Why Do Some Guys Blame Others For Their Sexual Curiosity?

Sometimes it is just to costly for someone to come out.
There was me thinking this is a brave new world where all is for the best in this best of all possible worlds, where, according to the press and media no one cares a fuck what your sexual orientation is.
 
There was me thinking this is a brave new world where all is for the best in this best of all possible worlds, where, according to the press and media no one cares a fuck what your sexual orientation is.
Even in the UK there are communities who will absolutely disown someone.
 
Even in the UK there are communities who will absolutely disown someone.
The interesting thing about these communities is they will do all they can to sweep sexual misdemeanors under the carpet because its might tarnish the name - and the name is more important than the individual
 
I've experienced similar being the "only gay in the friendship group". Curiousity takes over, then they scatter to the four winds.

Sadly it does speak to treating gay men as wank socks, or cheap labour if you will. "Oh they're gay so it doesn't matter if I wank once and then fuck off ."
 
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I've experienced similar being the "only gay in the friendship group". Curiousity takes over, then they scatter to the four winds.

Sadly it does speak to treating gay men as wank socks, or cheap labour if you will. "Oh they're gay so it doesn't matter if I wank once and then fuck off ."
I too was the supposedly only gay in the friend group growing up. But slept with a good few “straight” fellas from the group. One was the local stud, he had every girl in a 5 mile radius begging to shag him. He fucked me in a bush (he had the hardest erection I’ve ever felt, wasn’t huge, probably 5 1/2 -6 inches but hard like wood, seriously) walked me home comforting me the whole way (my first time) then ghosted me, wouldn’t speak to me in public or be seen talking to me. A year later at a party he sweet talked me and apologised for being a prick, we slipped out and he fucked me in my car. Same thing ghosted me. Then third and last time I bumped into him in the pub around 8 months later, same thing, apologised and I ended up sucking him off in the back of my car. This time though a group of our mates came out the pub and saw us. He said I got him drunk and took advantage of him whilst he was passed out (he had his eyes closed while I was sucking him off, so pretended he was asleep when we got caught) I was actually glad we got caught, he got outed, and has since got caught by his Mrs wanking her brother off.
Another straight friend I was sleeping with secretly, we shagged anywhere and everywhere we could went on for around a year (he could have won a gold medal for cock sucking, to this day, 20 years later, I’ve never had a blowjob come close to his) anyway one night at a party he pulled me into the toilet, didn’t say a word unbuttoned my jeans pulled my cock out and gave the best head I’ve ever received. After he swallowed my cum. He stood up and said he can’t do this anymore and walked out. He got with a girl that night and hasn’t spoken to me since. He’s still with her and has two kids. But if I’m honest she looks like a man anyway.
Another straight friend, we were walking back from the pub and he was falling everywhere so put his arm over my shoulder and half carried him on the walk home. He needed to pee so we stopped, he couldn’t undo his flies so I helped him, I also pulled his cock out for him too. Anyway while we were both peeing he commented that our cocks were almost identical and asked if he could see if the felt the same. Under the influence I said why not. So he grasped his hand around my cock and started tugging at it. He asked me to do the same to him, then he said let’s pull each others skin back. When he did that I Got a full on hardon. He started giggling and said “what happens in vegas, stays in vegas”. I knew exactly what he meant. He then asked if I could wank him off and he’ll do the same. I did feel strange, as I said our cocks are identical, not huge we’re about 6 inches, both the same girth, both have a foreskin that fully covers our glans with a pinch of skin overhang. We begin wanking each other then he wants to kiss with tongues he said. So we kiss and wank outside the co-op for at least half hour. He just wouldn’t cum, he was a good kisser though. Anyway we ended up cum all down each others jeans. I had a quick taste when he weren’t looking this “straight “ guy hasn’t ghosted me, we still talk every time we see other. Nothing is ever mentioned though. Saying that I think he told his brother about what we did, because I bumped into his brother in the pub we went back to mine for a late drink and then out of nowhere (no flirting, innuendos nothing) he pulls his cock out and puts it in my face. He says “I know you sucked colin off, can you suck me?” his brother is Colin. For the record me and Colin only wanked. Anyway he did have a perfect cock for sucking (4 1/2 - 5 inches uncut) so i thought what the hell, why not. So a gave him a top notch blowjob, (swallowed aswell) I went to bed woke up in the morning he’s gone. Ghosted me and blocked me on socials.
What’s with “straight men” and ghosting any gay experiences?
 
