What Would You Change About The Porn Available Currently?

[SassyCassy]

Who wants to join this posse and shake up the sad and worn out porn industry? It’s time for a new regime to flip the tables and put the men on their knees! Not to sound like a feminist but dudes, time’s up - step aside and be woo’d. It’s all been done so many times and has grown old so why not try a new attitude in the name of blowing that load. If you have any ideas that you feel could truly help, have no fear and comment right here.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Before I invest myself, a question (or several). Women don't really blow loads. Whom are you asking? What are you trying to understand? Are you a porn industry insider?

 

[SassyCassy]

No, i’m just curious what others think.

 

[LaFemme]

For me, porn is boring. There’s no real want between the actors, no true desire - just gymnastics and a series of angles. There’s very little pleasure involved. Just a bunch of slapping, spurting, spraying, pumping, and grunting.

 

[LaFemme]

Who wants to join this posse and shake up the sad and worn out porn industry? It’s time for a new regime to flip the tables and put the men on their knees! Not to sound like a feminist but dudes, time’s up - step aside and be woo’d. It’s all been done so many times and has grown old so why not try a new attitude in the name of blowing that load. If you have any ideas that you feel could truly help, have no fear and comment right here.

Are you afraid to sound like a feminist? As one, I’m curious why that’s a bad thing?

 

[Beedie Tijii]

No, i’m just curious what others think.

Well, your phrasing, and your choice to post this in Women's Issues rather than elsewhere, made it a fair question. Which others?

I'll answer anyway since I'm here now. If I could just click my fingers and make it happen, I'd eliminate all of the Brazzers/Bangbros type "mainstream" porn simply because it is awful and dated and embarrassing. I'd also eliminate anything that I'd deem unethical for any reason. Whatever's left (which is still a lot) would be the new porn industry.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I would like to see playfulness and lust. I would like the performers to be sober. So many look high, which males me suspect coercion or financial desperation. Neither is sexy to me. I want to see chemistry, and people appearing to have fun.

Blowjobs on screen bore me. Eyes running mascara grosses me out. Too much gagging turns me off. Either they can deep throat or they cannot. A little gagging is understandable. Constant struggle is unsexy, because if I am constantly gagging, I'm not really having fun, just trying to figure out how to make that penis work with my esophagus. At least change position and try another angle to see if they can make it fit. That's realistic. I cannot tell you how much fake gagging I have done over the years because porn has taught men that it should be a struggle. BORING! Wet, sloppy, messy is fine, though not my thing.

I want them to be nice to each other. If my mind kicks out, "Why she gotta be a bitch, though?" I'm out of the moment. Ditto any of the derogatory names performers cheesily call each other. Sometimes it's fine. Mostly it just seems like disrespecr for the sake of disrespect. Hate that. I want them to say to each other things my playmates and I say to each other.
"Yes! Get it, Baby!"
"Don't you fucking stop!"
"F U C K ! ! !"
"Jesus, that's tight!"
"See how wet you have me?"
"Show me whose pussy that is."
"Love your fucking cock! Oh my GOD!"
"I love the way you fuck me."
Et cetera. Say nice things.

Stop pushing out semen. Especially after an anal scene. Stop. It will come out on its own. Easy enough to have him act out a deep ejaculation, then pull outward for a shallow ejaculation, then use gravity to encourage expulsion. That's what editing is for. Might be nice to see glorification of condom use sometimes too.

No more jizzing on faces of people who clearly don't like it.

More kissing! But I don't want to watch them licking each other's tongues. Men are doing that tongue licking shit to me, and I blame porn. Just kiss. Deeply. Heatedly. Show passion.

More pussy licking! But again, not where I can see into the eater's mouth. They should get all up in there. Like they are starving. Like it is delicious and life sustaining. Faceplant into the kitty. Do it for a long time. Let me watch her response. Let me see the tension in her body. Let me hear her spontaneous demands to Get. Fucked. NOW!

NO shitty dialogue. If it has a storyline, write a good script and make them practice until they do it right. Otherwise, just show gonzo.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I would just like to say that, as the OP is written, this does not seem like a women's issue. "People" can share thoughts all over this site. This little corner is for emphasis on the perspective and experiences of women.

 

[SassyCassy]

Are you afraid to sound like a feminist? As one, I’m curious why that’s a bad thing?

Nope, not at all. As a woman, we’re all feminists by default. I just didn’t want to imply this was all about women being against men. I see a lot of unhealthy and misleading content in most porn lately and it’s really not something I can ignore. Just getting conversation going about it and seeing if I’m not alone with my thoughts.

 

[LaFemme]

Nope, not at all. As a woman, we’re all feminists by default. I just didn’t want to imply this was all about women being against men. I see a lot of unhealthy and misleading content in most porn lately and it’s really not something I can ignore. Just getting conversation going about it and seeing if I’m not alone with my thoughts.

Ok. Just wondering. Feminists aren’t against men at all. It’s sad when men see it that way. I was just wondering. Thanks for clearing that up!

 

[SassyCassy]

I would just like to say that, as the OP is written, this does not seem like a women's issue. "People" can share thoughts all over this site. This little corner is for emphasis on the perspective and experiences of women.

