What do you do when you mess up with a guy?

[thedudesterx69]

I didn’t know where to post this since there’s no general question directory.

I really like this guy a lot but I didn’t at first. I was head over heels with this one guy so obviously I ignored him since I was seeing someone at the time. Things didn’t work out and I want him but he’s mad at me.

He’s still single too and I want to win him over.

 

[thedudesterx69]

I’ve tried to text him but he ignored me. I don’t think he’s interested anymore and I hate it. I don’t like him because I can’t have him, I genuinely want him and it’s beating me up bad!

Should I just move on? Or try to win him over again?

 

[ILoveGames48]

.. did he know you were dating someone .. ?

Did he act interested in you while you were dating someone

 

[thedudesterx69]

.. did he know you were dating someone .. ?

Did he act interested in you while you were dating someone

I don’t think he did. I told him what happened and he left me on read.

 

[ILoveGames48]

All you can do is tell him you were dating someone ..

But under no circumstances .. do you ever ignore a friend for anyone.. or any reason

A true friend be there for when or if you break up with your bf/gf and then go from there ..

Best you can do is apologize .. and hope mend that part of your friendship before proceeding on

 

[Brodie888]

You've said all you can say. It's time to move on. He probably thinks that he's not going to be someone's second choice or backup plan.

In a year or so you might get another shot but it would be a long shot. He's clearly not interested enough to give you a second chance anyway. So it probably wouldn't have worked out any way.

 

[thedudesterx69]

You've said all you can say. It's time to move on. He probably thinks that he's not going to be someone's second choice or backup plan.

In a year or so you might get another shot but it would be a long shot. He's clearly not interested enough to give you a second chance anyway. So it probably wouldn't have worked out any way.

He wasn’t a backup plan. I was seeing someone so I wasn’t gonna be flirty with someone while I was in a relationship.
I’m crushed because he really liked me.

 

[Brodie888]

He wasn’t a backup plan. I was seeing someone so I wasn’t gonna be flirty with someone while I was in a relationship.
I’m crushed because he really liked me.

Yes, I understand. I am just saying how he has probably interpreted your explanation and why he hasn't bothered to even reply to you.

That's life, whether it's a job interview, a property purchase or a boy; timing is everything and there's nothing you can do but roll the dice again and hope for a better outcome next time.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

That's a tough situation to be in, but it sounds like you made a mistake ignoring him instead of telling him you're already dating someone until it was too late and he'd already moved on.