What do you like the most/least in porn?

[azmachote]

There's a lot I enjoy, but what do I specifically look out for?

1. The anal sex ends in creampies/breeding and seeding.
2. Big dicks

I get in the mood for different kinds of guys and different situations depending on random chance. The big things I'm not into are fisting and scat.

 

[Southeasterner]

DISLIKES:
1. Scenes with suggestions of abuse. Unnecessary, ugly and gross.
2. Too many tattoos/piercings. I want to see the performer's face, body and genitalia.
3. Performers promoting drug use, including Poppers.
4. Very old men with young adults who look like teenagers. Creepy!
5. Kinks, Fisting, humiliations, suggestions of torture. Not for me.
6. Any scene in which the performer looks like or imitates someone underage. Totally creepy.
7. Bad lighting, scenes with dark/macabre themes.
8. Tops mistreating bottoms. Without the bottom, there is no scene. The scene is for both to shine.
9. Gays for pays treating gay performers with contempt. Total lack of professionalism. Want Pink Money? Then learn to treat gays well, starting with your scene partners.
10. Insults or mockery about races, ethnicities and religious beliefs.

LIKES:
1. All races and ethnicities. And it's interesting to see people from other countries.
2. Beautiful settings. They don't have to be fancy. A simple, clean setting can be a very beautiful.
3. Porn with a story/plot.
4. Natural beauty. The more natural, the more beautiful I think the performer is.
5. Scenes that highlight both actors.
6. Actors who are reasonably close in age or actors with difference of age, but clear consent.
7. Scenes where both actors are having fun. The best!
8. Good lighting, clean sheets, healthy-looking actors.
9. Scenes that normalize homosexual couples as hard-working, intelligent people and not as perverts.
10. Movies with diverse casts: blond, black, red-haired, Asian, Latino, Arab, tall, short, long hair, short hair, bald, bearded, beardless, tattooed, not tattooed, American, non-American, athletic, thin, fat, masculine, effeminate.
11. Romantic and fun scenes with hot sex. Happy endings.
12. Everyday scenes.
13. Safe sex. Condom scenes are very sexy. It is important to promote body care.
14. Natural settings. It relaxes the mind.
15. Cities from every region of the USA. All states are important. Medium-sized cities, towns.
16. When possible, scenarios from other countries.
17. Sex as consensual, safe, pleasurable for both, healthy, fun and painless.
18. Additional scenes with recording errors, funny situations.

 

[boycut92]

DISLIKES:
1. Scenes with suggestions of abuse. Unnecessary, ugly and gross.
2. Too many tattoos/piercings. I want to see the performer's face, body and genitalia.
3. Performers promoting drug use, including Poppers.
4. Very old men with young adults who look like teenagers. Creepy!
5. Kinks, Fisting, humiliations, suggestions of torture. Not for me.
6. Any scene in which the performer looks like or imitates someone underage. Totally creepy.
7. Bad lighting, scenes with dark/macabre themes.
8. Tops mistreating bottoms. Without the bottom, there is no scene. The scene is for both to shine.
9. Gays for pays treating gay performers with contempt. Total lack of professionalism. Want Pink Money? Then learn to treat gays well, starting with your scene partners.
10. Insults or mockery about races, ethnicities and religious beliefs.

LIKES:
1. All races and ethnicities. And it's interesting to see people from other countries.
2. Beautiful settings. They don't have to be fancy. A simple, clean setting can be a very beautiful.
3. Porn with a story/plot.
4. Natural beauty. The more natural, the more beautiful I think the performer is.
5. Scenes that highlight both actors.
6. Actors who are reasonably close in age or actors with difference of age, but clear consent.
7. Scenes where both actors are having fun. The best!
8. Good lighting, clean sheets, healthy-looking actors.
9. Scenes that normalize homosexual couples as hard-working, intelligent people and not as perverts.
10. Movies with diverse casts: blond, black, red-haired, Asian, Latino, Arab, tall, short, long hair, short hair, bald, bearded, beardless, tattooed, not tattooed, American, non-American, athletic, thin, fat, masculine, effeminate.
11. Romantic and fun scenes with hot sex. Happy endings.
12. Everyday scenes.
13. Safe sex. Condom scenes are very sexy. It is important to promote body care.
14. Natural settings. It relaxes the mind.
15. Cities from every region of the USA. All states are important. Medium-sized cities, towns.
16. When possible, scenarios from other countries.
17. Sex as consensual, safe, pleasurable for both, healthy, fun and painless.
18. Additional scenes with recording errors, funny situations.

