OP--Here's a newsflash: PORN IS NOT REAL. Now then...
Your time on the internet would be better spent researching and reading about that which you do not know. Your OP reeks of ignorance with a large side of bigotry.
You are on an all-inclusive (straight, bi, gay, transgender and every other in between) sexual-themed website. Your post clearly demonstrates your cavernous ignorance about that which you pontificate. So, allow me to help you out here with the definitions of some terms that will help you with your ignorance. At least, about this subject. That is, if you are truly interested...
trans·gen·der
transˈjendər,tranzˈjendər/
adjective
- denoting or relating to a person whose sense of personal identity and gender does not correspond with their birth sex.
trans·sex·u·al
tran(t)(s)ˈsekSH(o͞o)əl/
noun
- 1.
a person who emotionally and psychologically feels that they belong to the opposite sex.
synonyms: hermaphrodite, androgyne, epicene, intersex, transgendered person
cis·gen·der
sisˈjendər/
adjective
adjective:
cis-gender
- denoting or relating to a person whose sense of personal identity and gender corresponds with their birth sex.
Now, on to your post:
We begin with "My only real reference with Trans is all the video's even on this website." So now you're an expert on transgender individuals cuz you saw some porn. Some PORN. So you thought to yourself, get ready y'all cuz I'm about to lay some Trans facts on you all. That I learned from watching PORN. Um...NO.
Let's continue with "First, supposedly it is a guy who wants to be female." Nothing "supposedly" about this "want". Cuz it ain't no want. See definitions above. Reading comprehension is important.
There's this astute observation: "However, almost every trans video somehow in someway features their ass. Either they like getting fucked, having a toy or vibrator there, or fucking another guy usually. That's fine except that's not the normal sexual role of the majority of females." Other than PORN, what's this based on? From your personal experience? With Trans women? Cis women? What about women's experiences? Other men's experiences? Ever hear of pegging? Woman on top? You should surf around LPSG; these are just a few of topics that could help educate you about that which you have no clue.
And boom, let's play the GAY card too while were are it with this lovely "It's certainly not 100% but gay men are the ones more likely to have some backdoor . So, is Trans simply Gay with a few exceptions?" I'm 100% gay and I have a front door, and back door, a kitchen door and a porch door. I've been around non-gays too, and my observation is that they have pretty much the same setup. And no, Trans are not simply Gay with a few exceptions.
Let's continue: ""Then the other thing that is interesting to me, is quite a few Trans guys have really big cocks. They should be the Alpha male, and in some of the videos they are. But, why aren't they simply gay men then or having had the big cock born to them, interested in women? Honestly, I find it fascinating when you see one of these really well-hung trans videos." Trans people, notice I used people instead of guys, have a variety of genital sizes and gasp, equipment. Cis guys also have a variety of penis sizes. But then, a lot of male porn stars, both straight and gay, usually have large to really big cocks. Cuz it's PORN. That's what sells. Why, you ask, aren't they interested in women? Some are, some aren't. Just like Cis men and Cis women. My goodness, your ignorance on this subject is astounding. Again, see the two definitions above. Do some research. Educate yourself. Or at least stop pontificating about that which you are clueless.
"I know it is politically incorrect, but it does seem like there are mental issues that exist." You sir, are indeed politically incorrect. Or maybe you have mental issues, who knows? Purely conjecture on my part; just like it is purely conjecture to generalize about Trans people in the same way.
"I mean if the Trans person speaks there is over emphasis often on trying to sound girlish to an unrealistic level. The makeup and appearance is frequently over the top as well." Why is this even an issue for you? Maybe you have a high-pitched feminine-sounding voice? I don't want to generalize here; neither should you.
"And, then again, the ass central focus with dildos is not feminine at all." You've obviously not been around these forums. There are several forums on Dildos, and from reading them, it's clear to me that you are wrong. Bigly wrong. On this and pretty much everything else you've typed in this thread.
"OK, fire away, but explain your thoughts and please forget about being politically correct since this is anonymous." I'm not firing away, I'm trying to educate you. Cuz it's clear you need some FACTS. About this subject and so much more. Ain't no need to be political about any of this; just need to be correct. And you are not. At all.
Let me leave you with some final thoughts. PORN IS NOT REAL WORLD. Stupidity cannot be overcome; ignorance can though. So, if you ain't stupid, get busy working on that ignorance. It's amazing how much fun these forums can be when one participates with facts and information rather than conjecture ascribed from PORN, or wherever.