Wesley Woods

Wesley said he was gay for the longest time, then went on to experiment, liked it & declared himself fluid. Nothing wrong with that. Its what he said afterwards that drew backlash. How gay guys are "scared" of sleeping with girls & that by not wanting do, they are "limiting themselves". Some misogynistic stuff was thrown in there too, then he quickly retired. He was on IG, but left. Now back to Twitter.
 
Wesley said he was gay for the longest time, then went on to experiment, liked it & declared himself fluid. Nothing wrong with that. Its what he said afterwards that drew backlash. How gay guys are "scared" of sleeping with girls & that by not wanting do, they are "limiting themselves". Some misogynistic stuff was thrown in there too, then he quickly retired. He was on IG, but left. Now back to Twitter.


If I had to guess, I believe the dude is almost entirely homosexual. It seems he got caught up in homo insecurities and inferiority complexes and also became obsessed with closeted guys, “straight” guys and “fluid” guys. He also saw how much money there was to be made when it comes to doing all different types of porn and how much more attention you got by presenting yourself as “not ‘gay”. And yes, what he said made him look really homo-shaming and anti-gay and simply like a pathetic creep: claiming all homosexual men or men who wish to live an entirely homo lifestyle are just scared of women, claiming that he was “straight” before he started gay porn (now he’s claiming he was out for way before he started doing porn and was never “straight”), talking about women in a rather inhuman way as if they were inanimate objects.

The dude has consistently lied and built persona for the sake of image, ego, insecurities, money and sociology. While a lot of queers, especially porn performers/sex workers, do struggle with different stuff like fluidity, hyper-sexuality, paraphiliacs, gay resentments, homo inferiority complexes, queer insecurities, past traumas, mental health struggles, understanding the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. He in particular has lied so much, trolled so much, said so much out of anger or insecurities or attention. It’s impossible to take him seriously. However his life unfolds I just hope he finds peace and also isn’t “problematic”.
 
Finally, these guys need to stop using the “porn persona” or “social media persona” excuse to cover up all the shitty and problematic things that they do and say on social media or for some money and validation. It wasn’t even a “fluid persona”. He was being egregiously homo-shaming and anti-gay for a few months. Just own what you did, apologize and move on.

People like him who can’t admit their flaws or insecurities or the hurtful/disrespectful stuff they put out there- they’re so incredibly unlikable. Yet, they expect constant support.
 
Finally, these guys need to stop using the “porn persona” or “social media persona” excuse to cover up all the shitty and problematic things that they do and say on social media or for some money and validation. It wasn’t even a “fluid persona”. He was being egregiously homo-shaming and anti-gay for a few months. Just own what you did, apologize and move on.

People like him who can’t admit their flaws or insecurities or the hurtful/disrespectful stuff they put out there- they’re so incredibly unlikable. Yet, they expect constant support.
He was never gay to begin with he bi. All he wants is attention
 
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He was never gay to begin with he bi. All he wants is attention

I’m not here to determine the dimensions of anyone’s sexuality. And I don’t care that much about identity. Fluidity or questioning is a thing many folks experience. While for a lot of people, “gay” has less to do with being a complete homosexual and more to do with overall leanings or preferences or lifestyle. And the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum is wide and varied as hell. Also, in the world of sex work, so much of what everyone does is driven by image, ego, money, paraphiliacs, hyper-sexuality, drugs, mental health struggles, etc. So, there’s not much point in discussing the dimensions of any of these people.

What I ask for is to not come off like a user, come off like a drama queen or come off like someone who’s willing to push harmful or hateful perspectives. He’s failed at all those things a multitude of times over the years. Just like perhaps most of these porn dudes. But yes, he does seem like someone who just says and tweets out whatever. And he does seem very driven by insecurities and constant validation seeking.
 
Based on how he squealed when I plowed him in Austin, he’s definitely one that enjoys sex with men. Period :)

I really don’t get why so many people obsess over who’s 100% homo or hetero, especially when it comes to people in sex work. Most people in porn are hyper sexual, and they engage in sex for money and ego as much as any other reason. Fluidity and contradictions are extremely common in the porn world. While none of the non homo stuff Wesley did was very convincing anyways. Even the few bi clips were very lame.

The issue is that he wants to completely cover over that he’s an extreme narcissist (typical of porn performers) who has said problematic, homo-shaming, anti-gay stuff while making a name and money off of queerdom. And hiding behind “porn persona” doesn’t erase those behaviors. The nuances of his sexuality or sexual journey or where he is in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum is not really the point.
 
Wesley said he was gay for the longest time, then went on to experiment, liked it & declared himself fluid. Nothing wrong with that. Its what he said afterwards that drew backlash. How gay guys are "scared" of sleeping with girls & that by not wanting do, they are "limiting themselves". Some misogynistic stuff was thrown in there too, then he quickly retired. He was on IG, but left. Now back to Twitter.
Did he leave twitter again?
 
He is being a bit of a mess om Facebook, talking about a date he had with Billy Eicher, where he pretended to not know who he was to edge him on.
 
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He is being a bit of a mess on Facebook, talking about a date he had with Billy Eicher, where he pretended to not know who he was to edge him on.

Keeping up with him is not worthwhile. He’s shown for the last some odd years that he’s nothing more than a damaged, messy queen and troll. Just further proof that placing these performers on pedestals isn’t the route to go. No matter how “hot” or nice they may come off for stretches, many if not most contend with degrees of insecurities, self-hate, queer resentments, homo shame, mental health struggles, fluidity, contradictions, paraphiliacs that they don’t know how to maturely deal with, will do or say anything for relevance or attention, will exploit anyone for attention and money. He was never even that good of a performer. And he’s retired. Just wank off to their “work” and keep it pushing.