I love your take on how porn is much more enjoyable when it depicts natural, safe, respectful, healthy sex. I sometimes enjoy watching something more kinky, but I have to agree that the best porn is what you describe in your likes: real people having fun together and giving each other pleasure.
I wish there were more videos with what you mention in #18. I enjoy the little interview some studios do with performers before the scene, and how they chat after sex too, like in the shower or something. Sometimes you can really see the chemistry between the performers and the light and fun environment they enjoy. I have fun seeing them having fun.
Funny situations can be really sexy too. I love videos of "bloopers" in porn, like when a guy cums too soon or has to stop abruptly to keep from cumming.

 

[Southeasterner]

I love your take on how porn is much more enjoyable when it depicts natural, safe, respectful, healthy sex. I sometimes enjoy watching something more kinky, but I have to agree that the best porn is what you describe in your likes: real people having fun together and giving each other pleasure.
I wish there were more videos with what you mention in #18. I enjoy the little interview some studios do with performers before the scene, and how they chat after sex too, like in the shower or something. Sometimes you can really see the chemistry between the performers and the light and fun environment they enjoy. I have fun seeing them having fun.
Funny situations can be really sexy too. I love videos of "bloopers" in porn, like when a guy cums too soon or has to stop abruptly to keep from cumming.

I like the 18 because you see what performers are like in real life. Many have a goofy attitude, make jokes, laugh when they make mistakes, make faces. It's a lot of fun.

 

[maxxxs]

A lot of my Likes have been posted already so I'm gonna be a negative Nancy with some Dislikes:

- Too many close ups of the fucking. I get that maybe they want to prove that actual penetration is happening and it's not fake or whatever, but I don't need to see extended super close shots of the dick going in and out. I prefer to see the models' bodies while they're doing it.

- Keeping socks and/or shoes on during the scene. Unless it's specific for a fetish angle, I find it so distracting, and not just because I like feet and always prefer to see them on display, but if the rest of the dude is totally naked aside from this one part my eyes just keep going to it. It seems to have become weirdly common recently, and at first I thought maybe it was just me and the particular models/scenes I was checking out, but I've seen too many examples of it on different studio scenes and individual OnlyFans for it to just be a me thing lol. I don't like it.

- Scenes that cut off too soon during the post-coital moments. I feel like I've seen so many where the models are clearly into each other, or at least doing a good job acting like it, and keep kissing and heavy petting or caressing each other after the cum shots, then the camera pans away after only a few seconds and the scene ends. Why on earth do they think we wouldn't want to see that?!

 

[boycut92]

A lot of my Likes have been posted already so I'm gonna be a negative Nancy with some Dislikes:

- Too many close ups of the fucking. I get that maybe they want to prove that actual penetration is happening and it's not fake or whatever, but I don't need to see extended super close shots of the dick going in and out. I prefer to see the models' bodies while they're doing it.

- Keeping socks and/or shoes on during the scene. Unless it's specific for a fetish angle, I find it so distracting, and not just because I like feet and always prefer to see them on display, but if the rest of the dude is totally naked aside from this one part my eyes just keep going to it. It seems to have become weirdly common recently, and at first I thought maybe it was just me and the particular models/scenes I was checking out, but I've seen too many examples of it on different studio scenes and individual OnlyFans for it to just be a me thing lol. I don't like it.

- Scenes that cut off too soon during the post-coital moments. I feel like I've seen so many where the models are clearly into each other, or at least doing a good job acting like it, and keep kissing and heavy petting or caressing each other after the cum shots, then the camera pans away after only a few seconds and the scene ends. Why on earth do they think we wouldn't want to see that?!

