Women's Sexuality

[MisterB]

I saw an interesting thread today entitled "Women's Sexuality" in the Ask a Man Forum.

Since women cannot respond in that forum, I thought the points raised by that thread's Originating Poster might receive some interesting feedback if women could post their thoughts.

Here's the link to that thread: Womens Sexuality

And here's the Opening Post from that thread:

Has anyone ever been with a women who's sexuality is the same as a mans? You know what I mean. Most guys will fuck anything with a hole. We do it for the sheer fun and enjoyment. Women seem to be alot more reserved about sex. When I was younger I had several encounters with what I call cougers. They could and would fuck me silly. Any position, or kink they had in mind. I had one who would fuck six times a night, another who ended up being a dominatrix and introduced me to ass play and pegging. Nothing against women but it seems it would be alot easier and nice if we were on the same page sexually. Women just don't seem to be as open minded as guys.

Thoughts?

 

[693987]

For one, there is a lot of garbage generalization about people as a whole. Most men I know, even the very promiscuous ones, won't fuck anything with a hole that is their preferred gender/genders. Most women I know really like sex, but even the very promiscuous ones also won't just fuck anything that moves. For another, "cougar" is slang to describe a demographic of women by age. It has nothing to do with how kinky they are or aren't. Some folks, like myself have been kinky since before we had ever even heard of BDSM or knew what it means. Being a dominatrix doesn't automatically imply interest in pegging, either.

In the past I've had multiple FWBs during the same span of time, because one wasn't enough to match my libido. I have at most had 3 regular FWB while also seeking and finding casual flings now and then that were a one or two and done. It was in fact just for "sheer fun and enjoyment" between informed, consenting adults. If they caught feelings, they were gently shown the door. If they wanted to date someone, they were congratulated, and I never spoke with them again.

As for not as "open minded"? Gurl, please. I've had the misfortune to mostly have encountered vanilla as fuck people, male, female, or otherwise self-identifying. Gender doesn't mean shit for how kinky someone is, just like age doesn't. I bet I could have that other thread's OP crying and screaming for mercy with just a single wooden kitchen utensil and a couple of items from my duffel bag of bondage shit. I'm kinky and creative.

Also, a lot of dudes into ladies talk a huge game about wanting a woman with a high libido........ until they actually get with a woman who has a high libido. I've yet to ever be with a man whose sex drive matched my own.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I would almost be willing to bet money that if that guy found himself with a woman as sexually demanding as me he'd end up feeling completely insecure about not being able to keep up with me.

Your boner can't stay hard as long as my pussy can stay wet.

 

[LaFemme]

I’ve definitely posted about this before, but I have a very high libido. Four times a day wasn’t too much for me. I look vanilla, but I have surprised more than a few guys.

I have yet to meet a man that could keep up with me sexually. Any man I’ve been involved with talked a big game, but I think became intimidated very quickly. If I was to make generalizations based on my experience, I’d say men were boring and never wanted sex. But I know that’s not true. I think the guys I attract like the chase, not the capture. Like TnJ said, the capture left them feeling insecure. I think there are men out there who are my sexual match - they just aren’t my match in other ways.

The man that posted that garbage has no idea about what he speaks. He sounds like some of my exes - talks a big game, but couldn’t handle a real woman if she turned up on his doorstep tomorrow. She’d leave him in a puddle of quivering goo, pleading a headache by Thursday.

 

[LaFemme]

One more thing...I still have standards. Guys who would nail “anything with a hole” need not apply. No matter how aroused I’ve been in my life, no matter the priority I put on sex in my life, any dude with a dick will not do. What kind of person screws indiscriminately?

 

[286798]

One more thing...I still have standards. Guys who would nail “anything with a hole” need not apply. No matter how aroused I’ve been in my life, no matter the priority I put on sex in my life, any dude with a dick will not do. What kind of person screws indiscriminately?

This. Totally this.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I haven't met a man who could keep up with my libido in years. I hear things like,

"Why are you trying to make me cum again?"

"I can't, Woman, you drained me!"

"Now?! Holy shit. Can I take a little nap first?"

I have given two men heart attacks. To be fair, one of them had a heart defect, and was on top. The other was underneath me and I'm not sure why it happened.

I have enjoyed most kinks men introduced. I love foot worship. Corporal punishment and some other manifestations of BDSM. I used to like (consensual) forced feminization, but not anymore. Sploshing is tolerable, depending on what the food is, and as long as he hosts. I love tease and denial games. Love! I like exhibitionistic sex. I like anal. I like roleplay.

But no. I'm not down to fuck just any ol' body!

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I’m one open gal..to one particular man.
To everyone else I’m an ice Queen.