I was a top only for good part of my 20s and could go for hours. My record was 4 hours of penetration with only breaks for drinking water and peeing. No drugs, alcohol or pills, all just me and with a condom on. But generally sessions of 1 hour of penetration weren't a big deal for me.
Towards the end of my 20s and now my early 30s I can barely keep an erection to top, but I also discovered how to bottom and enjoy it. I've been thinking something is wrong with me and I might have some form of ED, but through bottoming I realized keeping an erection past 10-15 min. of penetration only is actually the exception, not the norm. I've bottomed for lots of guys from hookups lately and I'd say only about 2 out of 10 can keep an erection without drugs for more than 15 min. of penetration only.
It has to do with arousal and exhaustion for sure, but it's helped me feel a bit more at ease with myself.
Common positions in porn are also affecting negatively keeping an erection. For example the guy lying on the bed with his cock up and me on top of him (facing him or in reverse), or sitting on him while he's sitting on a chair or a couch. Other positions make it easier to keep an erection, like doggy or missionary, probably because it's easier for blood to flow there.
I've noticed this with a lot of guys, their cock would go soft after a few minutes of exercise and we'd finish off ourselves. I've noticed also a big shift towards bareback sex because of the difficulty to keep an erection. I've heard countless times that guys don't want to use condoms because their cock goes soft immediately. I've even called off sex encounters because they wanted to fuck bareback.
If a cock going soft happened once or twice I'd say it was bad luck or there was no chemistry, but there's a pattern and I believe it has to do with porn and society accepting as normal an erection that lasts more than 15 min when that's actually the exception.
What do you think, what aconcerns have you had with your own erections?
Towards the end of my 20s and now my early 30s I can barely keep an erection to top, but I also discovered how to bottom and enjoy it. I've been thinking something is wrong with me and I might have some form of ED, but through bottoming I realized keeping an erection past 10-15 min. of penetration only is actually the exception, not the norm. I've bottomed for lots of guys from hookups lately and I'd say only about 2 out of 10 can keep an erection without drugs for more than 15 min. of penetration only.
It has to do with arousal and exhaustion for sure, but it's helped me feel a bit more at ease with myself.
Common positions in porn are also affecting negatively keeping an erection. For example the guy lying on the bed with his cock up and me on top of him (facing him or in reverse), or sitting on him while he's sitting on a chair or a couch. Other positions make it easier to keep an erection, like doggy or missionary, probably because it's easier for blood to flow there.
I've noticed this with a lot of guys, their cock would go soft after a few minutes of exercise and we'd finish off ourselves. I've noticed also a big shift towards bareback sex because of the difficulty to keep an erection. I've heard countless times that guys don't want to use condoms because their cock goes soft immediately. I've even called off sex encounters because they wanted to fuck bareback.
If a cock going soft happened once or twice I'd say it was bad luck or there was no chemistry, but there's a pattern and I believe it has to do with porn and society accepting as normal an erection that lasts more than 15 min when that's actually the exception.
What do you think, what aconcerns have you had with your own erections?