when was the first time when you understood your cock is big?

It was a slow progression. My first gf in hs said something like, "Wow, it's a lot bigger than I thought it would be" but not sure she'd ever seen/touched one before; we dated for 5 years, but after we broke up she said something like, "Yeah, I didn't realize how much size mattered," referring to her new bf. After her, nearly every girl I was with commented positively. One gf told her sister in PR I had an "anaconda" which felt good. Always easy to have doubt though; even now with sites like calcsd, I'm sometimes skeptical- it's so hard to believe I'm nearly 50% bigger than average.
 
It took a lot of development and experiences to help me finally realise how to accept that I have a fairly decent-sized penis without a) feeling like I'm bragging, or b) deluding myself. I am in no way huge, but through a strange combination of personality characteristics and life experiences, I thought I was average-sized or even on the smaller side throughout my early sex life, let's say from high school up to about my mid-20s. When I received comments from sex partners about my cock being big, I thought they were just being nice, or maybe they had less experience. Even in the face of cold "hard" facts, such as regular condoms squeezing me so tightly as to make sex unpleasant, I still thought that's just they way it's supposed to be.

There was no single awakening moment that got me there, but along the way I had some pretty big clues, like the first time I measured myself fully erect in my early 20s, or the first time a girlfriend teasingly bragged to her friend that "he rocks my world in bed, and he, you know..." and then gestured about my girth. And the first time I used a larger-sized condom, which was still uncomfortably tight but much better that the other condoms I'd used up to that point, I guess I was about 26 or so when that happened. I do wish I'd become aware at a younger age, but everything happens for a reason!
 
The first time happened when I posted my cock pics on another website like this one and they said I'm impressive, nice, big and even huge, although some people said I'm average and even small or not big enough for them. Than I posted my content here and lots of people here said the same thing I've mentioned above, that I'm nice, big, impressive and huge but also average, small or not big enough. Anyway, my measures are 19 cm/7.5 inches fully erect bone pressured length by 13 cm/5.1 inches circumference by 4.5 cm/2 inches width, or three male fingers. As for my pics and cumshot videos, they're on my profile media
 
The first time happened when I posted my cock pics on another website like this one and they said I'm impressive, nice, big and even huge, although some people said I'm average and even small or not big enough for them. Than I posted my content here and lots of people here said the same thing I've mentioned above, that I'm nice, big, impressive and huge but also average, small or not big enough.
Long ago, back in 2005-2005 I had some cock pics in my gallery on here, and on 1 or 2 sites that had a significantly smaller membership, and those were mostly straight people, men and women. While I always got the in-person compliments on my erect penis, it was also cool to hear from the women in these communities that they were impressed as well. Nobody on LPSG or these other sites said I was average or small, so it's sad to hear that some hear have said that to you.

A few were in 'the lifestyle' (swingers) or in open marriages and said that I was in their area they would love show their appreciation in person! Unfortunately the closest one was over 1000 miles away and I didn't have the funds at the time for travel on a whim.

Anyway, my measures are 19 cm/7.5 inches fully erect bone pressured length by 13 cm/5.1 inches circumference by 4.5 cm/2 inches width, or three male fingers. As for my pics and cumshot videos, they're on my profile media
I'm 7+ inches (18 cm) bone-pressed with a 6 inch (15 cm) girth most of the length of my shaft, wider side-to-side like you (also 2 inches wide). While we are certainly not the largest cocks out there, we are certainly not in the average range at all and absolutely not small!
 
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After watching a lot of porn in my early 20s. I realized I had a porno dick between my legs. I am way fatter than 99.9 dudes in porn. I challenge any dude to a penis volume contest with me (girth + length). My girth is off the charts. I'm over 7 inches in length, too. Nature blessed me well between the legs.

I am not sucking your dick, though, if I lose. lol
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Well when my mom told me the nurses gasped when i was born was first time but also when at a pool party somebody pulled my shorts down and it swung out and around. I quickly tried to put my trunks back up but 100s of people saw with shock, jaws dropped and just kept staring. Those that missed it ran up pulling me left and right and tugging on my swimsuit begging to show again. Another time at miami club i guess i was a dancer that night :p. I too grew up thinkin pornstar size cock was the norm so never really knew till all this stuff happened. Lol
 
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To be honest I think I dont really belong in the big camp, just above average. But after a long time second guessing my dick I got over my anxiety by getting only positive feedback from flings and relationships, as well as physical signs while having sex etc. Sexting etc also kind of gave me the view of being bigger. But I always feel a bit like a fraud because I use my bpel when i state my size
 
The summer after HS I managed to get into some sexual situations with older women. If had sex with younger women, but thought their comments and reactions were a lack of experience. Back then the only mention of measurements was in Penthouse forum and dicks were all ten and twelve inches long. These more experienced ladies filled me in on where I stood. I went into college that fall with more confidence and ready to lay some pipe.
This is true, back in the pre internet days, all written discussion in magazines like penthouse forum were about guys with 10,12, or even 14 inch cocks.

Porn magazines would talk about porn stars like John holmes being 12 or 14 inches and others being even 16+ inches, all measurements back in those days were of course ludicrous. Imagine how a guy like me that had no sexual experiences with 6 inches felt?

When I had my first girlfriend at 21 I thought that she'd think it's small and it wouldn't feel very good, even though she had no experience either. We had a fair bit of difficulty having sex for the first few months, because it would be difficult for her to take, I couldn't really understand why. Condoms also felt like they were strangling my cock, again I didn't really know why.

Once this site came online I began realizing that, while I was fairly average in length, I was quite large in girth at around 6 inches. Then I realized why I had issues with condoms and my first girlfriend, but not until 10 years afterwards!