womens orgasm and bad sex.

[dubbs95]

is it possible for the sex to be bad even If the woman is getting off and having orgasms?

 

[MsThang]

I don't know, I guess anything is possible. Maybe it is good sex for her, bad sex for you.

 

[dubbs95]

I mean on the womans part of having orgasms and the sex not being good. not talking about men.

 

[1365373]

It can be good at first leading to orgasm, but then ruined by unacceptable behavior thereafter.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I don't know about bad, but I've had some sex that was... Meh... and still had an orgasm. You know, I've also had sex start out great, and last too long. Then I'm not having fun anymore, and am just trying to hold out long enough to help my partner get to satisfaction. If that stage lasts too long for too often, I start to think of the sex as not good. Not exactly bad, but no, not good.

 

[LaFemme]

I don't know about bad, but I've had some sex that was... Meh... and still had an orgasm. You know, I've also had sex start out great, and last too long. Then I'm not having fun anymore, and am just trying to hold out long enough to help my partner get to satisfaction. If that stage lasts too long for too often, I start to think of the sex as not good. Not exactly bad, but no, not good.

Yeah, me, too.

 

[MickeyLee]

I've had the trip over the rug orgasm. Where the timing is off and the orgasm breaks pre-peak. Like a half sneeze all the choo and none of the ah-ah-ah.

That sucks. The orgasms has none of that deep down muscular contraction. I get fijajibit. I just wanna bail. I'll usually take an assertive position, get my partner off and beat feet.

 

[SoaringSpirit]

Yes it is & was for me. With the ex, sometimes good, but mostly because of his drinking/ behavior from hell....i would orgasm...but it had to be fast. He couldn't hold it, 99 percent of the time a minute or 2 man. Very frustrating.
All way behind me now & in a very happy place. Sex can be bad, meh as stated above...you can orgasm. Will it be satisfying ? No

 

[deleted924715]

It reminds me of when I have a chocolate craving and it sorta hits the spot... but I'm not satisfied afterwards and think I coulda just skipped it.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

is it possible for the sex to be bad even If the woman is getting off and having orgasms?

Think of a lackluster hand job.
One gets off, but was it truly good?

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I've had the trip over the rug orgasm. Where the timing is off and the orgasm breaks pre-peak. Like a half sneeze all the choo and none of the ah-ah-ah.

That sucks. The orgasms has none of that deep down muscular contraction. I get fijajibit. I just wanna bail. I'll usually take an assertive position, get my partner off and beat feet.

I get ah-ah-ah....nothing.

 

[EllieP]

I don't know about bad, but I've had some sex that was... Meh... and still had an orgasm. You know, I've also had sex start out great, and last too long. Then I'm not having fun anymore, and am just trying to hold out long enough to help my partner get to satisfaction. If that stage lasts too long for too often, I start to think of the sex as not good. Not exactly bad, but no, not good.

Yeah, @AlteredEgo nailed it for me too. But too long is bad, and it will never get better.

 

[Enid]

@MickeyLee nailed it for me

I've had sex where I orgasm but the orgasm is what I would call a bum orgasm. The contractions start before the orgasm even peaks and it ends lamely because the contractions bring NO satisfaction without the really sharp sweet peaking just before.

That doesn't mean bad sex, just a bum orgasm.

 

[693987]

Ugh. I hate the bum orgasms. So frustrating

 

[AlteredEgo]

Bum orgasm. Like when the contractions are superficial and don't go deep.

 

[LaFemme]

I saw bum orgasm and had had a completely different thought!

But yeah, I totally know what you’re talking about.