Sweet tea is of the Devil.
As far as porn/visual erotica goes, I look for things I won’t do. It’s got to be possible but fantastical for me.
The audio matters. Vocalizations need to be convincing.
In text based, erotica, I like woman POV as well as male voice. I’ve toyed with writing a series changing off. The first decent erotica I ever read at “how did you get your hands on that” age, was You by Anonymous. It was a series of letters or recollections between two people, Russell and Leslie, following them from meeting as teenagers, first time together, and meetings over many years in many situations.i haven’t owned a copy in my legal age years, but I remember that book so well. Remember, I’m 50.
Pimples and ingrown hairs are a pass.
Race based as the premise is a no. Nothing wrong with intercultural, but objectification based on ethnicity leaves me cold and angry.
I’m over tattoos. And abhor bald anything. Heads, vulvas, scrotums.