I am going to do something you probably don't understand and respond to you logically and calmly. I think of this forum as a safe place where guys can talk about guys whom they find sexy without worrying about getting called names or bullied or attacked as would the case in many places in the world we live in. You do not own this site or run it so your thoughts about its level of "safeness" do not really matter. Also, you have no right to tell me what to post or not to post. No right whatsoever. And lastly, do not call me "sis." I am not your sister. I'm fairly sure you are not a member of my family because my folks raised their children to be courteous and thoughtful. And I will tell you again, you really don't need to get so worked up over discussions on chat groups. It's not good for your health, to be honest. Perhaps English is your second language and you don't really understand the nuances of the tongue but I would just suggest you try to express yourself in a more moderate way as your comments really do come off as quite rude and nasty and I'm not sure that that is your intent.