What's your story with a Straight best friend and how did you get to experimenting together

[cofrader]

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[Dr.Jones]

TL;DR: straight bro gives me major bi vibe and i'm curious to know your similar stories, what are the hints to look for, and how did you manage the situation.

I'm straight curious (a little bi I must admit). I have this friend that I'm low key into and would like to experience with. We are both the same age, which makes us too mature for experimenting, although we act as teenagers when we are just the 2 of us. We are both officially straight with girlfriends. We both love our girls and will keep it that way. However, I've been suspecting some curiosity from him.

What is your story ? I'll go first:

1. Every time we meet 1 on 1, we end up talking about our dicks, porn amd how filthy we could get.
2. We always make jokes about gay sex or share what type of porn we like. He admitted to enjoy porn where both girl and guy are good looking and the guy must have a big dick.
3. I had sent him a dick pic as a joke a while ago and he keeps mentioning how thick it is and nice it is. And compare it with his. He won't send me a pic since he is scared of hacking etc.
4. He wanted to share a homemade sex tape with his girl but ended chickening out but made me listen to his moans and the fapping sound while pounding his girl. He likes to describe how he does it.
5. When we talk about gay sex, he always say how he would be the top and I would be the bottom. When we go for drinks outside he always make the joke about how we look like a gay couple. Or when we talk about masturbation, he asks me if I tease my hole or whether I like to take some fingers, and when I say yes, he laugh and ask me questions to finish by saying that he doesnt know if he could do this.
6. A while ago when we hung out, he challenged me to post a dick pic on reddit and see how it rated and said he would do the same. Although I knew he would chickem out, I poste 2 pics. He was surprised, and kept refreshing the post every 10 min to see what people were saying about it. I took the opportunity to show him a few others that I had and he commented on which one would have been better etc.
7. Last time we hung out, we were talking about trimming down there then he pulled his shorts a bit to show me his pube.

Every time we meet in person, we reach a certain point of "too much information" and cool off by switching the topics of convo. But when we text, we go hardcore and he always say that some things are better to be spoken in person.

Nice thread dude.
There is a dude I know - a friend - where we do some of the same things. But only like online in snapchat, messenger and so on. Not sure I dare to do it in person lol.

 

[bidudeDL]

Nice thread dude.
There is a dude I know - a friend - where we do some of the same things. But only like online in snapchat, messenger and so on. Not sure I dare to do it in person lol.

Wanna tell us more about your situation with that friend ?

 

[Jobert8800]

You’re going to post a d pick on Reddit, and not here?

 

[14600801]

Assuming that straight guys are "not that straight" in reality is like assuming that lesbians are women that just need a good fuck.

Stop that please.

 

[AlphaLion]

So I have some straight friends that I always talk about fucking pussies and sex stories and women and what not but don't come to the point where we'd fuck each other. Seems more casual in nature vs them being curious about wanting to sleep with one another.

 

[deleted581546]

Wanna tell us more about your situation with that friend ?

He can't he has been banned!

 

[bidudeDL]

Any updates on the situation with your friend? Has it progressed any further?

Nothinf beside this: last time we hung out, we were talking about things we'd do in a the worst scenarios (do it or you die type of scenario), it wasn't sexual at all and at one point he asked me if I would let him fuck me if my life depended on it. How can this be a straight joke ?

 

[bidudeDL]

Updated a more recent thread, but figured I might also post it here:

