Virginity is not a deal breaker. If any person hasn't had sex because they haven't met the right person, so what? Unless, like Ellie says you've been in jail or institutionalized, what does it matter. I've never been of the opinion that virginity is a burden that one must dispose of like some kind of tumour. Being a virgin doesn't even mean that no one has wanted to have sex with you - it might have been your decision, or even that you were oblivious to their attraction.
I slept with a 30 year old virgin. He was a great lover from day one. Fast the first time, sure, but things rapidly improved. He had just never had the opportunity prior to meeting me.
To me it doesn't matter. It's your attitude and reasons for being a virgin that matter. If you are bitter and blame women or your cock size, or the media or the alignment of the stars - then that's a problem. Otherwise, no big deal. Share the information with a potential lover whenever you feel comfortable or don't. :smile: