6'5 But 8 Inches

[IgotgoodD]

So I've been very insecure about my height proportionate to my penis size. Many of the women I've encountered have hinted to me that they imagine I have a 10+ inch penis but it's 8 inches and not really that thick. Do all women expect a black guy who is 6'2 or taller to have a massive dick? I feel like I disappoint women and I've never got the "shock" reaction that you would see women give in porn films. It's an ego thing of course but also it sucks having anxiety not living up to the standard of a tall black man. Especially white women, they are the queens of expecting "BBC".

 

[MickeyLee]

*sigh* Statistically an 8 inch wang is huge.

Porn has done terrible things to a generations sexual knowledge and ideas.

Additional point of reference on the mythical 10" wang. There is a thread here offering 10,000 dollars for a verified 10" penis. Nobody has claimed the check. Cuz 10" is a porn myth.

Most male porn stars are well hung and are very short. Add in camera angles and the audiences' suspension of disbelief, then the world ends up thinking only double digit dicks will do.

 

[MickeyLee]

I tried. Take ya dick issues and kick rocks.

ETA: I don't know you, I have no reason to compromise my integrity to make you feel better about ya penis. The women here have no interest in your winer or your feels about said weiner.

In fact, most would chide you for posting a size question in Ask a Woman. I should smack my own hand. I had a moment if feeling bad about media fed body issues.

And, yeah, if someone had or knew anyone with 10" of peen that money would be claimed. Specific like it would have been claimed by someone in porn. Can you imagine the tag line possibility of a porn performer being able to say they have a ten grand cock?

 

[286798]

I've never got the "shock" reaction that you would see women give in porn films.

Ya know why you haven't gotten that reaction? Because your partners are not paid actresses. Because porn is not real life. Because we've seen porn too.

So if you're really here looking for insight... relax. With few exceptions, most women choose the man, not his cock. With few exceptions, if you're not too far to the end of the bell curve, we'll gladly work with what ya got. I'd rather have a fun dude who's committed to my having a good time with a smaller package than a dude with a whopper and no skills or doesn't care if I get there.

If you're posting here hoping that chicks will start hitting you up/looking at your gallery, you don't know your audience. Your ego will not be fed here.

Side note- my guy is over 7 feet tall. I didn't expect the plumbing to match the skyscraper. I didn't expect (or want) a 10"er.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Member for 11 years, 14 messages and this is one of them?
Geeeeeez.

 

[Mittimer]

BBC porn has perpetuated such bullshit ideas of what a man of color should have vs what reality is. Life isn't porn, get that through your head.

8 inches isn't anything to scoff at. That is far larger than a large majority of women will be able to fully take. The vaginal canal is not an endless tube. Dick punching the cervix really isn't as fun as it looks like in porn... portrayed by paid actresses.

That shock factor your looking for? Yeah, porn has ruined you too, not just the women you're wanting to hook up with. Or hell, the women are just acting like normal gals and not falling head over heels for a single part of your body like they want you to.

TLDR - Your alleged size issue is all in your head, stop watching porn and expecting ladies to gasp/ooo/ahh over that thing that dangles between your legs. Your height represents fuck all more than the size of your skeleton.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

So I've been very insecure about my height proportionate to my penis size. Many of the women I've encountered have hinted to me that they imagine I have a 10+ inch penis but it's 8 inches and not really that thick. Do all women expect a black guy who is 6'2 or taller to have a massive dick? I feel like I disappoint women and I've never got the "shock" reaction that you would see women give in porn films. It's an ego thing of course but also it sucks having anxiety not living up to the standard of a tall black man. Especially white women, they are the queens of expecting "BBC".

You could have a *perfect* dick (if there was such a thing, which there isn't) and ruin it by being fixated on it and how it "performs". That's one thing that can ruin it for me, at least.

 

[4388301]

I dun do the whole preconceived notion bout what someone has going on in they delicates. Any obsession about they wang from an AMAB person is like to be a major turn off, tho

 

[LaFemme]

Porn is not real life. Shock and awe over dick size? Not from this woman. Penises are a guy’s issue.

