As posted earlier , my first was a guy , but it was a fumbling encounter (can't tell you our age here ) that i did not enjoy that much . We messed around a bit for a while , but he moved away , and i decided to concentrate on girls , to whom i was strongly attracted ( and remain so ) . A chance meeting with a much older guy , which was basically a very rough rape scenario , was what switched me into a full on bi sexual role . Even though i was seeing girls at that time in my life , my liking for really rough sex with guys , was going through the roof . Now , as i type this , my preferences are swinging markedly back to women , though if a mega hung guy came into my life now , i would probably stay with him . Guess i am truly bi sexual .