relationship

  1. B

    Telling my girl about all this?

    Hey all! So I’ve started a relationship recently, and we’ve been able to be very honest and open about a lot of stuff so far. However I’ve never really told someone about my online antics, IE snapping guys pics of me, being on cam, posting on forums like this, etc etc I haven’t told her about...
  2. E

    Masturbation instead of sex

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years now and recently we've been living together. One thing that bothers me is that he prefers masturbation to sex with me. I am a very sexual person and he is not, despite watching porn every day, which I also do. However, I'd prefer a...
  3. T

    We ended things and now I feel broken

    I'm sorry for the long post in advance, but I could really use some advice right because I just don't feel good at all. I can't remember the last time I've felt this way. I'm (24M) bisexual and have never dated a guy until a couple of months ago. Honestly, this was the year (Late January) that...
  4. Prnri

    23 yo latin from Chile

    Hello, this is my first post. I'm Nick from Chile, and I'm 23 years old. I'm versatile. I love nature and videogames. I'm looking for a friendship or a relationship. The distance is not a problem, I can travel or you too. I speak Spanish, English and Portuguese. Also I want to learn German and...
  5. J

    Consejo en relación

    Hace unos meses estoy saliendo con un chico y las cosas van en serio. Lo malo es que no le gusta chupar culo ni siquiera dilatarme con los dedos Solo quiere meterlo y me dice que yo debo estar listo para todo No se si debería seguir o que hacer
  6. S

    Long distance relationship/LDR

    Hey guys! I haven’t seen any similar threads but is anyone interested or looking to try a long distance relationship? This might be odd to some, but I’m willing to try and see if things go well. I’m 25, Asian, 5’10, and closeted bi. I’m cool with anyone as long as we vibe. Send me a message if...
  7. J

    Questions I have always been to shy to ask

    Hi all, I've been out and gay for most of my life but have been together with my partner since almost the beginning, as was he. We are both curious about a lot of things but have no one to ask! Here are my questions: 1. do guys sometimes suck dicks after they were in the bottoms ass? Do you...
  8. L

    Relationship advice

    Hello everyone. First of all, thank you in advance to those who read me. I don't really know where to start, I don't even really know why I'm writing this here, but the truth is that I need advice from more experienced people. In short, I don't know what to do with my relationship. Me and my...
  9. D

    Me (31M) and Him (25M) we are coworkers that have gotten fairly close and now its confusing

    Both myself and my coworker (I'll call him M) are openly gay. M started working in my department roughly 5 months ago. We started talking casually about work and then moved things over to telegram (messaging). We started talking daily and eventually hung out one on one a few times as well as...
  10. F

    The Ultimate Dream Guy: Physical and Mental Checklist

    We all have certain types of guys we find attractive, and sometimes we have multiple types. But have you ever met the ultimate dream guy who ticks all the physical or mental boxes or both and is almost like a living fantasy? If so, how did it go when you met him? If not, describe him.
  11. HunkReinolds

    my str8 gym crush is “killing me”

    I have a massive crush on this straight guy in my gym, and I’ve been discussing this issue with some members in other related threads, but I decided to create a separate thread for this matter since it’s escalating really quick (you guys gave me the courage to engage lol). I’ll be posting here...
  12. D

    Sexless relationship

    Hi guys, I am going through a very difficult situation and I wonder if any of you has gone through this and how did you deal with it? my boyfriend and I haven’t had sex at all in the last year and I could say maybe 1 or 2 times in the last 2 years. I am going crazy, I always try to speak to him...
  13. Y

    Newly committed

    Hey guys, Am 22 and I started dating my boyfriend since September and we officially became together since February. The problem is I guess I am a polyamorous and I know for sure he is a monogamous. We live in a homophobic country, you can imagine the risks, so we have zero to little sexual...
  14. W

    Seducing the curious one?

    It's probably one of the most stupid question I've asked my entire life, but I have a crush on - let's call him a classmate. I'm pretty sure he's straight. He is soooo cute, but unfortunately at first he wasn't ok even with simple flirting (he was super shy) and I was like "ok, that's the...
  15. J

    25 M. Texas Single looking for something serious

    As the title suggests. 25 male, 5’8, 260 Lbs (I’m working on it, gym 3-4 times a week, while also working a warehouse job 45 hrs a week). Looking for something serious, and just tired of feeling lonely honestly. I’m on the thicker side, I will admit but I’m working on that because I wanna love...
  16. P

    Gay Relationship advice - what should be done here?