You hit the nail on the head! I loved what you said in your detailed post. I agree with you entirely. I put this in Women’s Issues because I think this topic is not going to get serious responses for most men. They don’t see the way women are put down and devalued indirectly and intentionally too. So I wanted to see what other ladies had to share first. I could go on for hours about what is in need of being adjusted but one thing at a time. I really appreciate that you took the time to write out such a detailed response. It seems to hit a nerve with you as well. It’s good to be in the company of other likeminded thinkers like yourself. I have noticed how trending porn content radiates out through young, inexperienced men to the girls who don’t know better yet. I don’t want to overrun the adult film industry with women created versions that men don’t want to watch, but think it can be nudged here and there and present the actors in a more respected and valued light. Show guys how to treat girls and it would be hotter to watch anyway.

 

[AlteredEgo]

You hit the nail on the head! I loved what you said in your detailed post. I agree with you entirely. I put this in Women’s Issues because I think this topic is not going to get serious responses for most men. They don’t see the way women are put down and devalued indirectly and intentionally too. So I wanted to see what other ladies had to share first. I could go on for hours about what is in need of being adjusted but one thing at a time. I really appreciate that you took the time to write out such a detailed response. It seems to hit a nerve with you as well. It’s good to be in the company of other likeminded thinkers like yourself. I have noticed how trending porn content radiates out through young, inexperienced men to the girls who don’t know better yet. I don’t want to overrun the adult film industry with women created versions that men don’t want to watch, but think it can be nudged here and there and present the actors in a more respected and valued light. Show guys how to treat girls and it would be hotter to watch anyway.

Seems we are on the same wavelength.

 

[693987]

Less degrading/humiliating/lack of enjoyment stuff in mainstream porn. If it's within a BDSM genre where that's the focus/kink, fine, but I don't want that shit in any other genres. Normalizing of condom and lube use. People spitting on each other instead of just, y'know, using some fucking lube is a huge turn off for me. If you need stuff to be that slippery, use some damn lube. Don't damn near hawk a loogie. Bleagh. Stop promoting and enabling race fetishism. Keeping "gaping" to again, the genre where that's the focus, instead of spreading to all sorts of other genres.

 

[MickeyLee]

At this point in my life there is nothing to be done to get me watching porn again.

When porn jumped the shark from pushing sexual boundaries to pushing limits of sexual violence/criminality all in the name of getting an over saturated audience to keep turning in.. I lost all interest.

The first time I saw a woman take a foot to the cooch it was all over for me. Women debuting in porn in their 18th bday. Violence. Degradation. Turning women into a collection of accessable holes and surfaces to be ejaculated on.

I can no longer suspend belief that any of the participants are enjoying themselves. I know it's money. Drugs. Dysfunction. Fame seeking.

If I want to watch people fuck I'll get a larger mirror or bring in another partner.

I just can't consume misery without being aware of the full consequences.

ETA:

I'm a feminist. I hope every dude on this site knows it. Also don't care if I make folks uncomfortable or feel threatened with my beliefs.

 

[aj4811]

I really miss the old porn where scripts are funny, everything was silly and the scenes were entertaining. Nowadays porn is just boring and serius and sites that reminds me old porn llike FilthyFamily does not get updated often. I wish porn today were way more fun and silly.

 

[Spartan727]

You hit the nail on the head! I loved what you said in your detailed post. I agree with you entirely. I put this in Women’s Issues because I think this topic is not going to get serious responses for most men. They don’t see the way women are put down and devalued indirectly and intentionally too. So I wanted to see what other ladies had to share first. I could go on for hours about what is in need of being adjusted but one thing at a time. I really appreciate that you took the time to write out such a detailed response. It seems to hit a nerve with you as well. It’s good to be in the company of other likeminded thinkers like yourself. I have noticed how trending porn content radiates out through young, inexperienced men to the girls who don’t know better yet. I don’t want to overrun the adult film industry with women created versions that men don’t want to watch, but think it can be nudged here and there and present the actors in a more respected and valued light. Show guys how to treat girls and it would be hotter to watch anyway.

That and the fact there’s rarely a plot...

 

[cherryboom66]

If I watch porn, it’s 70s European. Everyone had body hair and everyone looked different. There was story, sex appeal, nudity without sex. The camera would focus on the man as much as the woman.

Modern porn is a no go.

 

[Spartan727]

I’m not going to watch porn from the 70’s lol
But you are correct. Today it’s a landlord getting serviced for rent. That’s not a plot to
Me.

 

[arrgy]

More BTS stuff. Just honest to God fuck the shit of people stuff. Julie Kay's BTS scene is a prime example, when she just lays back and takes it, you can tell she is in the zone and enjoying it.

Stop with all the anal, not every girl wants it anyway, and if you are going to do it, might as well just DP.

 

[Spartan727]

For me, porn is boring. There’s no real want between the actors, no true desire - just gymnastics and a series of angles. There’s very little pleasure involved. Just a bunch of slapping, spurting, spraying, pumping, and grunting.

Am I getting this correct? Your not into aerobic sex? None of the twister sex game for you?
Just asking,