Went on a trip recently with a group of friends and shared a room with my buddy. We openly talked about porn jerking off etc. In the morning, he would often be sleeping on his bed without the sheets so I could see his boner, and I would do the same. He even undressed in front of me once thinking I was sleeping and got a glimpse of his semi dick. As a joke, before showering he got naked in the bathroom then got out and showed me his soft dick while laughing. When it was my turn to shower I did the same, although I was already rocking a semi. Several times during the trip he joked with me about how he is sure that I want to see his dick and jerkoff next to him. I tool action and jerked off once while he was asleep. Another time while he was awake, he didnt believe that I had the gut to do it so I removed the sheets and showed him that I was naked. One of the hotel we went to only had 1 queen bed so we had to share it. During the night I tried to spoon him discretly and ended up with his hands cupping my dick, after a min or so tried to move closer and he quickly turned and pushed me while "sleeping". In the morning he joked about me trying to spoon him, but when I told him about his hands cupping my balls, he denied that it happened and said "maybe with only 1 hand and by mistake". Knowing out history, I cant help but wonder if he did all of this on purpose to tease me or to throw some signals or whether this was just some bonding time. What do you think about our situation ? And what should I do next now that we are back in town ?

 

[dr_bates]

Hot events! Great experience.

 

[Nemorex]

Updated a more recent thread, but figured I might also post it here:

Went on a trip recently with a group of friends and shared a room with my buddy. We openly talked about porn jerking off etc. In the morning, he would often be sleeping on his bed without the sheets so I could see his boner, and I would do the same. He even undressed in front of me once thinking I was sleeping and got a glimpse of his semi dick. As a joke, before showering he got naked in the bathroom then got out and showed me his soft dick while laughing. When it was my turn to shower I did the same, although I was already rocking a semi. Several times during the trip he joked with me about how he is sure that I want to see his dick and jerkoff next to him. I tool action and jerked off once while he was asleep. Another time while he was awake, he didnt believe that I had the gut to do it so I removed the sheets and showed him that I was naked. One of the hotel we went to only had 1 queen bed so we had to share it. During the night I tried to spoon him discretly and ended up with his hands cupping my dick, after a min or so tried to move closer and he quickly turned and pushed me while "sleeping". In the morning he joked about me trying to spoon him, but when I told him about his hands cupping my balls, he denied that it happened and said "maybe with only 1 hand and by mistake". Knowing out history, I cant help but wonder if he did all of this on purpose to tease me or to throw some signals or whether this was just some bonding time. What do you think about our situation ? And what should I do next now that we are back in town ?

Maybe get some porn on the tv and jerk off and you end up jerking together

 

[NakedBuddy]

Updated a more recent thread, but figured I might also post it here:

Went on a trip recently with a group of friends and shared a room with my buddy. We openly talked about porn jerking off etc. In the morning, he would often be sleeping on his bed without the sheets so I could see his boner, and I would do the same. He even undressed in front of me once thinking I was sleeping and got a glimpse of his semi dick. As a joke, before showering he got naked in the bathroom then got out and showed me his soft dick while laughing. When it was my turn to shower I did the same, although I was already rocking a semi. Several times during the trip he joked with me about how he is sure that I want to see his dick and jerkoff next to him. I tool action and jerked off once while he was asleep. Another time while he was awake, he didnt believe that I had the gut to do it so I removed the sheets and showed him that I was naked. One of the hotel we went to only had 1 queen bed so we had to share it. During the night I tried to spoon him discretly and ended up with his hands cupping my dick, after a min or so tried to move closer and he quickly turned and pushed me while "sleeping". In the morning he joked about me trying to spoon him, but when I told him about his hands cupping my balls, he denied that it happened and said "maybe with only 1 hand and by mistake". Knowing out history, I cant help but wonder if he did all of this on purpose to tease me or to throw some signals or whether this was just some bonding time. What do you think about our situation ? And what should I do next now that we are back in town ?

He’s just as interested as you are. Tease him a bit, but be very confident as you do so…make him work for it…play hard to get.

