Which of the following senses is easiest to engage?

[Symphonic]

Since there was no manual (or I didn't receive one) on being "sexy" I'm trying to figure it out for myself with no success. So I'll just ask. Now I know none of these are exclusive, so don't mistake me as saying "one or the other" but simply asking which has the greatest effect on you most of the time:

1. Touch. Being caressed, massaged, and engaged in tactile manners.

2. Sound. Being whispered to, shouted at (if that's what you're into), sounds of pleasure, of pain (if that's what you're into), music, mood setting backgrounds, being told or telling sexy things and other forms of auditory engagement.

3. Sight. Seeing sexy things, being given romantic / sexual stimuli (think, trail of rose petals or dirty picture texts from/to a partner), pornography or clear visuals of your partner's arousal and other things that are seen.

I can't engage smell or taste consistently so I'll not ask about them.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Smell is the most imprinting. I found a shirt I couldn't explain. Then I realized he'd left it behind last summer, and I'd not seen him since, some four months prior. I'd found it in a closet in a room I don't use. I folded it, and gave it hug because he was missed. When his scent wafted out of it I almost cried. I love him so much. He changes soaps, deodorants, colognes, but when I put my face against his chest it always smells basically the same. He'd slept in that shirt for a week. It was perfect. There's nothing to be done about that though. A man's scent is personal, and has a lot to do with his own body. It's either immediately sexy (and becomes sentimental over time) or it never is.

I like tasting beer on his lips. I like tasting espresso on his tongue.

I like his face, certain facial hair styles, the way his eyebrow pops up when he's concentrating, the way his eyes dance and glitter (even though I know the cause is nystagmus, and has to be corrected) his cute muscular backside, his big, thick legs. I like watching him listen to a joke, and seeing that smile that starts on one side of his mouth and slowly takes over his face.

He teases, "You're in trouble! You've not yet seen what I can really do!"

He slips in behind me at night and puts his arms around me. I also like feeling him get hard against my ass. When he kisses me, he inserts these little pauses, pulling back slightly, making me chase him for another. So sexy. When he leaves me at the airport, he has this way of hugging me like I might never come back. Makes my whole body sad it is time to depart.

A lot of that is not something you can adjust. Just decide you are sexy, and choose compatibility.