Would u have a 3way with ur gf & a male bi friend?

[1284747]

My best friend is pretty hot and he has a beautiful girlfriend for 8 months now. We're late teens/early 20s. He knows I'm bi and doesn't care. I don't think he'd be opposed to a 3 way in theory. But he's always been with girls and presents as totally straight and I respect and have no reason to doubt that. I am realistic, so while I'd like to, I would not propose to touch or fuck him. Just that we both take her. But I have to admit, seeing him nude and fucking her is a big part of the attraction.

Can I just ask if they're interested? Or would that ruin our friendship forever?
As a straight guy, how would you feel/react if your friend brought that up?
Should I just let it go and find non-friends to try it with?

 

[NateRemix]

Ruin your friendship forever. Don’t ask.

 

[1234665]

Thread fail.

 

[Tomas26]

Don’t ask right out. Start by bringing up the topic of threesomes in general... maybe even lie and say you were at a bar and approached by a couple. See what kind of reaction your friend has. If he’s not entirely offput by the idea of it in general, then wait a while, then return to the topic and slowly start to turn the conversation more personal.

 

[Hatt_101]

No do not ask. It's going to look like you just want to do your friends girl. You have see that. And the fact that you actually just wanna watch him is just as awkward. If that's the type of friendship you have that you joke about watching them fine but it sounds like you have a regular friendship.
If you want to make things weird and make yourself look like you want your friends girl go ahead and ask but If you truly respect him and their relationship don't ask them. Unless it's something they come to you with first

 

[sodominsane]

I'd say....ask....maybe in an off handed way but

1.I've kept few friends from my early 20s....but my sexual memory lives forever

2.hey life is short...take a bite out of it while ya still got teeth

3.I have had a TON of friends proposition me for sex....guys gals and couples .....some I said yes....some I said no....some I just plain chicked out off.....

Well....I can remember argument with a best friend....i ended up punching him in the face....I was super upset that I lost my best friend

My dad said...."if your best friend is not your friend anymore after a punch....well he wasn't ever your best friend"

I think a proposition is in the same vein

 

[1284747]

Don’t ask right out. Start by bringing up the topic of threesomes in general...

I think this is a good approach to gauge reaction. Im also aware even if he is ok that doesnt mean she is and its as much for her to agree too

 

[ronin001]

Soooooo, do the woman in any of these scenarios have the ability to voice their opinions; or is the decision about sex solely made by the 2 men.

 

[1284747]

Soooooo, do the woman in any of these scenarios have the ability to voice their opinions; or is the decision about sex solely made by the 2 men.

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Im also aware even if he is ok that doesnt mean she is and its as much for her to agree too

 

[1139089]

Polls like this won't show you a satisfactory result.

It is like opening a poll in the women's forum about penis size.

 

[GoingOnABoeing]

I would have no problem having a threesome with another male friend but the girl would have to be someone that neither of us had feelings for.

 

[1284747]

I would have no problem having a threesome with another male friend but the girl would have to be someone that neither of us had feelings for.

So if it was your girlfriend, you would be upset for your friend to ask?

 

[554279]

There are probably plenty of "hot" unattached, males and females for you too fuck.

If your just looking for NSA sex with a couple go with a married couple.

If this is a legitimate question spare your relationships ships.

 

[GoingOnABoeing]

So if it was your girlfriend, you would be upset for your friend to ask?

I wouldn't be upset if asked. I just probably wouldn't do it with a wife or girlfriend. I'd just find a nice girl that was down with getting tag teamed.