Couldn't agree more about the closeups. I'm much more interested in seeing their body, and their faces too. Much more interesting than the dick going in is how the bottom is reacting to being penetrated. Same goes for the top, I wanna see how the sex is affecting him.

I'm not particularly bothered by socks or shoes, but I'd never keep that on while fucking, so I understand. Same goes for other pieces of clothing, in my opinion. No shirts, no pants. Even if it's a jockstrap or something like that, it has to go at some point.

I also agree with you on post-sex takes. I really enjoy seeing the performers recovering after a great orgasm, exchanging caresses or talking.

 

[Southeasterner]

A lot of my Likes have been posted already so I'm gonna be a negative Nancy with some Dislikes:

- Too many close ups of the fucking. I get that maybe they want to prove that actual penetration is happening and it's not fake or whatever, but I don't need to see extended super close shots of the dick going in and out. I prefer to see the models' bodies while they're doing it.

- Keeping socks and/or shoes on during the scene. Unless it's specific for a fetish angle, I find it so distracting, and not just because I like feet and always prefer to see them on display, but if the rest of the dude is totally naked aside from this one part my eyes just keep going to it. It seems to have become weirdly common recently, and at first I thought maybe it was just me and the particular models/scenes I was checking out, but I've seen too many examples of it on different studio scenes and individual OnlyFans for it to just be a me thing lol. I don't like it.

- Scenes that cut off too soon during the post-coital moments. I feel like I've seen so many where the models are clearly into each other, or at least doing a good job acting like it, and keep kissing and heavy petting or caressing each other after the cum shots, then the camera pans away after only a few seconds and the scene ends. Why on earth do they think we wouldn't want to see that?!

I liked your comments.

There are some people who are interested in socks. People who like socks usually like suits and ties. It's a niche. I think they're nice when they're dress socks, because they're elegant.

As for regular socks, I think they're unnecessary. It's nice to see the actors's feet, and there are people who like to see feet.

I totally agree with you about the post-coital moments.

 

[maxxxs]

I like the suit and tie thing myself (Men At Play) but in those cases it's expected. I'm talking about random, regular scenes with no fetish or kink angle where the socks or shoes are kept on. Sean Cody, for example, has several of its most recent scenes with models wearing them through the whole thing. Corbin Fisher has done it a few times too, even though they, out of all the mainstream big studios, used to be the main one for featuring (bare) foot fetish moments in their scenes randomly for years.

 

[bearydork]

Love:
1. Vocal partners in scenes. I love even the truly unhinged moaners and groaners.
2.Sexy dialog. The amount of times someone just saying something in a scene pushed me over the edge I tell ya. It can be sweet, raunchy but my favorite is when someone acknowledges they are sucking a dick that was just inside em "How's your ass taste on my dick?" Or "like that dick clean" like Just propose to me that's so good.
3.Good acting: I know I'm watching porn don't get me wrong but we don't need to oral book report the set up stuff either. Have fun and jump Into the roles.
4. Different body representation. There are some beautiful men out there who are bigger and guys who look like the dad bod next door and deserve staring roles. I think of Dale Savage who honestly has a fairly average dick and a lil belly but dude brings it and has a huge fan base and big name studios should hope to find more of him and bigger bodies online and get em in scenes today.

Hate:
1.Heavily expositional dialog. This is a fantasy after all. I watched a movie where so much time was spe t spelling out the family tree cuz they didn't wanna imply actual incest I guess and like well they're names are different irl and are like 9 years apart in age so I think we know that's not true already babes.
2.Music filled scenes: Classis stuff gets a pass that was the style then. They had just moved past harmless flexing videos they were learning what people want. Modern stuff with not much talking and bad music washing out the moans? Just tell me honestly you couldn't afford a boom or shot someplace that killed the audio.
3.More a personal question but: "Where do they find these ladies to play "unattractive" wives and what do they get out of these appearances. It better be good money cuz some of them are made to look terrible or really dumb and don't deserve that. Or are they like into m4m and already read all their Riley Hart novels? Get to watch on a screen before their next scene?

