Wet Dreams

innowhere

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...I've only found one other person on here that has never had a wet dream...but it was never really discussed... is there any particular reason why I've never had one...I'm 20 years old, and even though I've heard they can be a pain in the ass, it'd be nice to know I'm somewhat normal. Any suggestions?
 
Do you have, should I say "normal", dreams, innowhere? If you do dream and remember them, the only reason I can give for your not having wet dreams would be that you keep your cum well drained from your prostate and testicles. If you regularly masturbate or copulate, then everything 'down there' is well taken care of and there's not the fullness that needs to get relief. Let us know, because you certainly are in the minority and I'm puzzled as much as you.

Luke
 
innowhere said:
...I've only found one other person on here that has never had a wet dream...but it was never really discussed... is there any particular reason why I've never had one...I'm 20 years old, and even though I've heard they can be a pain in the ass, it'd be nice to know I'm somewhat normal. Any suggestions?

Make that two other persons. I've never had one either for what that's worth.
 
For what it's worth, when I was about 13 or so, I discovered that I could prevent wet dreams by making sure I went to the bathroom immediately before going to bed.

Maybe you've been doing that all along?
 
"Tried to go 2 or 3 months without jerking off"?!?! What will power!
You can add me to the list of guys who has never had a "wet" dream......
Oh, and nobody's "normal", thank goodness.:rolleyes:
 
i know somebody who says he gets them all the time; he also says he doesn't like to masturbate a lot - go figure. "in the end", he says "they really are annoying because i'm always changing my underwear - underwear that was clean - and, sometimes, my sheets."

i guess life can be quite unbearable at times.
 
I'm 35 years old and I've never had a wet dream my entire life. I have really intense sex dreams sometimes. Dreams so hot I'm suprised I don't shoot my load. I used to think it was because I jacked off too much. Now I dont give it much thought.
Don't worry about it.
 
No wet dreams here either. I'm a little surprised -- wet dreamers, speak up!
 
rawbone8 said:
hadn't considered that, perhaps they were shamed for wetting the bed as wee lads and the same stigma gets attached to sexual emissions?

if i were a bettin' man rawbone, i'd bet you were right.
 
Wet dreams usually occur in young guys who are just becoming able to ejaculate semen. I've heard some guys say that they had orgasms in their sleep even before they could ejaculate....so I guess those would be called dry dreams? Anyway, usually as a teenager, even if you masturbated a lot, there was such a high level of sexual excitement/arousal going on, that wet dreams could occur. The longer one went without ejaculating, the greater the chance of a wet dream. You most likely have had very sexual dreams in which you came. Maybe your semen dried before you awoke? Maybe you slept naked and didn't notice the wet spot on the sheets? The only thing I would worry about was if you have a difficult time ejaculating. If you aren't coming during sex, and you aren't masturbating, eventually I would think you would have a wet dream. But the older you get, the less likely wet dreams are to occur. They were a bit problematic at times, but I loved the dreams that went with them. I wish I had more of them now!