I know, right?! So confusing. I find that men in general seem to assign different meaning to the phrase. I've had a man old enough to be my father refer to himself as my boytoy. What? Okay old man. I've also had a man tell me he wanted to be the man in my life and to let my boytoys go. Yeah, right! Like someone who uses that kind of phrasing has the stones to tame me. There was another guy who used to ask me during sex if I needed any boy toys but him. Mind you, every last one of these dudes was at least ten years older, and one was more like 25 years older. None of these men looked particularly boyish. I don't get it.