 

[cofrader]

Updated a more recent thread, but figured I might also post it here:

Went on a trip recently with a group of friends and shared a room with my buddy. We openly talked about porn jerking off etc. In the morning, he would often be sleeping on his bed without the sheets so I could see his boner, and I would do the same. He even undressed in front of me once thinking I was sleeping and got a glimpse of his semi dick. As a joke, before showering he got naked in the bathroom then got out and showed me his soft dick while laughing. When it was my turn to shower I did the same, although I was already rocking a semi. Several times during the trip he joked with me about how he is sure that I want to see his dick and jerkoff next to him. I tool action and jerked off once while he was asleep. Another time while he was awake, he didnt believe that I had the gut to do it so I removed the sheets and showed him that I was naked. One of the hotel we went to only had 1 queen bed so we had to share it. During the night I tried to spoon him discretly and ended up with his hands cupping my dick, after a min or so tried to move closer and he quickly turned and pushed me while "sleeping". In the morning he joked about me trying to spoon him, but when I told him about his hands cupping my balls, he denied that it happened and said "maybe with only 1 hand and by mistake". Knowing out history, I cant help but wonder if he did all of this on purpose to tease me or to throw some signals or whether this was just some bonding time. What do you think about our situation ? And what should I do next now that we are back in town ?

If you return to that hotel you should go to the janitor room and pick up 2 working clothes and a tool box and go to reception and state you are here for the double work she asked, one second after you will find yourself on a 3some and if you look closely you will find her ex boyfriend behind the bush.

 

[Trybogus01]

Updated a more recent thread, but figured I might also post it here:

Went on a trip recently with a group of friends and shared a room with my buddy. We openly talked about porn jerking off etc. In the morning, he would often be sleeping on his bed without the sheets so I could see his boner, and I would do the same. He even undressed in front of me once thinking I was sleeping and got a glimpse of his semi dick. As a joke, before showering he got naked in the bathroom then got out and showed me his soft dick while laughing. When it was my turn to shower I did the same, although I was already rocking a semi. Several times during the trip he joked with me about how he is sure that I want to see his dick and jerkoff next to him. I tool action and jerked off once while he was asleep. Another time while he was awake, he didnt believe that I had the gut to do it so I removed the sheets and showed him that I was naked. One of the hotel we went to only had 1 queen bed so we had to share it. During the night I tried to spoon him discretly and ended up with his hands cupping my dick, after a min or so tried to move closer and he quickly turned and pushed me while "sleeping". In the morning he joked about me trying to spoon him, but when I told him about his hands cupping my balls, he denied that it happened and said "maybe with only 1 hand and by mistake". Knowing out history, I cant help but wonder if he did all of this on purpose to tease me or to throw some signals or whether this was just some bonding time. What do you think about our situation ? And what should I do next now that we are back in town ?

From what I see.. He is straight but playful but nonetheless straight... You, however, are gay and hoping.. Hoping he will give in one day

Is he hot? A cutie?

 

[bidudeDL]

Updates on my friend situation:
- We rencently went to a party with our group of friends and all took some candy
- Towards end of the night, I was sitting down with him, and I told him everything about my bisexuality, the experienced I had in the past with guys, and that I kept this for myself but now believe that he has the right to know. He didnt know if I was joking or not at first, but then I looked at him and promised that I was telling the truth. I also elaborated on what is it that I like about it, the dick obsession part, how I consider this more as a kink, that it comes in cycle etc.
- He asked me some very direct questions to my surprise (eg. Did I get fucked, how many times, how did I meet those guys, did I protected myself etc.). I was a bit uncomfortable at giving him the full answer to his questions since I found them too direct and intrusive for a first open talk about the matter. I brushed the surface but, he told me that he understands and sees this more as a kink.
- We ended up agreeing to a secret code to ensure that when we say something like that, we are officially not joking. I told him that now, I have no secret for him, but that we should continue the conversation when we are sober.

It feels great to have it out of my chest. Next time we meet, I plan of apologizing for not having been fully honest with him from the start, that I was affraid of losing the friendship or being judged. I'm also thinking of apologizing for having taken advantage of our freindship by encouraging some behaviors while knowing that it was not entirely a joke on my end. Maybe i'll mention that he didnt help since he gave too many mixed signals.

I'll keep you posted if something interesting happen.

 

[cofrader]

I'll keep you posted if something interesting happen

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