Wanting To Top When You’re The Bottom

[RG97]

I was wondering if anyone had experienced this or had any advice. I am “the bottom” in my relationship and don’t get me wrong, the sex is great and I love it. That said, I do have the urge to top from time to time. I did bring it up to my partner and although he was ok with idea in concept, he has never been willing to actually go through with it. He is very nervous about my size and if he could take it and also the fact he hasn’t bottomed for a long time. What would you guys advise?

 

[Crex]

In my partnership, we do not have a lot of anal sex -- I'd say four or five times a year, tops. When we do, I'm the one who bottoms, because I've found ways to genuinely enjoy it. As the "bottom," the few times he's let me top him, I struggle to make it "good" for him because I get so excited and cum quickly. I wish I'd have been less selfish during the earlier times, because he says he doesn't like him because of my size. He is also big, tho, and hits my prostate just right every time I bottom. I'm sort of rambling at the moment, but yes, I can empathize with your situation...