I've been to plenty of of these. The babies don't cry. The mohels generally use some sort of pain reliever cream. I can't speak to doctors in hospitals. The mohels that I know are all doctors and they do this as general procedure.
It's better to use scientific studies that look at physiological response (like cortisol levels and breathing rates) under local and generalized anesthesia. They're more objective, less anecdotal, and more complete. Before we did these studies, we actually performed circumcisions on infants with no anesthesia because they didn't look upset. Turns out that their bodies were actually in systemic shock. We didn't really figure that out until like 1990
because of anecdotal observation.
You're right that infant circumcision is relatively low-pain in most cases thanks to anesthesia. Of course, "relatively low-pain" is still a dumb amount of pain if infant circumcision is wrong. And it is, but I don't think pain response is a significant reason why.
Personally, I don't remember my circumcision, and it hasn't caused me hate towards my parents. I don't know why the anti-circumcision people have such hatred towards all of us who are cut or who think it's ok for it to be done.
Hi. Apparently we haven't met. I'm Young Native. I'm against infant circumcision. I don't hate you or your parents. I mean, I don't know your parents, but I'm sure they love you and wish the best for you. I also love my parents, and if they'd had me circumcised, I'd still love them. That doesn't mean I'd have been happy with their decision, or that the decision would have been right. Good people with good intentions can be wrong.
Now that we've cleared that up, I hope we can talk logically about infant circumcision, instead of "circumcision [supporters/opponents] are jerks!" Because, even if they all were, it's the logic of the arguments that matters.
Anyway, let's get down to the logic here, which is where I think defending infant circumcision falls apart. Here's a few questions for you:
Why don't you think circumcision should be the individual's choice? Do you not think reasonable people have different personal preferences on this issue? If you do, what makes routine infant circumcision a reasonable practice?