What's your favorite sex position as a bottom?

[Hyoren]

Hmm, it’s possible maybe you’re just not a bottom? Bottoming isn’t for everyone. Doesn’t mean you still can’t get sexual pleasure down there. You can have your sex partner finger you, rim you, etc. How long have you been bottoming? I know I didn’t like it at all when I first started. It just never felt good to me. But then I started using the dildo and it was a complete game changer. If it still doesn’t feel right to you, then you may just have to accept being a top. It sucks, but there’s nothing wrong with that. Sex should feel good and be enjoyable, not painful. Hopefully you can find something that works for you!

Bottoming for me is more psychological than actual sexual pleasure. Although I still like it, it's just not the same with everyone, and people I've been with are really really bad in bed... maybe it's that haha

I haven't bottomed a lot because I always have that fear of the pain, very few times I enjoyed being a bottom. It just feels bad that I can't enjoy it as much as true bottoms...

 

[Stephenmass]

No, no. It happens with all positions. (cowboy not really), Missionary is just extremely painful it's such a torture to do it.

The issue is not "the hole", it's more like the end of the tunnel, I guess what connects the rectum with the colon.

He could be bottoming out and that hurts a bottom if he's "going to town"...if he is a big boy (long mostly) chances are that's what it is.

 

[biberkeleybottom]

I like prone bone, and I tell my top partners ahead of time that I love being taken in that position. It's sexually exciting being mounted like an animal and used. Having his body weight directly on top of me is both comforting for the connection it brings, but it also holds me captive at his mercy.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Depends on the guy, but cowgirl if I'm more dominant than him and doggy (specifically being bent over something) if he is

 

[PariChien]

J'aime toute les positions mais les 3 que je préfère par dessus tout c'est la levrette, debout et chevaucher le mec

 

[Chronicjacker]

Woof, woof, woof woof!!!!!
Doggie anyday for this hound.

Recently I had a tall (6-5) 220 pond guy that happened to be a security guard at Disneyland ( true) swing by. I was ready ass up head down. He mounted me with his big fat banana curved huge cock. He busted deep in me after about 15 minutes. Then he just laid on me fulfilled and spent. It was awesome

 

[Jawsx1000]

I've only ever been fucked in missionary so I can't answer honestly in regards to what feels the best.
Based off of intimacy alone, I'd say missionary or fucking while spooning

 

[hairybubblebum]

so i was with a Trans girl that was crazy and got me in the pile driver position when she ate my ass and then did this crazy position that i was doggy and she was facing the opposite direction of me but her feet were on my shoulders. it was wild.

 

[Brodie888]

Bottoming for me is more psychological than actual sexual pleasure. Although I still like it, it's just not the same with everyone, and people I've been with are really really bad in bed... maybe it's that haha

I haven't bottomed a lot because I always have that fear of the pain, very few times I enjoyed being a bottom. It just feels bad that I can't enjoy it as much as true bottoms...

I'd say your best bet are positions where your knees are tucked to your chest. This straightens out the kinks a bit with your plumbing so you can take greater depth.

The other option is chosing positions that prevent deep penetration because your bum muscles get in the way. Eg spoons, standing or kneeling.

 

[deleted20284931]

It depends on the guy. Mostly I sit on the laid top. Since I'm short and light enough, it looks comfortable for the top too. I like spoon too.

I also love bodyguard but it can be challenging for tall tops.

 

[deleted20406701]

I love doggystyle the best. I love getting plowed like a proper slut and filled with cum. Missionary is great too but nothing beats face down, ass up. Nothing but a hole for him to use.

 

[MNpervert]

If I am bottoming my fav position is riding cowboy. Second would be missionary for slow love making sex.

 

[Andrej_u]

Bottoming for me is more psychological than actual sexual pleasure. Although I still like it, it's just not the same with everyone, and people I've been with are really really bad in bed... maybe it's that haha

I haven't bottomed a lot because I always have that fear of the pain, very few times I enjoyed being a bottom. It just feels bad that I can't enjoy it as much as true bottoms...

Have you managed to bottom fully, in the meantime?
You could try a few things:

1) Dildo and poppers. You're in control of it, you can push against that place where it hurts and learn to find the correct angle in which it doesn't hurt. Poppers help you relax and remove muscle tension which could be causing the pain.
2) Find someone who is really gentle in bed and doesn't mind putting it in and leaving it there, without moving. Someone who can let you experiment a bit, without necessarily having to pound away... I would love to be that person, if I was any closer
3) Try different positions. But not just the position itself, work a lot on the angle.
For example, do missionary but completely bent, with your knees on your chest and feet in the air. It should help with the angle to hit your prostate, and not that painful spot. Another one is doggy style: it does go all the way inside, but it is easier to find the correct angle, and your ass gets naturally relaxed.
4) Take your time. It is also a matter of your involuntary muscles having to relax, and on some guys it just takes up to 10-20 minutes in my experience. The more you trust the guy, the faster it gets.

Good luck! And post videos of it

 

[SubBoyNL]

 

[SubBoyNL]

 

[Tomtom10]

I used to like missionary more than anything, but recently i'm really into riding his cock at the moment, especially facing him whilst we do it. It must be the angle, but it really seems to hit my prostate just perfectly.

 

[Tomtom10]

A few of my personal favourite positions!

 

[tld991]

Reverse Cowboy consistently feels the best.