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Well I agree 100%. But if you take some time and think , both categories have limits. And showing support or better yet guidance can lead to positive things.

I'm not here to show support for guys who have huge dicks. I'm here to enjoy conversation and have a giggle or 2. I'm here to call out bullshit generalizations about women.

If people with genuine insecurities need genuine support I don't think an anonymous online forum is the best place to get it. Strangers can be helpful, and they can also troll you into a worse outlook than you had before joining. It's not worth a coin toss.
 
Well you make some valid points. But making it personal was kinda uncalled for. Just saying.

It was very called for. It's the exact kind of genuine post you should take to heart, but just like she points out... you have to tell her that *how she phrased wasn't how you would want to hear it. That's exactly her point.

Why bother giving support when the people asking for it won't accept it unless it's completely complimentary?
 
I ended up here because my partner has a large penis. If he'd had a small penis I am certain I would have ended up googling something else and gone elsewhere. Simple as that. I'm certain that there is online support for small penis problems.
 
i ended up here because my partner joined despite him not having a large penis but he knew i liked big so we joined for different reasons. i dont offer support i tend to just compliment, flirt with and perv on the guys and generally just chat
 
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It was very called for. It's the exact kind of genuine post you should take to heart, but just like she points out... you have to tell her that *how she phrased wasn't how you would want to hear it. That's exactly her point.

Why bother giving support when the people asking for it won't accept it unless it's completely complimentary?

I refrain for talking about previous posts any member has made, unless provoked. Also I choose to judge each post like it's the first a member has made. But I guess that's just me. I don't feel the need to mention posts made on other threads and keep tabs on members of this site.
 
I refrain for talking about previous posts any member has made, unless provoked. Also I choose to judge each post like it's the first a member has made. But I guess that's just me. I don't feel the need to mention posts made on other threads and keep tabs on members of this site.

I keep tabs. Definitely. I remember who says what, and I hold people accountable for what they say. Some people think they can manipulate the forum to get away with being an asshole in one section but a sweetie in another.

I don't play that game.
 
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I keep tabs. Definitely. I remember who says what, and I hold people accountable for what they say. Some people think they can manipulate the forum to get away with being an asshole in one section but a sweetie in another.

I don't play that game.

Do your thing. But do it when provoked is all I'm saying.
 
Do your thing. But do it when provoked is all I'm saying.

Your idea of what's provocative is clearly different than mine.

I calls em like I sees em, *when I sees em.

I think you should just work on thickening your skin. Don't take things so harshly... And don't close yourself off just because someone made you uncomfortable.