 

[Southeasterner]

Love:
1. Vocal partners in scenes. I love even the truly unhinged moaners and groaners.
2.Sexy dialog. The amount of times someone just saying something in a scene pushed me over the edge I tell ya. It can be sweet, raunchy but my favorite is when someone acknowledges they are sucking a dick that was just inside em "How's your ass taste on my dick?" Or "like that dick clean" like Just propose to me that's so good.
3.Good acting: I know I'm watching porn don't get me wrong but we don't need to oral book report the set up stuff either. Have fun and jump Into the roles.
4. Different body representation. There are some beautiful men out there who are bigger and guys who look like the dad bod next door and deserve staring roles. I think of Dale Savage who honestly has a fairly average dick and a lil belly but dude brings it and has a huge fan base and big name studios should hope to find more of him and bigger bodies online and get em in scenes today.

Hate:
1.Heavily expositional dialog. This is a fantasy after all. I watched a movie where so much time was spe t spelling out the family tree cuz they didn't wanna imply actual incest I guess and like well they're names are different irl and are like 9 years apart in age so I think we know that's not true already babes.
2.Music filled scenes: Classis stuff gets a pass that was the style then. They had just moved past harmless flexing videos they were learning what people want. Modern stuff with not much talking and bad music washing out the moans? Just tell me honestly you couldn't afford a boom or shot someplace that killed the audio.
3.More a personal question but: "Where do they find these ladies to play "unattractive" wives and what do they get out of these appearances. It better be good money cuz some of them are made to look terrible or really dumb and don't deserve that. Or are they like into m4m and already read all their Riley Hart novels? Get to watch on a screen before their next scene?

I agree with you, especially about the number 1 of the Hate part. These scenes of incest are disgusting. There are millions of themes to explore and these scenes are trash. Same for performers that look like teenagers or acting like teenagers. Disgusting.

I don´t know why they put those ladies in gay scenes. Completely unnecessary. MEN is the studio that uses these actresses the most. There is a blonde lady in her 60s who appears in numerous scenes. It's ridiculous because sometimes they cast women old enough to be the actors's mothers as their wives in the scenes.

 

[bearydork]

I agree with you, especially about the number 1 of the Hate part. These scenes of incest are disgusting. There are millions of themes to explore and these scenes are trash. Same for performers that look like teenagers or acting like teenagers. Disgusting.

I don´t know why they put those ladies in gay scenes. Completely unnecessary. MEN is the studio that uses these actresses the most. There is a blonde lady in her 60s who appears in numerous scenes. It's ridiculous because sometimes they cast women old enough to be the actors's mothers as their wives in the scenes.

Ohhh those ones creep me the hell out too. The twinks they cast that they are looking for 18 year olds who don't seem that age and or cast shorter performers?!. Heck what's his face was on a lot of those videos and unshockingly he was arrested for inappropriate material. Those people need to all have hardrives checked for sure. And yeah those ones are odd too "Why is Colby Jansen sleeping with his buddy instead of his wife...Idk Marv maybe cuz his wife is inexplicably an octogenarian"

 

[Southeasterner]

Ohhh those ones creep me the hell out too. The twinks they cast that they are looking for 18 year olds who don't seem that age and or cast shorter performers?!. Heck what's his face was on a lot of those videos and unshockingly he was arrested for inappropriate material. Those people need to all have hardrives checked for sure. And yeah those ones are odd too "Why is Colby Jansen sleeping with his buddy instead of his wife...Idk Marv maybe cuz his wife is inexplicably an octogenarian"

That´s totally true!

 

[boycut92]

I agree with you, especially about the number 1 of the Hate part. These scenes of incest are disgusting. There are millions of themes to explore and these scenes are trash. Same for performers that look like teenagers or acting like teenagers. Disgusting.

