What do I do....?

[Hung_BF-Lover]

Okay, I've been really, super-close, best friends with this kid since before either of us was 18. He's a total sweetheart, with a nice bod, and a young Italian hottie. For some unfathomable reason, his BF cheated on him, and kicked him outta their house. And with no ulterior motive (I swear on my own soul) I keep one of the spare bedrooms in my house open for him in case he ever needs a place to go.

So, he's stayin' with me. We're just close friends, but there's a new problem. He's started hitting on me, now. I don't want to take advantage of our friendship, nor do i want to be a "rebound". Also, he's waaaaaaaay too hung for me to handle. And I don't mean a simple 7 or 8 inches. I mean it sticks out in baggy pants when soft / up to his navel when hard. I don't want to hurt his feelings by rejecting him.

Any advice....?

 

[Onslow]

If you truly do not want involvement with him then don't get involved. You have kept a room available for him so maybe there is a deeper part of you that does want some sort of involvement although his size scares the bejeezes out of you. Good point also about not wanting to be a rebound-- never a good place to be.

 

[GoneA]

You don't want to get involved...then don't. Make this very clear to him; be nice, but firm.

People always quote 'if they are your friend, then they will understand'; but, friends don't always understand. If this is the case, you may want to try separating yourself from him....physically.

P.S. a penis reaching one's naval really isn't saying much.

 

[Pappy]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(GoneA &#064; Nov 3 2005, 09&#58;45 AM) [post=357927]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>

P.S. a penis reaching one&#39;s naval really isn&#39;t saying much.
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Uuummm..........wouldn&#39;t that depend on the location (distance from the base of the penis) of the naval??

 

[Edmond405]

The best thing to do is basically what everyone has said. Talk to him. Tell him how you feel about your friendship and its importance. After he gets over the jerk, maybe then there might be something between you. I agree with earlier post, if you&#39;ve kept a room ready for him, you obviously care deeply for him (even if just as a friend). That&#39;s worth a lot, man. Certainly a friend that good is worth keeping. He&#39;s probably reaching out in order to get over feeling rejected (nothing against you). He needs time and you need to talk.

- E

PS - and I was VERY surprised once at how much I could handle and I hadn&#39;t thought I could bottom. It all depends on who is attached to the other end of the dick. ;-)

 

[jonb]

Tell him what we all know: Rebounds suck (and not in a good way). And you don&#39;t want to ruin your friendship. Tell your friend he&#39;s a great guy, and once he gets over the aforementioned jerk, he&#39;ll have guys lining up to date him.

 

[GoneA]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Pappy &#064; Nov 3 2005, 07&#58;04 PM) [post=357973]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(GoneA &#064; Nov 3 2005, 09&#58;45 AM) [post=357927]Quoted post[/post]</div><div class='quotemain'>

P.S. a penis reaching one&#39;s naval really isn&#39;t saying much.
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Uuummm..........wouldn&#39;t that depend on the location (distance from the base of the penis) of the naval??
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Yeah. That&#39;s why I said it really isn&#39;t saying much.