Why do Gay men call their Ass a Pussy?

[Kanashi]

For me it has to do with the fact that I do like to feel like a “whore” in bed. I’m masculine looking and acting out of bed, so in bed I really like to feel my filthiest. So having my hole named as pussy, makes me feel like a “real” whore/slut. Plus I am very verbal, and driven by words, so the closer the words that make me feel like a filthy whore, the more excited I am.

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[Andrej_u]

For me it has to do with the fact that I do like to feel like a “whore” in bed. I’m masculine looking and acting out of bed, so in bed I really like to feel my filthiest. So having my hole named as pussy, makes me feel like a “real” whore/slut. Plus I am very verbal, and driven by words, so the closer the words that make me feel like a filthy whore, the more excited I am.

For me, if I think of sex with a woman, I feel that anal is much more "slutty" and a bit more taboo than fucking her in the pussy.
So to me, if you call your ass a pussy... it feels a bit more ordinary and less slutty in my eyes, rather than you getting fucked in your butt. But yeah, I'm a total ass man and this is why

 

[bak311982]

I think it's largely because there isn't really an equivalent word for gay men to call their arseholes so Pussy and other terms were co-opted. Personally I love it when a bottom refers to his hole as a pussy or another term while getting plowed good

 

[Smakris]

I noticed in bed I’ll be plowing a guy and on many occasions they’ll refer to their ass as a pussy or still cling to heteronormative power dynamics.

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[Scott8361]

For me, my ass becomes an orifice craving penetration and pleasure. I literally squirm in my seat when my prostate is aching for stimulation. It becomes the epicenter of my sexual needs. The thought of a big cock using my hole to release its seed is so erotic.

I feel a different side of me comes out. When I am so anally aroused I think of my ass as my pussy. When it poops it is simply my ass. When I am hrny and crave to be fucked, by cock or dildo, it is my pussy.

 

[just rodger]

I'm submissive and it makes me feel more like a bitch.

 

[just rodger]

Exactly ! I twitch and spasm when I'm cock hungry. Sometimes it feels like my pussy is literally trying to suck the guys cock into me, like a vacuum .

 

[just rodger]

I've been thinking about the question.
I like to say "pussy" because it denotes I'm a bottom and I take cocks on a regular basis.
I never heard a guy who is strictly a top use that term when talking about his hole.

 

[Scott8361]

I've been thinking about the question.
I like to say "pussy" because it denotes I'm a bottom and I take cocks on a regular basis.
I never heard a guy who is strictly a top use that term when talking about his hole.

I agree... being a totally submissive bottom, my body is there to strictly receive cock and cum, and satisfy the needs of the man. I don't even expect anything being done to my cock in return. I actually see my cock as just more of a clit in many respects. Any orgasmic pleasure I get comes from deeper inside... from my prostate.... my P spot inside my "pussy". My dick usually isn't even hard when I bottom.

Not using my cock as a man would in sex certainly makes my hole a "pussy" for me.

 

[louparis10]

The bottom I fuck can call his hole as he wants.
Being 100% gay and top versatile, when active, I fuck a guy and for me the bottom just stays a guy!
I fuck a guy's asshole, not a pussy.

 

[nygayguy1]

The bottom I fuck can call his hole as he wants.
Being 100% gay and top versatile, when active, I fuck a guy and for me the bottom just stays a guy!
I fuck a guy's asshole, not a pussy.

I agree. Why get hung up on words. We know it's not really a pussy, but if that's a turn-on for a guy, why should I care? I used to hate if a guy called me "daddy," but then one time when I was balls-deep in a FWB, he moaned, "oh, fuck, yes daddy!" and I stopped caring in that instant. It's just words. If everyone is happy, who cares?

 

[oscar thomas]

When I was at uni local men in their 50s, 60s etc would openly cruise for "pussy" so it might be an age gap thing, men using language they're more comfortable with

 

[tallytackle]

Personally I don't care for an asshole being referred to as a pussy, this is purely from my own bisexual experience and perspective. Pussies and assholes are very different and I myself can't see the latter as the former. But that is just my personal opinion/preference though; if it's someone else's preference to call their asshole their pussy, they totally have that right and good on them. It's all about what makes you feel good, empowered, sexy, defined, that matters. Which I think is why a lot of gay men like to refer to their asshole as such.