D_Connor Condompopper
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there should be ample opportunities if you're gay. or gay for pay, just google gay escorts, etc.
Work as an Escort or "Call Boy"?
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mephistopheles
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Man or woman I would.
It's just too difficult to make sure everyone is clean and condoms break sometimes. There should be hazard pay.
It's just too difficult to make sure everyone is clean and condoms break sometimes. There should be hazard pay.
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try www.squirt.org
my boyfriend and i took a break two weeks ago, and he told me this weekend that during that time, he'd hooked up with 2 older guys, and made $300. The guilt of what he's done was eating him up, and was standing the way of us getting back together. Once he told me, we both felt much much better; him for having let it out, and me, for knowing what was making him so uneasy all week.
He wants to continue it, because he doesn't want to ask me for money (which i have more than enough of) but this issue is eating away at me. I'm so worried about him, his self-perception and what this paid-for passion could do to our relationship. we've laid out boundaries, but i'm still unsure. No new clients have entered into our lives yet, so we'll deal with those when we come to them, i suppose.
He met his clients on Squirt, and got them to pick them up a few blocks from where he lives and went back to their place. The lack of security that entails is what worries me, and what he's willing to do for a buck as well.
(sorry for the rant, this has just been eating me away and i can't tell anyone in person - i promised him i wouldn't..)
my boyfriend and i took a break two weeks ago, and he told me this weekend that during that time, he'd hooked up with 2 older guys, and made $300. The guilt of what he's done was eating him up, and was standing the way of us getting back together. Once he told me, we both felt much much better; him for having let it out, and me, for knowing what was making him so uneasy all week.
He wants to continue it, because he doesn't want to ask me for money (which i have more than enough of) but this issue is eating away at me. I'm so worried about him, his self-perception and what this paid-for passion could do to our relationship. we've laid out boundaries, but i'm still unsure. No new clients have entered into our lives yet, so we'll deal with those when we come to them, i suppose.
He met his clients on Squirt, and got them to pick them up a few blocks from where he lives and went back to their place. The lack of security that entails is what worries me, and what he's willing to do for a buck as well.
(sorry for the rant, this has just been eating me away and i can't tell anyone in person - i promised him i wouldn't..)
Well, sorry to say, but I don't find so much difference between escorting or begging around for drink-dinners-gifts.
I mean: if you pay a guy $50 for a blow job is the same thing if you offer 5 drink @$10 because you know that you'll surely take him home after that...
And I'm not talking about gift like flowers or chocolate.
If you don't give/get cash for sex it doesn't mean you are not into escort. :-(
I mean: if you pay a guy $50 for a blow job is the same thing if you offer 5 drink @$10 because you know that you'll surely take him home after that...
And I'm not talking about gift like flowers or chocolate.
If you don't give/get cash for sex it doesn't mean you are not into escort. :-(
everybody is a whore on some level.........takes money to live.
loved wat u said, we may not take money but we behave and do whore at work with bosses etc...well said
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Yeah, under special circumstances, I'd work as an escort. But more fun to give it for free. Slut v. whore.
I've been paid for hj and bj. Been offered money for full on sex a couple times but always refused.
My body is not a commodity for sale. If, however, others want to sell themselves, that is their choice, and they should not be judged for that. Everyone has his own values when it comes to sex. I have a good friend who escorts for big money, and he has some interesting stories to tell, but he knows he is basically a gay fuck for hire and he has moments of doubts about what he does for a living. But, then again, don't most of us?
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I fell into it at the hotel where I worked as an undergrad first as a bellhop then in reception. It began slowly with a few women inviting me to their rooms. Staff could be sacked for fraternizing with customers but I kept it low key, always after hours and no one seemed to care. I never mentioned money but started getting tips from some. It wasn't long before patrons were asking for me by name or knew my name in advance. "You must be Hal." Word got around.
Some were middle aged (30s-40s) professional women attending conferences there. Others were women of means. Most were married. One who invited me to her suite was a regional VP of the hotel chain. I slept with her each time she stayed there. I can't prove it but I think she may have been pimping me. She already knew of my after hours activities and said there were patrons willing to "tip generously" for discreet favors whom she would steer my way.
Money was never mentioned but I was pretty sure I knew which women she sent my way based on the gratuity I received. I've often wondered if she got a cut and how much it was. For the most part these were the really wealthy women, many international, so it made sense they had been informed in advance. There was no secret code. They either asked me in person when I was alone at reception or phoned down from their rooms.
It wasn't every night--I only worked 3 or 4 nights a week. Nor was it every week but most weeks. Over those four years there were many repeats. Regulars. The money was good. It stopped when I graduated.
Other sexscapades happened there which I've written about before like the first time I bulled for a couple and first time I topped a guy. It's hard to believe it will soon be forty years since I began working there.
lol... once smoking a cigarette naked in bed after a protracted bout the VP said you're every forty-year old woman's dream.
After I dropped out of medicine in my late twenties I became a licensed massage therapist. When the spa were I worked went out of business many of my regulars stayed with me in private practice. A few paid extra for erotic/tantric massage. I even made house calls with table, oils and sheets in tow. That ended when I rejoined the boring old business world.
Some were middle aged (30s-40s) professional women attending conferences there. Others were women of means. Most were married. One who invited me to her suite was a regional VP of the hotel chain. I slept with her each time she stayed there. I can't prove it but I think she may have been pimping me. She already knew of my after hours activities and said there were patrons willing to "tip generously" for discreet favors whom she would steer my way.