If you’re looking for a reaction to your penis, bedazzle it. No one expects a bedazzled penis.

 

[IgotgoodD]

Side note- my guy is over 7 feet tall. I didn't expect the plumbing to match the skyscraper. I didn't expect (or want) a 10"er.

Okay thanks for the words of encouragement. I'm sure your guy being 7 ft tall had the same insecurities though.

 

[IgotgoodD]

Porn is not real life. Shock and awe over dick size? Not from this woman. Penises are a guy’s issue.

If you’re looking for a reaction to your penis, bedazzle it. No one expects a bedazzled penis.

If penises were a guy issue I don't think it would be an issue but okay if you say so. On the other hand a scorned woman will go right for a man's penis size with disdain once things go sour.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Bottom line, if you are getting objectified and you didn’t sign up for it, bail.

 

[TinyPrincess]

So I've been very insecure about my height proportionate to my penis size. Many of the women I've encountered have hinted to me that they imagine I have a 10+ inch penis but it's 8 inches and not really that thick. Do all women expect a black guy who is 6'2 or taller to have a massive dick? I feel like I disappoint women and I've never got the "shock" reaction that you would see women give in porn films. It's an ego thing of course but also it sucks having anxiety not living up to the standard of a tall black man. Especially white women, they are the queens of expecting "BBC".

I don't even know where to start.

• Race and size isn't correlated, so do yourself a favour and stop believing in the BBC myth - it's only a myth.
• Embrace your true size (not the 8" stuff) but your real size. Live with it and learn to use it.
• The "shock" in porn is scripted - might stoke the guy's ego but hardly something to expect IRL.

 

[286798]

Okay thanks for the words of encouragement. I'm sure your guy being 7 ft tall had the same insecurities though.

Insecurity? Not exactly. Like a lot of guys, he thinks it's a monster. It's toward the larger end of what I've experienced (which is not a big sample size), but I bet if you asked him, he'd say he's 8". He's not.

As has been said in this forum numerous times... unless you're at the far end of the spectrum (large or small), penis size is not a woman's issue. It's a man's issue and it's primarily between his ears.

 

[IgotgoodD]

I don't even know where to start.

• Race and size isn't correlated, so do yourself a favour and stop believing in the BBC myth - it's only a myth.
• Embrace your true size (not the 8" stuff) but your real size. Live with it and learn to use it.
• The "shock" in porn is scripted - might stoke the guy's ego but hardly something to expect IRL.

Not sure what you mean by embrace my true size. I wouldnt say i'm 8 inches if I didn't measure it (and obviously still dont think its big enough) However, I'm glad there's women out there that realize it's a myth. Even though I'm 100% sure all of my sexual encounters were with women who believed in the myth.

 

[4388301]

If penises were a guy issue I don't think it would be an issue but okay if you say so. On the other hand a scorned woman will go right for a man's penis size with disdain once things go sour.

Nope. Not me or mine. Go figure. My social circle be better than that kind of shite. Not claim paragon o humanity, but better than stoop to inane crud 'bout dick size? Yup.

Ya gonna run into fetishist who want the racist, gross, bbc experience. Not condone, but it exist and ya gonna encounter it. Me, I deal with fetishist with gross racist crap too. So does my partner. People can be gross and racist, go figure. One or some does no mean all.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Not sure what you mean by embrace my true size. I wouldnt say i'm 8 inches if I didn't measure it (and obviously still dont think its big enough) However, I'm glad there's women out there that realize it's a myth. Even though I'm 100% sure all of my sexual encounters were with women who believed in the myth.

So don’t boink people who think you are a kink dispenser.

 

[sweetlucky12]

You lose me when's you phrase it “but 8 inches” - like that’s small. As someone married to a guy with 8 thick inches believe me that I am not disappointed that he isn’t 10. Ten inches would just be impractical for me - heck for that matter I wish the hubby was even a bit shorter from time to time.

 

[EllieP]

As I've said ad nauseum, if you're a guy then there's a 99.9% chance you'll have a penis. And it's usually only the penis owner who is concerned about size.

 

[deleted924715]

No. I don't "expect" BBC.

IME you'll find few women as influenced by porn as you are