I don't get why so much of gay porn is marketed as incest, really.
Don't want to kinkshame anyone, but objectively speaking I don't know any gay guy who fantasizes about fucking his father or his son. Not among my personal friends and acquaintances, not among the multiple people I see discussing porn and sexuality online, never seen anyone saying they loved the idea of fucking a close relative. I'm sure there are people into that, but if you look at the amount of incest porn that is published you'd think there's a much larger appeal. I find it weird.
I get that there's a big appeal for age difference, but can't explain the major focus on father-son stories. Sometimes the age difference is not even big enough for one of the performers to be the other performer's son, still it is marketed as that.
Things like that make me dismiss videos that, if it weren't for the incest thing, would turn me on. I'm fine with age gap, but why can't it be the guy and his doctor, the guy and his friend's son, or just two random guys who happen to be different ages?

 

[Southeasterner]

I agree with you.

Maybe it's a personal obsession of certain studio owners who want to normalize something that is clearly not normal.

If they want to explore the idea of intergenerational sex, there are several other options like you mentioned: a doctor and his patient, a lawyer and his client, two neighbors, a friend's father, among others. I'm not opposed to the idea of a young adult attracted to an older man, but I am fiercely opposed to this abject fetishization of incest and implicit pedophilia.

It's precisely this type of content that gives gays a bad name. And I feel very angry because we fight so hard to prove that we are equal citizens to straight people, and then these despicable videos appear that give homophobes ammunition to say: "- Didn't I tell you? Gays are all perverts."

Honestly, this type of video does a disservice to the social image of gays. Some heterosexual studios explore the idea of sex between adult stepchildren and stepfather/stepmother, which is also abject, but there is a huge difference between an incest scene and a stepdaughter/stepfather scene, because a stepfather is not a father. He is someone who has no blood relationship.

Right now the media is covering the serious issue of P. Diddy incessantly and we see countless people having their lives affected. I think it would be better to ban this type of content. It is harmful and adds nothing, on the contrary, it only creates confusion.

 

[MaxPower9000]

Like:
Intense kissing and foreplay
Sensual Body worship/touching/Exploring each other's bodies
Intense frottage leads to cumming
Big cumshot/cum facials
Solo male shower or bath scenes

Hate:
Audio from str8 porn in male solos
Fisting/Prolapsed anus stuff
Extreme stuff..piss, scat etc.

 

[Southeasterner]

Like:
Intense kissing and foreplay
Sensual Body worship/touching/Exploring each other's bodies
Intense frottage leads to cumming
Big cumshot/cum facials
Solo male shower or bath scenes

Hate:
Audio from str8 porn in male solos
Fisting/Prolapsed anus stuff
Extreme stuff..piss, scat etc.

I totally agree with you.

 

[Southeasterner]

I really dislike people spitting during rimming or giving head. It's just bizarre. Like sure spit as lube or as a disrespectful power move to someone's face but otherwise what are they doing?

I agree with you, but some people use spit like a massage gel during oral sex. Spitting during rimming is a move to give the Top an Alpha male appearance and many Bottoms find it a turn on.

Many Bottoms get extremely turned on when the Top uses spit as a lubricant. They enjoy the feel of the spit wetting their anus. I find it very appealing when the Top spreads the Bottom's ass cheeks and spits into his anus to lube it up.

 

[Trybogus01]

Likes:
1.) Well-matched pair (same height and physiques: hunk to hunk, twunk to twunk)
2.) Equally-handsome guys (I'm fine with pairing good-looking and not good-looking guys to as long as they meet criteria #1 )
3.) Interracial pairs (I know this is very rare but it is a fetish for me, as long as they meet criteria #1)
4.) FROTTAGE!!! Dick-to-dick action (I'd prefer it over anal, oral and rimming).
5.) Wrestling, torrid kissing, muscle worship and rubbing bodies/squeezing, chest-to-chest, pec2pec, legs entanglement, footsies, full hugs, full body lock, missionary, mma full guard and mouting positions, ultimate romancing, and any body-to-body contact (ONLY if the meet criterias 1-3 and 4)
6.) mutual JO, mutual rimming, 69, flip-fuck, and any sex actions mutually performed (ONLY if the meet criterias 1-3 and 4)
7.) Did I say Frottage? I swear... I'd get off to a scene meeting criteria #1 with cockrubbing action only than a scene with all kinds of penetration that has no frottage action.