    Hello everyone, I am usually quite self sufficient and don’t need to ask for advice. I have been seeing a therapist for many years and I deal quite well with my feelings and situations. Background: I’ve been with my partner for 6+ years together in a closed relationship. I know since years...
  17. T

    How do you guys balance bisexuality in a relationship?

    I'll try to make a long story short but I'm bisexual. No one knows except me and I've never done anything with another guy before, I've never even talked to one as more than a friend. Of course, I've had crushes over the years but I've never acted on my feelings for obvious reasons. I've been...
  18. A

    BEST PRACTICAL tips and advice for the PERFECT dating pics and profile on apps like Hinge, Tinder, OkCupid, etc?

    Hi! I don't find myself attractive. I'm not saying this for sympathy. If you're like me, the dating world is scary and frustrating at times especially with dating apps asking for pics (I'm not anything close to a photographer) and summaries (definitely not a writer). I understand it's natural to...
  19. asianduck8

    SEA guy never have relationship

    Hi, everyone I am 33 yo from SEA, 52kg 164cm I never have relationship in my live, because I found many gay here in my country have unhealthy relationship also it is ilegal here. I don't know if I am considered virgin or not, just got BJ couples of times but did not F**king so I don't know if I...
  20. miahgenesis

    im trans and im felling gonna be alone forever

    maybe because I'm transexual and this society is not ready for people like me but I feel I'm going to be alone forever even though I'm sexy and small I'm 4'5 I'm really petite but I never had a boyfriend or a serious relationship I'm really sexual and love sex, but I want to fall in love I...
  21. freefolkf

    Is he still my friend?

    One night just after my graduation from university, I was playing on chat roulette, when I met a very cute guy. We jerked off and that was it. In the few days that followed, we practically fell in love and we were constantly in contact, talking and getting to know each other. He wanted to start...
  22. C

    Is there a difference in dating a man vs a woman?

    So I identify as a bi, cisgender man and have had relationships with women and am currently in my first one with a man. I can’t help but to think that some things are the same (need for clear communication, trust, and respect, etc.) but in other ways, I struggle to reconcile the differences (or...
  23. DK-Curious

    My GF doesn't have any sexsual fantasies or "kinks", but i have plenty...

    If this is a topic, that have been enlightened before, please refer to topic in comments :) Couldn't find any topic while i did the search (new to the site...) Little about us. So.. I’ve been with my gf for 3 years now, and we have a great time together and love each other more than words can...
  24. S

    Am I being unfaithful or unsatisfied?

    LONG POST Hi, I am a 22 year old closeted bi who's been in a relationship with a close friend for almost 3 months. To start it off, I have always been interested in dudes especially the male chest (weird, I know) as long as I can remember. Had some interest in women as well but for the past few...
  25. Tight_N_Juicy

    " Make-up Sex "

    If you're in a long term relationship you probably are familiar with the concept of "make-up sex". After a fight, the sex seems to be more intense. I don't want to say "better" because that's not the right word.. It's just noticably different. It's like reaffirming the bond. Mending the wound...
  26. Marlon Forsgren

    What Is The Steps To Have Sex With A Man With Large Penis?

    Hello everyone! I need advices and tips about sex, someone can help me? What is the steps to have sex with a man with large penis? All help is highly appreciated, I thank you all in beforehand.
  27. bigboaster

    If You Are Sexually Attracted To Men, But Only Have Romantic Relationships With Women. Why?

    Pretty straight forward. If you are the type that has girlfriends/wives but you are not interested in having a boyfriend. Just one night stands and hookups. Is there is any special reasoning for this? I'm a very gay leaning bi myself but I am interested in both genders sexually and...
  28. william hagans

    Bringing Up That You Want To Be Fucked By Other People

    Okay so I am a very open person. Though I love my boyfriend he is a very non sexual person. He would rather jerk off then have sex. While I am a very sexual person who loves having a dick in me. Now I know he is a little open cause we have come to discuss it is okay for him to have Grindr cause...
  29. L

    Question.

    So I've been with my bf 8 years he's 41 I'm 29... Well over a year now since we have any intercourse we just kiss he has very mild depression but blames that on not having any type of sex oral etc but I'm finding it really hard to not go out nd cheat I haven't I miss affection and sex I've spoke...
  30. A

    Dealing With First Love Advice

    Super new to the site, but thought it wouldn't hurt to give this a try.. As a little backstory, I am 22 years old and have never fallen in love until this past summer. My teenage years were spent heavily in the closet and my college years were spent trying to navigate my new life as an out gay...