Why is oral sex so complicated nowadays?

I get that too, although I've met guys that don't like the sensation of getting sucked off. Hard to believe.
No harder to believe than guys not liking what I'm into. It's all to do with how our bodies are wired, and it's not the same for every guy. And, no I don't like being sucked - wrong sensation for what my penis wants.
 
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One thing I love about my husband is that we're both versatile. No domination, no subservience, no top/bottom issues, and that goes physically as well as emotionally - sometimes I'm the strong guy taking care of him, and just as often it's the opposite. We're all different, but to me there is nothing more attractive than equality. So yeah, 69s please!
 
Back in the day I really liked giving head. I felt I was pretty good at it too. But over the years I find it's still exciting but I don't have the patience to work a guy for very long. My jaw gets tired, my legs get tired. I'd rather get topped than spend 30 mins trying to get a guy to cum.

Dont get me wrong still fun but just don't have the energy to prove a point that doesn't give me pleasure anymore.

As for getting head. Willing to let guys try but it never feels super good for me.
 
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