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Thanks I haven't had my coffee today. I'm not sure I'd join either of those - just because I searched something like "info on big penis" when I found this site.

Follow up question. Do you think that those 2 groups don't need support ?
 
Follow up question. Do you think that those 2 groups don't need support ?

I'm sure there would be wonderful people there, but when I joined this site, I did so because I was looking for information and advice as it related to a much larger than average specimen, and then I married the guy attached to that much larger than average appendage, so I would not have stumbled upon your other hypothetical websites the way I did with this one. Therefore, I wouldn't know about the existence of such sites and I would not join. I did not have the same issues with my ex-bfs who were smaller or averageish so I did not need to find advice on dealing with them.

I know nothing about whether the hypothetical members of the hypothetical websites need support or not. If they do I'm sure they can find a jock strap that fits.
 
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I'm sure there would be wonderful people there, but when I joined this site, I did so because I was looking for information and advice as it related to a much larger than average specimen, and then I married the guy attached to that much larger than average appendage, so I would not have stumbled upon your other hypothetical websites the way I did with this one. Therefore, I wouldn't know about the existence of such sites and I would not join. I did not have the same issues with my ex-bfs who were smaller or averageish so I did not need to find advice on dealing with them.

I know nothing about whether the hypothetical members of the hypothetical websites need support or not. If they do I'm sure they can find a jock strap that fits.

hmmm. Interesting and food for thought also.
 
Penis size = thigh gap. Gets more attention and anguish than it honestly deserves.

Everybody *and their body* can use support at one time or another. A and S probably have a unique set of issues to discuss/obsess over.

Also... LPSG started out as a joke. It wasn't a support site in its original state. I suspect actual support started up years into the site's life span.
 
Penis size = thigh gap. Gets more attention and anguish than it honestly deserves.

Everybody *and their body* can use support at one time or another. A and S probably have a unique set of issues to discuss/obsess over.

Also... LPSG started out as a joke. It wasn't a support site in its original state. I suspect actual support started up years into the site's life span.

I feel you and I agree. it just sounds like the other 2 categories don't deserve any support. This is what I get in here at times. And this is what made me create this thread. Btw great post , if I may add.
 
I'm generally not a support group kind of person. If someone wants or needs such and seeks like minded folks, more power to them. I didn't join this site to be support for anyone. I found lpsg due to a humor site making fun of it. So, no, I wouldn't join apsg, spsg, little boob support group, big ass support group, or anything of the sort.
 
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it just sounds like the other 2 categories don't deserve any support. This is what I get in here at times. .

Well, average guys don't need support because being average when it comes to any physical attribute is pretty livable. It's not exactly stressful/ hindering to feel like you fit in with the majority.

Small guys.. I'm not trying to be harsh, but I could not deal with a website full of guys bombarding women with questions about whether or not they're "good enough" to date (based solely on dick size) or just flat out begging for humiliation. If small guys want support, maybe they should listen to women (or just people in general) who speak truth about the fact that not all women are "size queens".

This website started as a joke. I treat it like it never stopped being one.
 
Well, average guys don't need support because being average when it comes to any physical attribute is pretty livable. It's not exactly stressful/ hindering to feel like you fit in with the majority.

Small guys.. I'm not trying to be harsh, but I could not deal with a website full of guys bombarding women with questions about whether or not they're "good enough" to date (based solely on dick size) or just flat out begging for humiliation. If small guys want support, maybe they should listen to women (or just people in general) who speak truth about the fact that not all women are "size queens".

This website started as a joke. I treat it like it never stopped being one.
Wait it isn't a joke anymore? Have you seen the place?
 
Well, average guys don't need support because being average when it comes to any physical attribute is pretty livable. It's not exactly stressful/ hindering to feel like you fit in with the majority.

Small guys.. I'm not trying to be harsh, but I could not deal with a website full of guys bombarding women with questions about whether or not they're "good enough" to date (based solely on dick size) or just flat out begging for humiliation. If small guys want support, maybe they should listen to women (or just people in general) who speak truth about the fact that not all women are "size queens".

This website started as a joke. I treat it like it never stopped being one.

Well I agree 100%. But if you take some time and think , both categories have limits. And showing support or better yet guidance can lead to positive things.
 
No one is obligated to be anyone else's therapist, unless they're actually being paid to be someone's therapist. An annoying amount of men (not all, of course) on this site reject any and all genuine advice they are given when they're the ones who asked for it in the first place... Because it's not what they want to hear and/or because they're biased, bigoted, etc.

This site was not made to actually be a support group and I don't think many individuals that I have encountered in my many years as a member actually treat it as such. Most folks realize this within a relatively short span of time after joining. You've raised the point in other threads that had nothing to do with it that women on here aren't supportive enough, catering enough to people, specifically men with small or average penises. I can't remember the exact thread, but the original post and your responses thus far are pretty much the same stuff you've said at least once previously.

By and large the members of this site are strangers to one another. None of us owe anyone else anything. That being said, I see plenty of people demanding answers, time, attention, etc from others. Including you (most recently in the chat room, for example). If anyone needs support, there are more productive ways to go about it (which there is nothing wrong with needing assistance to work through your issues). And it would not be on this site. There are medical professionals who can help with things like body dysmorphia, self-esteem/insecurity in general, and so on.

So, if there were an apsg and spsg, if it were essentially this same site, same kinds of members, same atmosphere, etc? No, I see no reason to join. People don't tend to actually seek support and I don't owe anyone on here my time, attention, and feeding their ego or fetishes. I'm content with the amount of time I spend on this site and others, between all the things I do that aren't online. I like the friends I've made through here. I tend to have ways to keep in contact with the folks I genuinely like outside of this site, thankfully. If it weren't for the handful of people I like and respect, combined with a bit of a soft spot for the site since I met my partner through it? I probably would leave.
 
No one is obligated to be anyone else's therapist, unless they're actually being paid to be someone's therapist. An annoying amount of men (not all, of course) on this site reject any and all genuine advice they are given when they're the ones who asked for it in the first place... Because it's not what they want to hear and/or because they're biased, bigoted, etc.

This site was not made to actually be a support group and I don't think many individuals that I have encountered in my many years as a member actually treat it as such. Most folks realize this within a relatively short span of time after joining. You've raised the point in other threads that had nothing to do with it that women on here aren't supportive enough, catering enough to people, specifically men with small or average penises. I can't remember the exact thread, but the original post and your responses thus far are pretty much the same stuff you've said at least once previously.

By and large the members of this site are strangers to one another. None of us owe anyone else anything. That being said, I see plenty of people demanding answers, time, attention, etc from others. Including you (most recently in the chat room, for example). If anyone needs support, there are more productive ways to go about it (which there is nothing wrong with needing assistance to work through your issues). And it would not be on this site. There are medical professionals who can help with things like body dysmorphia, self-esteem/insecurity in general, and so on.

So, if there were an apsg and spsg, if it were essentially this same site, same kinds of members, same atmosphere, etc? No, I see no reason to join. People don't tend to actually seek support and I don't owe anyone on here my time, attention, and feeding their ego or fetishes. I'm content with the amount of time I spend on this site and others, between all the things I do that aren't online. I like the friends I've made through here. I tend to have ways to keep in contact with the folks I genuinely like outside of this site, thankfully. If it weren't for the handful of people I like and respect, combined with a bit of a soft spot for the site since I met my partner through it? I probably would leave.

Well you make some valid points. But making it personal was kinda uncalled for. Just saying.