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I probably would go top, as nothing has ever been put in my ass, thats my only logic on that though.
It's all I do.
I was completely inexperienced until I was 32. Lots of reason: the closet, self-doubt, moral compunctions, body image, past rejections, whatever.
Then, an 18-yr-old friend led me on for months when I was 32. I finally said something, he ghosted. A couple months later, the opportunity arose to blow a 25-yr-old guy, I said "fuck it" and did. I'm 37 now, I only blow under 26ish.
I like the idea of the tables being turned, the feeling of being used by younger men. I like using my body to teach skinny waifs that they can be dominant and top, that their pleasure matters.
It's difficult to find young men who are into older. There's immense, but recent, social programming that any interaction beyond a year's age difference is freakish. Age discrimination isn't viewed as problematic by woke gays (forever reading oblivious grindr profiles like "if you have race preferences, don't hit me up. No one over 25.")
Sometimes you just have to lay it down straight for a younger guy: "we're talking about a blowjob, not marriage." It's worked a few times.
One of my best was a guy who was in the area on vacation. He was very enthusiastic because he was very new to sex, but his only partner had been a teacher who was intent on squarepegging him into bottoming, which he hated. I was happy to let him take out his intergenerational frustration on my throat. He told me he how grateful he was for letting him be himself and take control. He smothered me with clumsy, hard kisses that honestly hurt my lips, but I loved that he was getting to do what he wanted, and to feel the way he wanted to feel in his position in the situation.
I just love giving them what they want.
I was completely inexperienced until I was 32. Lots of reason: the closet, self-doubt, moral compunctions, body image, past rejections, whatever.
Then, an 18-yr-old friend led me on for months when I was 32. I finally said something, he ghosted. A couple months later, the opportunity arose to blow a 25-yr-old guy, I said "fuck it" and did. I'm 37 now, I only blow under 26ish.
I like the idea of the tables being turned, the feeling of being used by younger men. I like using my body to teach skinny waifs that they can be dominant and top, that their pleasure matters.
It's difficult to find young men who are into older. There's immense, but recent, social programming that any interaction beyond a year's age difference is freakish. Age discrimination isn't viewed as problematic by woke gays (forever reading oblivious grindr profiles like "if you have race preferences, don't hit me up. No one over 25.")
Sometimes you just have to lay it down straight for a younger guy: "we're talking about a blowjob, not marriage." It's worked a few times.
One of my best was a guy who was in the area on vacation. He was very enthusiastic because he was very new to sex, but his only partner had been a teacher who was intent on squarepegging him into bottoming, which he hated. I was happy to let him take out his intergenerational frustration on my throat. He told me he how grateful he was for letting him be himself and take control. He smothered me with clumsy, hard kisses that honestly hurt my lips, but I loved that he was getting to do what he wanted, and to feel the way he wanted to feel in his position in the situation.
I just love giving them what they want.
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I love this. One of my first experiences was with my best friend's dad. There was about a 25 year age difference and I found it to be such a turn on. He was a bottom and very vocal - made comments about how he loved my thick dick, cum, etc. Now that I'm older, I often fantasize about being fucked by a hairy 18-early 20 something guy.
Younger jock top here hung and love older bottoms
When I entered my 40s there was a major shift. Mind you I look younger than I am, and especially since getting into better shape, but I'd say 2/3 of the guys who hit me up on "the apps" who want to fuck my brains out are in their 20s. And I learned quickly that I am more than happy to let them. Younger guys are fantastic in the sack, can usually cum more than once, and really seem to enjoy the hell out of fucking my hole. They don't catch feelings too quickly either, which is a plus lol.
there’s an older guy in cool with amd we’d fool around here and there and i’ve topped him before. i think i likes it cause he is older and waaaay more experienced than i could be.
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Glad to know you're getting your oats and enjoying it and doing what the older guy likes.
I recently met a young goy with a raging hard on so gave him a wank then he returned the favour. Met him again while he wanked me I sucked him off which he loved, sometimes we'd do it a second time in the hour. His cock was perfect, long smooth and uncut and his cum sweet and milky, Turned out he'd never fucked or been fucked so I took a chance and wow, he was a natural. Once he got in he didn't want to come out, his cock fitted perfectly and after three loads he gave in to sexual exhaustion.
Now I'm in the prime of life and he is 30 years younger. Makes me feel good having a young stud interested in me, fucking me and so far, though I would say yes, he hasn't offered for me to have him, but then I am happy he needs almost daily attention and happy to oblige in the kitchen, bedroom - anywhere and a variety of positions he's experimented with (with a little help from an older experienced person) -- and leave a good load. From oral to anal and I love it.
I’ve always particularly enjoyed fucking older men, especially in my 20s. I have a 9 inch dick and found guys my age would tap out quickly or feel pain taking it
Most older men’s holes are that perfect mix between tight and relaxed that just fits like a glove
Plus I’m drawn to beefier men in general vs skinny and young
Most older men’s holes are that perfect mix between tight and relaxed that just fits like a glove
Plus I’m drawn to beefier men in general vs skinny and young
I think it would be hot to get fucked by a guy in his 20’s (I’m 60). My concern is that he would attack my ass with reckless abandon but it’s a chance I’d take.
when i first came out at uni and started playing with guys, they were always older, me 20s them all 40+ up till i was 30 at which point everyone started getting younger lol. There was never any fetish to me being a younger (and back then very slim twinky type - 5'9 and under 130lb) fucking an older guy. i did learn a lot about how to fuck from them what worked what didn't.
Why would a younger top be any different to being a younger bottom? the dynamics are usually to do with experience and attraction aren't they?
i just found them attractive and they wanted me and were very happy that i was top. So i'm sure there are many older guys around happy to fool around with a younger top guy?
Why would a younger top be any different to being a younger bottom? the dynamics are usually to do with experience and attraction aren't they?
i just found them attractive and they wanted me and were very happy that i was top. So i'm sure there are many older guys around happy to fool around with a younger top guy?
Nothing beter than a bottom who is older than me..even very old guys are sexy.They really know how to take a dick like a champ.And being younger doesn't mean you don't have the experience or talent...
I just topped a 50 something guy this weekend. He gladly took all of my 9.5 inches balls deep with no issues. His juicy hole feels incredible and I love seeing his beefy ass bounce as I’m fucking him
A lot of young guys are too tight and tap out early. Not older men
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Well after a lifetime of having problems shoved up our asses... A cock would seem easy at this point!
Seriously though. I've often wondered about the percentage of bottoms versus tops in my older guys world... I have a 9" dildo that goes in much easier now than it did even 10 years ago (63 here). In the online dating world (Silverdaddies for example) everyone in my bracket seems to be a bottom.
I think it's bc sex is just like riding a bike... When ur young it's really fun. U can go for miles and do all kinds of tricks. But the older u get, the more u start to slow down. And instead of doing all kinds of tricks, u try one and almost throw your back out. And instead of going for miles, by the time u turn the corner you're ready to get off.Well after a lifetime of having problems shoved up our asses... A cock would seem easy at this point!
Seriously though. I've often wondered about the percentage of bottoms versus tops in my older guys world... I have a 9" dildo that goes in much easier now than it did even 10 years ago (63 here). In the online dating world (Silverdaddies for example) everyone in my bracket seems to be a bottom.
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And I can still pull my knees to my chest...
Theres nothing hotter than a hot hung 20 something top ready to go till empty.
I'm a bottom dad type. But I get a response more like the guy in the adjoining deli booth in this clip:
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