Dislikes:
1.) Mismatched pairs (hunk w/ twink, tall & short, uneven physiques)
2.) Hot pairs with NO frottage action! Like it's a fucking waste of pairing. Nothing infuriates me more two when they go straight to buttfucking without even romancing, hugging their bodies tight and rubbing their dicks together at least once!
3.) Masc/straight and femme boys pairing. Hate me all you want but I hate this pairing so much! I don't know... maybe if they meet my Likes criteria #1, I'd give it a pass on some occasions).
4.) Spitting! Torrid kiss with tongue is hot but once someone started spitting, I wanna throw up at the sight of it.
5.) Fisting. As well as exposed buttholes. Like ewwww!!!

 

[Southeasterner]

Likes:
1.) Well-matched pair (same height and physiques: hunk to hunk, twunk to twunk)
2.) Equally-handsome guys (I'm fine with pairing good-looking and not good-looking guys to as long as they meet criteria #1 )
3.) Interracial pairs (I know this is very rare but it is a fetish for me, as long as they meet criteria #1)
4.) FROTTAGE!!! Dick-to-dick action (I'd prefer it over anal, oral and rimming).
5.) Wrestling, torrid kissing, muscle worship and rubbing bodies/squeezing, chest-to-chest, pec2pec, legs entanglement, footsies, full hugs, full body lock, missionary, mma full guard and mouting positions, ultimate romancing, and any body-to-body contact (ONLY if the meet criterias 1-3 and 4)
6.) mutual JO, mutual rimming, 69, flip-fuck, and any sex actions mutually performed (ONLY if the meet criterias 1-3 and 4)
7.) Did I say Frottage? I swear... I'd get off to a scene meeting criteria #1 with cockrubbing action only than a scene with all kinds of penetration that has no frottage action.

Dislikes:
1.) Mismatched pairs (hunk w/ twink, tall & short, uneven physiques)
2.) Hot pairs with NO frottage action! Like it's a fucking waste of pairing. Nothing infuriates me more two when they go straight to buttfucking without even romancing, hugging their bodies tight and rubbing their dicks together at least once!
3.) Masc/straight and femme boys pairing. Hate me all you want but I hate this pairing so much! I don't know... maybe if they meet my Likes criteria #1, I'd give it a pass on some occasions).
4.) Spitting! Torrid kiss with tongue is hot but once someone started spitting, I wanna throw up at the sight of it.
5.) Fisting. As well as exposed buttholes. Like ewwww!!!

I agree with almost everything you cited.

If the scene has Fisting, I don´t want to watch it. However, some Bottoms like the sensation of feeling their anuses gaped. Of course nothing aggressive. Rosebud, for example, shocks me totally and I feel sorry for the actor that do that, because he doesn´t have information enough about how it is harmful for the body. By the way, this year a known, gorgeous European actor posted an image of his Rosebud and received heavy criticism. Some weeks later, maybe feeling it was a very bad idea, he posted he struggles with mental illness.

But some light gapes can be exciting. It´s like "- I was able to receive a penis of this girth and/or length.". Of course nothing "scat", because I have zero interest in seeing other people´s guts.

Regarding bodies, I have no restrictions because I can see beauty in all races/ethnicities and bodies, but as long as there is no obvious relationship of domination between the actors, as is the case widely discussed on websites and blogs of specific studios that create pairs of very mature men with young adults with faces and bodies of teenagers. I really find this very reprehensible in gay pornography. It is ugly, aggressive, classless and unnecessary.

 

[bigbigdhunter]

Love: Kissing and slow foreplay. Undressing and seeing the dicks grow. I love some natural verbal / especially from the top. When the top cums loud like he’s losing his mind,

Dislike: noisy bottoms who are performing. Fake or exaggerated levels of turn on. When the video moves to rigidly and quickly from kissing to sucking to fucking. I also don’t like when they look at the camera.