ass, rather than on their penis. They have anal orgasms and all, or they prefer to jerk off themselves (all in all it's true for me too: no one jerks me off better than myself!), or they simply don't have orgasms and they don't mind. I sometimes don't cum as a top either, and it doesn't detract from the pleasure I have from sex.

When I talk to guys for sex, I respectfully try and see if we can both enjoy it. If our sexual fantasies don't match, we kindly say goodbye. Never in my life it occurred to me to "shame" them for liking different stuff in bed.

Spot on! We all have what we like and do not 100% like depending on the situation. If I am getting fucked I do not necessarily mind being sucked while getting fucked or stroked but once the top is in nice and deep and I am feeling it on the prostate or even 2nd hole if I get touched too much I am going to tighten up and that can make the top cum too quickly, so I have to balance it with pleasure for me and pleasure for them while making sure they last as long as possible I love cumming from being fucked so I want them to take their time and when they are getting close I can jerk or have them jerk me and I love if we both cum at the same time.

 

[CraigS41]

I’m strictly a top who’s never been fucked and have no desire to get fucked. My ass just isn’t a sexual part of my body.

I’ve fucked more big dicked guys than I can count.

When I first came out an older top advised, “Never touch a bottom’s cock. Eat his ass, kiss him and fuck his brains out. But never touch his cock, especially if it’s a big one.”

That advice has served me well.

In my experience a man who wants to bottom (not just get fucked but actually bottom) prefer to have me ignore their cocks and focus on eating and fucking their asses.

Not a universal truth, just something I’ve noticed as a lifelong top.

as a total bottom, I completely agree with this. If a guy feels that he must suck my dick, I much prefer him to do that before he fucks me, or after he's finished fucking me. I want ALL my concentration focused on the pleasure he is giving my ass

 

[discreetguy99]

as a total bottom, I completely agree with this. If a guy feels that he must suck my dick, I much prefer him to do that before he fucks me, or after he's finished fucking me. I want ALL my concentration focused on the pleasure he is giving my ass

Thank you. I’ve had well hung guys melt when they’ve started pulling down their pants and I say, “Just in back. I don’t care about the front.” before eating their ass like I was starving.

It’s also great for men who have smaller penises and are self conscious about it.

 

[Genuinkguy]

i dont understand that as im not a top, but it seems like me as a bottom loving tops with tight assholes.

 

[Sandymat]

I feel my choice in life is leaving me frustrated in that I’m mostly a top, 95% a top and that number can go down one day. But I love big dicks. Love seeing them touching them and sucking them… but for anal it’s not gonna happen lol. But seeking out hung dudes is kinda hard cause most of them only want to top. I’m so down to suck on a fat one but seems like hung guys don’t care for BJs… is that true?
Of course there are plenty of hung bottom and verse guys but I feel like none of them like to advertise that they are hung.

Just curious to all tops out there who live big dicks too how often do you actually get to play with big ones?

I love to bottom and have a larger cock . I love when they stroke it while inside me

 

[deleted4911161]

Some of our fellow tops don’t suck or even stroke the cock if their bottom…I’m a pleasurer so for me I want my bottom in positive agony I want him squirming and screaming in pleasure if I’m not swallowing his hot load after loading him up with mine if he hasn’t cum yet I don’t feel satisfied. If I don’t hear the words “oh fuck I’m going to cum” don’t stop…I don’t feel fulfilled

Same. I have gotten into little arguments here with some bottoms who say they don't get hard when bottoming. I am like wtf? Half the fun of topping a guy is seeing his hard and engorged dick and having it in your hand or sucking it while pumping his ass full. Lol

 

[big-e-low]

Same. I have gotten into little arguments here with some bottoms who say they don't get hard when bottoming. I am like wtf? Half the fun of topping a guy is seeing his hard and engorged dick and having it in your hand or sucking it while pumping his ass full. Lol

I know this thread has had a lot of differing opinions on this but just to add again from one of my earlier posts I am 100% vers and nice and hung. For the 100% tops that do not like if their bottom is hard I just want to give a perspective that depending on the individual bottoming situation not all sessions and not all dicks are created equal :0 When bottoming the sensations can go a myriad of ways and for some it does not always mean blood flow to the dick. I also if I am stroking and brick hard I sometimes tighten up my hole which in the past has made guys cum earlier which I want to get fucked for as long as possible hehe or for really horse hung guys it can sometimes make them loose their erection as those guys tend to like looser holes because they know they have a lot to work with So just as a mini disclaimer, if the bottom is not totally hard it is not a failure always on either parties, just the physical, sensation and mental aspects of the encounter.

 

[deleted4911161]

I know this thread has had a lot of differing opinions on this but just to add again from one of my earlier posts I am 100% vers and nice and hung. For the 100% tops that do not like if their bottom is hard I just want to give a perspective that depending on the individual bottoming situation not all sessions and not all dicks are created equal :0 When bottoming the sensations can go a myriad of ways and for some it does not always mean blood flow to the dick. I also if I am stroking and brick hard I sometimes tighten up my hole which in the past has made guys cum earlier which I want to get fucked for as long as possible hehe or for really horse hung guys it can sometimes make them loose their erection as those guys tend to like looser holes because they know they have a lot to work with So just as a mini disclaimer, if the bottom is not totally hard it is not a failure always on either parties, just the physical, sensation and mental aspects of the encounter.

As I said, I have had many discussions about this already and I have heard it all. For me, it doesn't matter. If I top you and you can't get hard, I am gonna go soft and it's a done deal. It just turns me off.

Very very rarely have I had sex with a guy who went limb and if finished off its because I was really horny and about to cum. And only happens if the bottom looses the erection midway through. I never start if the bottom doesn't get hard. Just the way I am.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

As I said, I have had many discussions about this already and I have heard it all. For me, it doesn't matter. If I top you and you can't get hard, I am gonna go soft and it's a done deal. It just turns me off.

Very very rarely have I had sex with a guy who went limb and if finished off its because I was really horny and about to cum. And only happens if the bottom looses the erection midway through. I never start if the bottom doesn't get hard. Just the way I am.

Just curious because you say you had "arguments" and you "heard it all" in rrsponse to his post. Do you think people are trying to convince you to keep being with and become attracted to bottoms who dont get hard? Or is it that people are trying to tell you about their perspectives just in response to something like, for example, "there's something wrong with a guy who doesn't get hard while bottoming." Vs. "If I top you and you can't get hard, I am gonna go soft and it's a done deal... just the way I am".

One accepts others and acknowledges own personal preference. The other judges all others who don't align with an arbitrary personal preference.

Not saying you personally did that. But just giving perspective on why an "argument" happens. It should more be like an exchange of ideas, personal experiences and such. Many people, (myself included!) Accidently make a sweeping judgement of others in such a way without realizing it!

Alternatively those other guys may be the ones also being overly sensitive. I know of some bottoms who want you to basically pretend their dick doesn't exist. And while that is also a perfecrly valid preference, some bottoms get *angry* that someone who wants to have sex with them just might like every part of them.

Im sure if many people suddenly were ranting about how they kicked someone out the bed because they mentioned or touched their earlobe, they would get the side eye. Not because of the preference but the reaction to it and especially if said or done in an indignant manner lol

 

[Hung4HungNYC]

Hung bottoms are the best bottoms

 

[siroliver19]

Agree