I'm not muscular at all and quite chubby, but unfortunately for me I only seem to be very attracted to bodybuilders. I tried other body types, but couldn't like it more than 3 times.Where can I find bodybuilders? I tried on Scruff, but the muscular guys never respond or if they respond they are in another country.
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Ahah I tried, but they weren't interested at all. In my city at the gym you only can see fit guys not bodybuilders. Even when I try in Paris I don't see them
I'm working out to be fit, but I don't want to be a bodybuilder lol. I imagine you have no idea what that means or what it entails otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question.
how about: it takes a ton of work to be a bodybuilder-work that may not be worth your time. ALSO, just because someone is attracted to bodybuilders doesn't mean they want to be one...
Thanks, when I try to explain it I always have the answer from muscular guys, fit for fit.
I don’t want to a calisthenics, very fit or a bodybuilder, just to workout for a good IMC and date bodybuilders without being one.
People will tend to try and be like what they find attractive. Fit guys will tend to be attracted to other fit guys. Bodybuilders will tend to be attracted to other bodybuilders. If you are "not muscular at all and quite chubby" you are going to have a difficult time finding a bodybuilder who wants to sleep with you. Your best bet is to get fit yourself, not turn into a bodybuilder but get some muscle and drop some weight and then seek other fit men.
I used to think that, but most of men I had sex with were muscular, fit and almost bodybuilders. They were even attracted to the fact I wasn’t like them.
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There are certainly muscular guys who will be attracted to guys who are not muscular. Keep on and you will find them.
Openly, honestly nowhere. The bodybuilding, muscle, weightlifting community is very homophobic, (which is funny that I can probably name hundreds of household weightlifters that have modeled for Chaosmen, Randy Blue, Men.com etc.) and you think guys who become swole like that would mind the attention/agenda of other guys, but I noticed some of the most homophobic/asshole guys out there, are the muscle/weightlifting/fitness guys. It's something I don't get, but yeah.
It would help if you're muscular/bodybuilder yourself, and I argue it's kinda something to where you're gonna have a very difficult time if you're not. These guys eat, bring, drink gym and weights, and I assume they wan't their partner (whether openly/or more discreetly) the same as well. I'm not saying there aren't some muscle and big powerlifter guys who are looking for a Peter Pan Twink sissy. I know they exist, as I've seen them out there lol. However, these are exceptions not playing by the rules here.
But if you don't mind some DL guys in the muscle community, they are out there. I don't know how gym rules or the gym culture works, but I've noticed a lot of guys don't like going to the gym alone, so you could end up being a gym buddy/spotter and vice versa for him, and who knows, things might expand more than that.
If not you can check out bear bars, usually they have some guys in the bodybuilding community that go to those, but yeah.
It would help if you're muscular/bodybuilder yourself, and I argue it's kinda something to where you're gonna have a very difficult time if you're not. These guys eat, bring, drink gym and weights, and I assume they wan't their partner (whether openly/or more discreetly) the same as well. I'm not saying there aren't some muscle and big powerlifter guys who are looking for a Peter Pan Twink sissy. I know they exist, as I've seen them out there lol. However, these are exceptions not playing by the rules here.
But if you don't mind some DL guys in the muscle community, they are out there. I don't know how gym rules or the gym culture works, but I've noticed a lot of guys don't like going to the gym alone, so you could end up being a gym buddy/spotter and vice versa for him, and who knows, things might expand more than that.
If not you can check out bear bars, usually they have some guys in the bodybuilding community that go to those, but yeah.
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