Money was never mentioned but I was pretty sure I knew which women she sent my way based on the gratuity I received. I've often wondered if she got a cut and how much it was. For the most part these were the really wealthy women, many international, so it made sense they had been informed in advance. There was no secret code. They either asked me in person when I was alone at reception or phoned down from their rooms.
It wasn't every night--I only worked 3 or 4 nights a week. Nor was it every week but most weeks. Over those four years there were many repeats. Regulars. The money was good. It stopped when I graduated.
Other sexscapades happened there which I've written about before like the first time I bulled for a couple and first time I topped a guy. It's hard to believe it will soon be forty years since I began working there.
lol... once smoking a cigarette naked in bed after a protracted bout the VP said you're every forty-year old woman's dream.
After I dropped out of medicine in my late twenties I became a licensed massage therapist. When the spa were I worked went out of business many of my regulars stayed with me in private practice. A few paid extra for erotic/tantric massage. I even made house calls with table, oils and sheets in tow. That ended when I rejoined the boring old business world.
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You should write a book or a screenplay.I fell into it at the hotel where I worked as an undergrad first as a bellhop then in reception. It began slowly with a few women inviting me to their rooms. Staff could be sacked for fraternizing with customers but I kept it low key, always after hours and no one seemed to care. I never mentioned money but started getting tips from some. It wasn't long before patrons were asking for me by name or knew my name in advance. "You must be Hal." Word got around.
Some were middle aged (30s-40s) professional women attending conferences there. Others were women of means. Most were married. One who invited me to her suite was a regional VP of the hotel chain. I slept with her each time she stayed there. I can't prove it but I think she may have been pimping me. She already knew of my after hours activities and said there were patrons willing to "tip generously" for discreet favors whom she would steer my way.
Money was never mentioned but I was pretty sure I knew which women she sent my way based on the gratuity I received. I've often wondered if she got a cut and how much it was. For the most part these were the really wealthy women, many international, so it made sense they had been informed in advance. There was no secret code. They either asked me in person when I was alone at reception or phoned down from their rooms.
It wasn't every night--I only worked 3 or 4 nights a week. Nor was it every week but most weeks. Over those four years there were many repeats. Regulars. The money was good. It stopped when I graduated.
Other sexscapades happened there which I've written about before like the first time I bulled for a couple and first time I topped a guy. It's hard to believe it will soon be forty years since I began working there.
lol... once smoking a cigarette naked in bed after a protracted bout the VP said you're every forty-year old woman's dream.
After I dropped out of medicine in my late twenties I became a licensed massage therapist. When the spa were I worked went out of business many of my regulars stayed with me in private practice. A few paid extra for erotic/tantric massage. I even made house calls with table, oils and sheets in tow. That ended when I rejoined the boring old business world.
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I have never escorted or been paid for sex. But I had 2 friends that used to do it. My best friend was the first one, he did a few times on Craigslist. But then he started hanging around this much older man. And he was over at the guy's house quite a bit. He finally told me that the guy was really rich and had paid him money a few times. The guy was no longer paying my friend, but he was letting my friend drive his cars and use his boat. Eventually my friend grew tired of the older guy and stopped going over to his house.
A few years later, another friend started seeing the same older guy. But he eventually ended up moving into the older guy's house. He drove his cars all the time also. After a few years, the older guy started to get sick. He kicked my friend out of his house. My friend was heartbroken because he had fallen for the older guy. But a few months later, the older guy died and left my friend absolutely nothing. He even put it in his will that my friend got nothing. Everything went to his kids who would have nothing to do with him when they found out he was gay.
A few years later, another friend started seeing the same older guy. But he eventually ended up moving into the older guy's house. He drove his cars all the time also. After a few years, the older guy started to get sick. He kicked my friend out of his house. My friend was heartbroken because he had fallen for the older guy. But a few months later, the older guy died and left my friend absolutely nothing. He even put it in his will that my friend got nothing. Everything went to his kids who would have nothing to do with him when they found out he was gay.
like you I have a good friend who moved here from abroad to London which is incredibly expensive to live in and he couldn't get a job quickly or easily or paying enough for rent and living expenses.
he does it out of need, but he's phoned me often in tears and anxiety about what he's 'having' to do and escapes to see me for some normality when he can. And he's not even had 'bad' experiences he says, he just feels very 'used'.
Each to their own, but for every guy (or gal) out there doing it who are enjoying it and the rewards it brings, there is another for whom it feels a trap and necessity in order to live.
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halcyondays
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Thanks. I would if I needed the money or wanted the attention.
I can see it now: the book would come first. Then the promotional tour. Half page ad in the Book Review. Interviews on tv, radio, net. Scandal. Names named. Denials. Recriminations. Social media fest. Jokes in late night monologues. Then the screenplay. Contract negotiations. Eight episodes on a streaming service. Option for eight more. Production. Edits. Re-writes. Intimacy coordinators. Staged sex. Key grips. Extras. Wrap party.
Then the actors do promo tours. Fingers crossed for an Emmy for their roles in A Male Fleabag.
Okay I've had my fun with that idea on a cloudy Friday afternoon in COVID isolation.
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I worked for myself... My size and noticeable bulge in my pants were my advertising, as was my junk bouncing visibly in my shorts on the tennis court.
It beat a lot of jobs that i could name.
It beat a lot of jobs that i could name.
Tennis shorts and bouncing balls - what could be better
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