Lol, if you acusse me of making you gay(er) I would take it as a compliment honestly.
 
I too was the supposedly only gay in the friend group growing up. But slept with a good few “straight” fellas from the group. One was the local stud, he had every girl in a 5 mile radius begging to shag him. He fucked me in a bush (he had the hardest erection I’ve ever felt, wasn’t huge, probably 5 1/2 -6 inches but hard like wood, seriously) walked me home comforting me the whole way (my first time) then ghosted me, wouldn’t speak to me in public or be seen talking to me. A year later at a party he sweet talked me and apologised for being a prick, we slipped out and he fucked me in my car. Same thing ghosted me. Then third and last time I bumped into him in the pub around 8 months later, same thing, apologised and I ended up sucking him off in the back of my car. This time though a group of our mates came out the pub and saw us. He said I got him drunk and took advantage of him whilst he was passed out (he had his eyes closed while I was sucking him off, so pretended he was asleep when we got caught) I was actually glad we got caught, he got outed, and has since got caught by his Mrs wanking her brother off.
Another straight friend I was sleeping with secretly, we shagged anywhere and everywhere we could went on for around a year (he could have won a gold medal for cock sucking, to this day, 20 years later, I’ve never had a blowjob come close to his) anyway one night at a party he pulled me into the toilet, didn’t say a word unbuttoned my jeans pulled my cock out and gave the best head I’ve ever received. After he swallowed my cum. He stood up and said he can’t do this anymore and walked out. He got with a girl that night and hasn’t spoken to me since. He’s still with her and has two kids. But if I’m honest she looks like a man anyway.
Another straight friend, we were walking back from the pub and he was falling everywhere so put his arm over my shoulder and half carried him on the walk home. He needed to pee so we stopped, he couldn’t undo his flies so I helped him, I also pulled his cock out for him too. Anyway while we were both peeing he commented that our cocks were almost identical and asked if he could see if the felt the same. Under the influence I said why not. So he grasped his hand around my cock and started tugging at it. He asked me to do the same to him, then he said let’s pull each others skin back. When he did that I Got a full on hardon. He started giggling and said “what happens in vegas, stays in vegas”. I knew exactly what he meant. He then asked if I could wank him off and he’ll do the same. I did feel strange, as I said our cocks are identical, not huge we’re about 6 inches, both the same girth, both have a foreskin that fully covers our glans with a pinch of skin overhang. We begin wanking each other then he wants to kiss with tongues he said. So we kiss and wank outside the co-op for at least half hour. He just wouldn’t cum, he was a good kisser though. Anyway we ended up cum all down each others jeans. I had a quick taste when he weren’t looking this “straight “ guy hasn’t ghosted me, we still talk every time we see other. Nothing is ever mentioned though. Saying that I think he told his brother about what we did, because I bumped into his brother in the pub we went back to mine for a late drink and then out of nowhere (no flirting, innuendos nothing) he pulls his cock out and puts it in my face. He says “I know you sucked colin off, can you suck me?” his brother is Colin. For the record me and Colin only wanked. Anyway he did have a perfect cock for sucking (4 1/2 - 5 inches uncut) so i thought what the hell, why not. So a gave him a top notch blowjob, (swallowed aswell) I went to bed woke up in the morning he’s gone. Ghosted me and blocked me on socials.
What’s with “straight men” and ghosting any gay experiences?
"What's with "straight men" and ghosting...?" Nothing, because the men you describe are clearly not "straight." Why they "ghosted" you is a different matter. Why does anybody connect and then disconnect? Perhaps they had better things to do and other people with whom to do them? Perhaps you served their purpose for the moment but not again. Perhaps they were just trying to be nice and you expected too much. If you're employing that expansive meaning of "ghosting," then it must happen all the time and you cannot afford to be affected by it.
 
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